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We all have words we dislike for one reason or another. I am specifically talking about words that are non-problematic, so slurs and politically incorrect words are out of the scope of this post. I am talking about words that you find inane, dense, overly broad, vague, imprecise, pedantic, confusing, or inadequate for any reason. Maybe you just don't like how they sound.
As long as it is not a slur or politcally incorrect, for the purposes of this post, anything goes! Any language too!
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Everyone knows about the big stuff we're good at, which are sometimes linked to our personal projects and professional activities. That is not what this post is about.
Here, I am asking about the little things that distinguish you. Your quirky superpower that impresses no one (or maybe just a few). Maybe this is something odd you never really made any effort to learn.
Some people just have this ability to whistle really loudly, or make the largest bubble gum bubbles.
What is your silly talent?
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Physically, mentally, spiritually, your beliefs, your habits, your outlook, etc.
The changes you highlight can be positive, negative, neutral, or mixed. They can be bigtime things or small little details.
How have you changed, developed, and/or grown?
Also, apologies in advance for potentially causing some aging-related crises in people, but a reminder that 10 years ago was 2015.
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You were ahead of the curve, or most people thought otherwise, or somebody vehemently opposed you, etc.
But it turns out you were right.
This is your chance to share your vindication.
As always, the question is open to all answers: simple or complex; funny or serious; tiny or significant.
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Yes, I realize the answer is “everything.”
I intend the question to be less about simply naming answers and more about surfacing their associated complexity.
Walk us through something you know well so that we can appreciate how not simple it actually is!
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Share some digital clutter from one of your hard drives -- something from a LONG time ago. For example: a to-do list, poetry, a script you wrote, a PowerPoint presentation, etc.
Give us the date the file was created/modified.
And, if you so choose, give us context on the file (but if you'd rather let it speak for itself, feel free!).
The Great, The Lionheart, Our Lady of the Grackles, Olaf the Holy, Athena Glaukopis (grey-eyed), Emperor Youngzheng (meaning The Just/Justified), Amenhotep the Magnificent, Solomon the Wise, Much-Enduring Odysseus, The King of Pop, The Sultan of Swat, the Iron Lady, and perhaps for someone, Couch Potato are all epithets. For folks unfamiliar with the term, an epithet is a descriptive word or phrase that accompanies or replaces the name of a person. (Before surnames this was often used too just not passed down, with some of the occupational ones "the Smith" turning into surnames "Smith"
Sometimes it's used to distinguish Charles the Fat from Charles the Bald, or just to tell people you think they're Great (or Terrible), but it wouldn't be the same as just calling Charles bald today, it's how you actually refer to him. Homer used it a lot, and so did Shakespeare. And it has continued through the present with Oz the Great and Powerful, The Man of Steel, and King James.
So, my fellow Tildis, if you were to have one, what would be your epithet? Feel free to choose one that you want or share what you think others would call you. Or ask for others to give you an appellation directly if you so desire!
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I gotta admit, I grew up with a thrifty father who definitely taught me to watch my pennies. So now its second nature. I very rarely buy anything brand new because I just cant stomach the price of new things.
eg. Our little EV, some poor soul paid 34k USD brand new. We bought it 3 years old with only 20,000 miles on it for 8k. Thats a heckuva lot of money saved for a car thats still barely used. This week I was shopping for a wake surf board for one of my grandkids and picked up a new looking board for $200. New price is over $700. WHY would you want to pay full price on stuff thats barely used when you can get it for a fraction of the price and let someone else take the hit? Take the saved money and invest it and you're miles ahead of the 'gotta be new and the latest and greatest' buyers. It's all gonna be dust some day anyway.
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You know when you’re in the shower and you play out a conversation in your head and say all the right things?
Often it’s a throwback to a previous conversation you actually had IRL where you didn’t quite get out what you wanted to, and it’s only with time and separation that you’re able to give your words the precision and clarity you want.
Let us know about a recent one you’ve had. What was the argument? Who was it with? What clarity did you achieve?
Also, for the purposes of the question, I used “shower argument” because it is a more familiar term than “shower conversation.” Your response doesn’t have to be a true argument. It doesn’t even have to be a conversation either. Any shower thinking that has led to a resolution counts.
There's nothing I enjoy more than waking up late and going through the day without checking the time, and I make a point to do that for myself every year for my birthday. What sort of gifts do you give to yourself to celebrate the day?
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I finally watched Buffy and Angel like a year or 2 ago and except for the first season and last 2 seasons of Buffy and some parts of Angel, I absolutely loved it.
this quote from Angel really got me
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/1337314-nothing-in-the-world-is-the-way-it-ought-to
We live as though the world was what it should be, to show it what it can be.
No way to really tell who came up with that quote but I consider it problematic just due to the association with Joss Whedon.
But it got me curious if there are other examples of this out there? anyone like quotes that fit this kinda mold? Quotes have a certain heft to them but are from people later revealed to not be the stand-up guy we'd assumed/hoped they are?
