This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's interesting about it? Are you having trouble with anything?

Previously, I wondered what model car I should buy if I wanted to maintain my privacy. Thanks to everyone who chimed in, especially @kari, @qot, and @Narry. Although I astound myself to be typing this, I may just have found an option in a Cadillac Lyriq.

Earlier this year, the FTC banned GM from selling driver data to consumer reporting agencies and GM ended their egregious program. This and privacy laws in my state give me some small hope of avoiding the worst data collection practices. But, if I buy this car, I would want greater certainly that can only be had by physical intervention. Local audio/security aftermarket installers have nothing for me. Would anyone have a resource or ideas?

Australia vs England, 4th Test at Melbourne Cricket Ground: Day 1: Stumps - Australia lead by 46 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Australia Inning 1                    - 152/10           45.2
Australia Inning 2                    - 4/0           0.6
England Inning 1                      - 110/10           29.5

50 Over Matches

Bengal vs Baroda, Group B at Niranjan Shah Stadium C: Baroda won by 4 wkts

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Bengal Inning 1                       - 205/10           38.3
Baroda Inning 1                       - 209/6           38.5

Mumbai vs Uttarakhand, Group C at Sawai Mansingh Stadium: Mumbai won by 51 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Mumbai Inning 1                       - 331/7           49.6
Uttarakhand Inning 1                  - 280/9           49.6

Saurashtra vs Haryana, Group D at KSCA Cricket (2) Ground: Haryana won by 6 wkts

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Saurashtra Inning 1                   - 253/10           48.1
Haryana Inning 1                      - 256/4           38.6

Delhi vs Gujarat, Group D at BCCI Centre of Excellence Ground 1: Delhi won by 7 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Delhi Inning 1                        - 254/9           49.6
Gujarat Inning 1                      - 247/10           47.4

Uttar Pradesh vs Chandigarh, Group B at Sanosara Cricket Ground A: Uttar Pradesh won by 227 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Uttar Pradesh Inning 1                - 367/4           49.6
Chandigarh Inning 1                   - 140/10           29.3

Bihar vs Manipur, Plate at JSCA International Stadium Complex: Bihar won by 15 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Bihar Inning 1                        - 284/10           49.6
Manipur Inning 1                      - 269/9           49.6

Arunachal Pradesh vs Mizoram, Plate at JSCA Oval Ground: Arunachal Pradesh won by 35 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Arunachal Pradesh Inning 1            - 254/10           49.4
Mizoram Inning 1                      - 219/10           44.4

T20 Matches

Durban Super Giants vs MI Cape Town, 1st Match at Newlands: Durban Super Giants won by 15 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Durban Super Giants Inning 1          - 232/5           19.6
MI Cape Town Inning 1                 - 217/7           19.6

Sharjah Warriorz vs Desert Vipers, 28th Match at Sharjah Cricket Stadium: Desert Vipers won by 5 wkts

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Sharjah Warriorz Inning 1             - 140/7           19.6
Desert Vipers Inning 1                - 144/5           19.3

Sri Lanka Women vs India Women, 3rd T20I at Greenfield International Stadium: India Women won by 8 wkts

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Sri Lanka Women Inning 1              - 112/7           19.6
India Women Inning 1                  - 115/2           13.2

Bhutan vs Myanmar, 3rd T20I at Gelephu International Cricket Ground: Bhutan won by 82 runs

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Bhutan Inning 1                       - 127/9           19.6
Myanmar Inning 1                      - 45/10           9.2

Cambodia vs Indonesia, 5th T20I at Udayana Cricket Ground: No result due to rain

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Cambodia Inning 1                     - 157/5           19.6
Indonesia Inning 1                    - 14/0           0.6

Perth Scorchers vs Hobart Hurricanes, 12th Match at Perth Stadium: Hobart Hurricanes won by 4 wkts

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Perth Scorchers Inning 1              - 150/8           19.6
Hobart Hurricanes Inning 1            - 153/6           19.3

Auckland vs Northern Knights, 1st Match at Seddon Park: No result due to rain

Innings                               - Runs/Wickets    Overs
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Auckland Inning 1                     - 201/8           19.6

As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do nothing at all? Tell us about it!

