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29 votes
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How do you live simply/save money? What does your lifestyle look like?
I’m thinking of ways to live in better simplicity and with more intentionality. I find this deeply challenging in practice, so I’d love to hear what works for you! I’m thinking about this from...
I’m thinking of ways to live in better simplicity and with more intentionality. I find this deeply challenging in practice, so I’d love to hear what works for you!
I’m thinking about this from three angles:
- Psychologically, I’m trying to be more satisfied with what I do have rather than wanting to make more money. When I spend on a luxury, I’d prefer that it feel meaningful. I’d like to better control my impulses.
- Financially, I’d like to have lower expenses so that I can save more for meaningful purchases. It also provides some comfort to know I’m living beneath my means.
- Ethically, I’d like to use less electricity (environmental reasons) and also donate more to useful charitable initiatives in my community. Years ago I was influenced by Peter Singer’s essay “Famine, Affluence, and Morality” and still take its principles seriously.
So I’m looking for two categories of advice:
- Ways to spend less money on anything in particular, sacrificing (yes) some luxury.
- Substitutes for expensive activities/experiences/objects that provide the same or more emotional value.
My current lifestyle is relatively simple except that I enjoy traveling a bit too much. I used to fly a lot, which was pricey and bad for the environment. I miss my foreign friends though!
I live in a bustling part of a large city, which is amazing except it means I’m constantly presented with expensive temptations. I like this place and don’t wish to leave, so I’m relying on habits/systems & willpower here.
Examples of things I do already:
- My city is pretty cheap for its amenities. My building is more affordable than most in my neighborhood. (I originally planned to move to New York, but…) It has various comforts, but I’m trying to use the appliances less. It’s hard to keep the AC off in the heatwaves though! And the dryer is so convenient.
- I live in an apartment with a roommate. I enjoy the companionship. It also cuts most living expenses in half. I’ve thought about buying a small condo, but that seems hard to do without raising my monthly payments. I’m getting attached to my neighborhood/area, limiting my options somewhat.
- I ride a bicycle instead of owning a car. I take the bus to work, or sometimes bike (about 25 miles each way). I walk a lot, which lets me see the city up close. I only use ridehailing services once or twice per year. I was thinking of buying a folding bike to cut the commute time in half (train -> bike), but I hesitate to buy a budget one; I’m afraid it’ll break.
- Meals lately are mostly staple ingredients (rice, beans, frozen vegetables, canned fish) and cheaper ready-made meals. I try not to buy anything over 25¢/oz ($4/lb). I think my grocery runs average 15–20¢/oz ($2.40–3.20/lb) at Walmart or Aldi. I have a bunch of bougie preferences I’m trying to get over—fancy pasta sauces and such. I prefer cooking on intuition rather than recipes (impatient). I love restaurants for the experience more than the taste of the food. I kinda miss eating out more often, it’s just so wasteful.
- I love socializing, but the drinks and coffees and lunches and dinners add up fast! Much of my social activity is community organizing and dancing, which is itself inexpensive/free, but that often involves regional train trips and business lunches and miscellaneous weird expenses, so I’m slowly doing less of that in some ways, which is both good and bad.
- Importantly, I’ve been working on being more satisfied with doing less. Not going to every event. Not buying the snack I want. Not seeing faraway friends as much. Not going back to Paris another time. 🙄 Finding ways to frame these changes positively (“going to the things I care about most,” “living with intentionality,” “making friends closer to home”…) is possible but something I continually struggle with.
Whatever your financial station I would be very interested to hear what you do to maximize your happiness on your income and be more satisfied with life’s simple pleasures!
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Jet Lag Season 18: Stateside Scramble | Trailer
21 votes -
A hacker's arrest reveals Microsoft can track users via a Windows device ID
39 votes -
What programming/technical projects have you been working on?
This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's...
This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's interesting about it? Are you having trouble with anything?
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Unreleased OpenAI model escapes containment and hacks into HuggingFace
37 votes -
France becomes the first EU country to ban social media for children
20 votes -
Long presumed dead, a thriving coral reef is discovered in West Africa
19 votes -
Tildos, let's be unserious for a while; show us your dankest memes and god-tier shitposts!
Have you seen any memes or shitposts lately (...or not lately) that you loved or otherwise found super hilarious? Share them with the community!
63 votes -
Your cookware got worse on purpose: who owns Pyrex and All-Clad now
58 votes -
AI companies are buying tons of old books because they're free of AI slop
19 votes -
Image Comics to leave GlobalComix on August 2nd, 2026
3 votes -
America’s enterprising spirit is booming after decades-long slump
18 votes -
Looking for a Bluetooth car stereo deck that is simple and not ugly
I prefer physical buttons and something that does not have a large screen and looks simple enough that it could be OEM. Does anything like this exist? All options seem to be cheap and ugly with...
I prefer physical buttons and something that does not have a large screen and looks simple enough that it could be OEM. Does anything like this exist? All options seem to be cheap and ugly with flashing lights, or a giant touch screen.
9 votes -
Midweek Movie Free Talk
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
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What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them?
What have you been playing lately? Discussion about video games and board games are both welcome. Please don't just make a list of titles, give some thoughts about the game(s) as well.