I was having a conversation that made me go "damn the Romans for using up all the herbal birth control." Normally I'm not interested in doing time travel because I am too queer, loud, non-binary, woman coded, etc. to not get some sort of societal consequence in most of history. Also I like modern medicine and such. But, it got me thinking about how it'd be cool to be able to bring a large silphium plant back from before it went extinct.
Obviously I have no idea of the efficacy of silphium for medicinal purposes but it would be super cool to be able to grow it, sequence the DNA, and try to reintroduce it, even if only in gardens. And maybe it's actually even effective medically.
So what would you bring back?
Caveats:
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There's a lot of amazing stuff out there that we take for granted these days, but today's normal is yesterday's dream for the future.
What's something possible/happening now that is decidedly futuristic?
You know, like the idea that I can type these words and within seconds they can be read by people across the globe!
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I'll go first. I don't like to sleep in the dark, even though it's considered normal. I usually fall asleep with the lights on and either the computer/tv still on as well. This mostly came about because as a night owl, I would often just pass out and incidentally not turn the lights off. Now I've grown so accustomed to it that attempting to sleep in darkness feels strange and uncomfortable. I used to feel a bit guilty about 'wasting electricity,' but since the advent of LED lightbulbs and low-powered computers, I no longer do.
That's my quirk, what's yours?
An idea, a perception, a feeling, an understanding, a concept, a framework, a belief, a response, a decision, etc.
What were you wrong about?
What changed your perception?
What has been gained/lost from your new understanding?
Important: It takes a lot of courage and self-reflection for someone to admit when they're wrong. Please honor that in this topic.
I do not want this topic to be a place where people have their previous wrongs used against them. I want this to be a place of honest, empathetic growth rather than a score-keeping battleground. Give hugs, not hurt.
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I've set up a very small soapbox here. It's cute.
You can step up on it to rant, but it only supports small rants. Tiny ones. Cute ones. Rants about low-stakes, inconsequential stuff.
It can hold up the weight of approximately one oxford comma, so please don't get too heavy and crush it.
Anyone want to step on it and give us your 0.02 cents?
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Recently, my COVID-era friend circle has drifted apart. It was a lot of little things that changed our priorities. We had / lost partners, went sober, got in-person jobs, got stressful jobs, made more / less money, etc. It was also the continual theme of realizing that after 3+ years, we hadn't necessarily broken the surface on our friendships with everyone in the groups.
I tend to feel relationships are generally a little ephemeral, especially in our age group (late 20s / 30s -- which is to say, anything can happen). You drift apart, and sometimes back again, and sometimes apart again, and it's just life. I feel pretty okay about it, although it's a bit sad. Given that we're at the five year mark, I thought it might be an interesting prompt.
Not firsthand heartbreak that happened to you directly, but secondhand heartbreak: it happened to someone else, but the impact hit your heart too.
Could be their break-up, rejection, missed opportunity, loss, layoff, etc.
What happened to them?
And why did your heart break for them?
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Something that got away from you. What was it? Why did you miss it? How do you feel about it now?
You do it, and it's against the grain -- outside the norm.
But you like it, or think it's worthwhile.
In fact, you'd recommend that more people do it, so that it can shift the grain or become the norm.
What is it, and why do you recommend it?
The previous introductions thread was waaaaay back in June of 2023, figured it might be time for a new one, eh?
This is a place for new and existing users to post an introduction with a few fun facts about themselves. You will find the post box at the bottom the page. Maybe say "Hi!" to someone else you see while scrolling down?
If you like, you can also write something about yourself in your profile. See "Edit your user bio" on the settings page. Anyone who clicks on your username will see it in your profile. (It appears on the right side of the page.)
You can find out more about how to use Tildes in this topic: "New users: Ask your questions about Tildes here!.
**How long have you been on Tildes? How did you find out about us?**
**How did you choose your username?**
**What are your interests?**
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**What do you do? This could be in your spare time, for work, your passions.**
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**Give us a fun fact (or a link!)! If there is anything to know about tilderinos, it's that we value knowledge sharing!**
Anxieties, fears, bad habits, childcare, etc.
What keeps you up? This is a place where you can get those thoughts out of your head and into words instead.
For those reading the responses here, please practice empathetic listening — especially for those sharing difficult thoughts or feelings. It is much more important that someone feel heard and understood than it is to try to solve their situation.
I loved the notes app post (h/t @kwfyre) and that led me to think about the motivational or inspiring quotes that mean something to you whether they're well known or more obscure, whether said IRL or in fiction!
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Post something from your notes app that you think might be a good conversation starter.
Including but not limited to:
You can post the quote just on its own, or you can post it and add some context/questions to it as well. Anything you think might spark some good discussion or thought in others.
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Sometimes, after I get home from work, I have a surprisingly strong urge to not be wearing socks. Like, my feet themselves YEARN to be free of their cotton confines!
I have no idea how or why this happens, only that it does sometimes. I also don't really have a name for it -- or even an easy way to put it into words. It feels similar to how restless leg syndrome manifests for me, only instead of the compulsion to move my feet, it's a compulsion to not be stuck in socks.
What feelings do you have that aren't really nameable/describable? Do your best to put them into words in whatever way you can!
"Feelings" can be anything -- physical or emotional.
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