What have you been listening to this week? You don't need to do a 6000 word review if you don't want to, but please write something! If you've just picked up some music, please update on that as well, we'd love to see your hauls :)

Feel free to give recs or discuss anything about each others' listening habits.

You can make a chart if you use last.fm:

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Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

Sadly, I think I need to reduce my coffee intake. I only ever had a cup a day, but I've always been in to light roasts... roasted within walking distance of my house*... super fancy shit. Anyway, I'm trying to nail down some health things, so coffee has to go for a time.

I am now a tea person. I don't really like it, but I need something like that in the morning. I've started with Lapsang Souchong. This is pretty much the only tea I've ever had. I don't have any dairy in my diet, either, which seems to be a big part of tea-life.

Any top tips for getting into tea? I was just mocked for weighing tea... I guess that isn't as important in this scene.

* not joking about this :)

edit: thanks everybody! the first round of teas are:

• Lapsang Souchong
• Hojicha
• Irish Breakfast
• Margaret's Hope

so far so good!

Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like christmas, sermons and 60 minutes. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was inquisitive.

But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

What have you been watching and reading this week? You don't need to give us a whole essay if you don't want to, but please write something! Feel free to talk about something you saw that was cool, something that was bad, ask for recommendations, or anything else you can think of.

If you want to, feel free to find the thing you're talking about and link to its pages on Anilist, MAL, or any other database you use!

Hi, Tilderites! I'm looking for a system and/or tool to better manage my tasks and to-do's. I'd like to become more productive & responsive.

My current system is a mix of "mark as unread" for emails, physical "to-do" scribbles on post-it notes, reminders in my phone, and other digital notes. My problem is that once I add something to a task list, I inconsistently follow up on it. My other problem is that most of these tasks are unrelated, so mixing them together is confusing. My ultimate goal is to lighten my mental overhead without reducing productivity.

I need a clear, centralized place to commit to keeping all my atomic tasks outside my 9–5: my social life, family, volunteering, any freelance work, housekeeping, personal projects, and so on.

What tools do you use to stay organized? Do you have any advice for time management?

Extra preferences:

• I'd like to try tools designed for mobile and desktop.
• I love visual tools and benefit from something visually intuitive (but customizable). I love colors.
• Happy to pay for a productivity tool if it's effective.
• I'd like a "one-stop shop" because maintaining different task lists in different tools seems messy. I encapsulate all 9–5 work tasks in a ticket tracking system. That's fine for work, but I only want 2 task apps, not 5. And I'm not sure if an Agile-like system works so well for me in real life.
• I'm looking for something that can capture all my different categories or "tracks" of tasks without burying anything. I prefer to minimize context-switching, so I don't want everything to be visually mixed together; it'll distract me. But I want to make sure I don't forget a whole area of tasks. So this is partially a UI/UX question: what tools have the depth to do this?
• My calendar is neatly organized and color-coded. I rely on it to remember daily obligations. Perhaps I could tie a task management tool into my calendar better.

Maybe you can also offer advice on systems to maintain discipline and follow-up. My highly structured calendar is great and I mostly adhere to it. However, I haven't figured out how to utilize the calendar for oceans of teeny-tiny tasks, so I need something to complement it. In addition to a tool, I'm sure I could benefit from a new philosophical perspective or mental approach to staying tidy.

Thanks in advance! :)

Like the title says! For some reason I have actually woken up before my kids and I’m the only person stirring in the house — I have nothing to do but browse Tildes while I wait for the day to get started. What’s everyone’s plan today?

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My partner and I were talking about how buzzed Santa must get from his light-speed jaunt around the world, drinking up everyone's booze, but it didn't occur to me that maybe leaving him alcohol is not a typical tradition outside of the UK!

If you celebrate Christmas, and leave (or have left) a drink and/or snack for Father Christmas, where are you from, and what do you leave?