18 votes -
Hi, how are you? Mental health support and discussion thread (July 2026)
This is a monthly thread for those who need it. Vent, share your experiences, ask for advice, talk about how you are doing. Let's make this a compassionate space for all who may need one.
18 votes -
Hack reveals suno AI music generator scraped YouTube, Deezer, and Genius
28 votes -
Avengers: Doomsday | Official trailer
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US judge approves a $1.5B Anthropic settlement over books used to train Claude
18 votes -
Protect your privacy with California's DROP tool (Delete Request and Opt-out Platform, for California residents)
34 votes -
DNA tests are uncovering the true prevalence of incest (gifted link)
34 votes -
Sony Pictures looking to bring Cinerama Dome and Hollywood Arclight back to life
7 votes -
The Odyssey - discussion thread
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Spoiler discussion for Christopher Nolan's The Odyssey
39 votes -
Other Mommy | Official trailer
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‘The Odyssey’ conquers $264m+ around the world, best ever for Christopher Nolan ahead of ‘Dark Knight Rises’
40 votes -
Generals.io: a simple yet very cool online real time strategy game
33 votes -
Reddit will require you to be logged in to use old.reddit.com
117 votes -
Sami Pajari claimed the first victory of his World Rally Championship career with a dominant performance at Rally Estonia
6 votes -
New Jersey makes it illegal to interfere with reproductive or gender-affirming healthcare
32 votes -
Shropshire blacksmith is part of a team that has been invited to Denmark to forge an authentic anchor for a reconstructed Viking ship
15 votes -
TV Tuesdays Free Talk
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Have you watched any TV shows recently you want to discuss? Any shows you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
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I built another damn To-do app
Hello! First, some context- I have a very particular way I keep track of my work and take notes throughout my work week. This is currently managed through an ever-growing list of Notion pages. And...
Hello!
First, some context- I have a very particular way I keep track of my work and take notes throughout my work week. This is currently managed through an ever-growing list of Notion pages. And Notion is great! It does a ton of stuff really well, but it's also suffered from a lot of feature bloat over the years and has just enough oddities to irk me on the daily.
So, I built a thing. I call it True To-do because it's fun to say and I'm okay at software and less okay at marketing. It is an opinionated daily work tracker with a lot of little features:
- You can set a standard template that gets auto-copied to certain days of the week
- Supports infinite nesting and expanding/collapsing of those nested items
- Unfinished work the from the previous day can be auto-copied to new days
- It has various tools like a data roll-up and data controls
- It supports loading itself as an offline desktop app (PWA)
- Has many configurable settings for making the interface go from full to minimal
- Dark theme!
It is also 100% free, has no tracking, no cookies, no ads, doesn't ask for your email, your data does not leave your device, and is pretty performant (better than Notion, at least). It was written heavily with AI, but not by AI - It was directed, reviewed, and corrected by me.
What it does not have is any kind of user account feature. Everything stays on the device and will not transfer between devices unless you manually export and import the data. Maybe I'll add support for that at some point, I'm not sure. It is also only okay on mobile/tablet- this app was really made for desktop.
Anyways, give it a play around. It was purpose built by me for me but love to share the things I make when I think others may get some use out of them as well. I welcome feedback / bug reports / suggestions / etc.
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How are you different than you were last week?
Doesn't have to be literally "last week", but what's a recent personal change for you? Why? Was it a conscious decision, a slow realization, a response to something, etc.? Tell us all about it.
35 votes -
Felicia Day will crowdfund a movie spinoff of The Guild this summer
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A skeptical overview of AI and consciousness
14 votes -
How did I miss Pay Per Crawl?
17 votes -
Netflix teams with SignUp Media to add ASL to 200 hours of kids shows
25 votes -
Midweek Movie Free Talk
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
8 votes -
Babylon 5 S01E19: "A Voice in the Wilderness Part 2" - Episode Discussion
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We reviewed designs for the buckled Midtown high-rise. What we found raises questions.
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What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking?
What food and drinks have you been enjoying (or not enjoying) recently? Have you cooked or created anything interesting? Tell us about it!
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What self-help / personal development books did you find valuable?
Which titles have you enjoyed in the "self-help" or personal development category? How did they help you and what lasting changes have you made since reading them?
28 votes -
Human mathematicians are being outcounterexampled
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China wants to use 115,000 banned Nvidia chips to fulfil its AI ambitions
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Question for those who played both the original and remake of Final Fantasy VII
I’ve never played the original and am playing through the first game in the remakes and was curious if: you generally like the remake series so far? the characters had the same personality you...
I’ve never played the original and am playing through the first game in the remakes and was curious if:
- you generally like the remake series so far?
- the characters had the same personality you imagined now that they’re fully voiced?
- the overall atmosphere/vibe is the same/similar?
- Anything else you’d like to mention as being surprising or disappointing when comparing the two.
18 votes -
MTA says G train shutdown worth it to finally modernize Brooklyn-Queens subway line
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How much energy do data centers and artificial intelligence use?
21 votes -
LGBTQ+ Legislative Tracking project has compiled anti-LGBTQ+ US legislation stretching back more than twenty years
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Thousands of historical reenactors have gathered in Grunwald, Poland, to commemorate the 616th anniversary of the Battle of Grunwald (video)
8 votes