Preface: Sorry if this isn't the place, and if I'm cagey on some specifics. Also sorry for the length, this turned out a lot longer than I anticipated.

My partner and I have been together for nearly 8 years at this point. This was my first serious, long-term committed relationship; every other one I'd had was short-lived (<3 months) and I hadn't exactly had a lot of them. Maybe this is why I was blind to the cracks until things got unavoidable.

It started off strong and passionate of course, and things moved rather quickly. We (they, I'm not on the title) bought a house and we were expecting a child within a year. I should have kept things slower, thought with my head instead of blindly following my heart. I'd been very lonely for a very long time. I was happy those first few years, even if in hindsight the cracks were beginning to show. Even before baby came along, intimacy fell off a cliff. I had many talks about this with them, which led nowhere much really. The rest of the relationship still felt solid to me though. I pressed on.

In the beginning, they had a better job than I did. I earned far less. Luckily an opportunity came up for me to finish my schooling and further my career, and I put a lot of work into achieving just that. Now things have changed with that, and I feel like we could be doing well together... If it weren't for the financial instability I feel they bring. I'd never been great with money, but my partner's father took me under his wing and taught me a lot of financial literacy. I became adept at putting together spreadsheets and managing our finances. Our first major crisis we overcame together through being very fiscally conservative and digging our way out. We also had several windfalls that helped us out. Then... another crisis, again because of overspending on their end. We pulled from our IRAs in order to stay afloat, with promises to do better. Then... another crisis. Again. Same reasons. We put together a loan against the home's equity. More promises.

We are again heading to a crisis. We are out of windfalls and options and frankly I'm exhausted.

Finally, parenting and housekeeping. I've always loved how my partner cares so much for their children (from a prior relationship) as well as ours. They have a way of making magical moments which I envy. This is contrasted by their complete inability to parent effectively. There's no consequences, no expectations, no boundaries, and it's infuriating. Initially it wasn't quite that bad, and I felt I had equal say in parenting. Over the years, that's eroded to my partner viewing me as authoritarian and domineering. The kids know they'll get their way with them so why would they ever come to me first?

Maybe it was the extra time during COVID but they also put more effort into housekeeping early on as well. Now I feel it mostly falls on my shoulders, and my will to clean and keep up is murdered by the fact that within hours it's a mess again. It isn't helped by the fact that my partner is a hoarder. I have to gut things from the house in secret. I haven't seen the corners of my walls in ages. I spent a week while they were away cleaning the home top to bottom last year. Within a day it looked like a bomb went off.

These are all things I've tried discussing with them, multiple times, over the years. I mostly get brushed off, or (what I feel now are) empty promises. Most infuriating to me is "I don't know what you want me to say." I want you to say what's in your heart, what you feel! Don't tell me something you think I want to hear, be honest.

I feel I know where this is going, I don't want to fall in the same trap I see many couples are in where it's clearly over and yet they keep moving along. We're not married, a clean break is reasonable, I know my partner can be mature about things because their relationship with their ex is amazingly calm and chill.

I'm terrified in a way of being alone again.

I don't really know where to turn for more perspective. I've already talked with my sister, and a close co-worker who is going through some of the same feelings I am. Those conversations have been very helpful. Recently, what really put things in stark contrast was the other day when my partner's father asked "So is everything ok between you two?" If he went out and asked, it means it's really obvious things are not ok.

I've been fantasizing a lot lately about what a split would be like. Making plans for where to go, and figuring out how to reconcile things like accounts, items, and debts. Worst of all I've been fantasizing about being with other people; the intimacy and passions has been gone between us for a long time. The last time my partner initiated anything between us was a year ago, and I don't even remember the time before that. Everything feels so wrong and unsatisfactory.

I told them yesterday we need a frank talk, and not through text this time - their preferred method of communication with me for a while now... But I have no idea when we even have time for that away from the kids.

Closing thought: I don't want to feel like I've pre-determined my outcome here. I feel I've done what I can though, to make my own feelings clear. Thank you for any thoughts.

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