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    7. Tilderinos who split after long (10–15 years) relationships: what led to it and how did it happen?

      ~life.men Ask (advice)
      If you were in a long (10–15 years is long to me) relationship but split around that mark, could you share? Specifically what led to it, how did you know it was the right thing to do, how did you...

      If you were in a long (10–15 years is long to me) relationship but split around that mark, could you share?

      Specifically what led to it, how did you know it was the right thing to do, how did you do it, and how did it go? How long did you have to think about ending the relationship before actually doing it? How did the other person react? How did you deliver the news?

      And how did you handle the aftermath, both emotionally but also materially (splitting all your things, deciding who keeps what trinkets, finding separate accommodations, etc)?

      I’ve been going through rough times for quite a while and I think I might have had enough… I’d like to learn from others to better understand where I’m standing.

      Edit: this is not an abusive relationship, nobody is in danger from the other person, and there are no children involved. Just the feeling that it’s not working out anymore, that’s it’s become harder and harder over the last 4 years, that partner can’t accept my shortcomings while expecting me to accept theirs, and very poor decisions that led us down a path we’re having a hard time recovering from (materially and emotionally). Like something broke that can never be put back together.

      Also, we’re not married and are renting. We file taxes separately and as far as the law is concerned common law requires some paperwork which we never did. So if we split we just walk away with what each has, we “only” have to figure out how to divide the stuff we owned together (appliances and that kind of stuff)

      39 votes

    8. TV Tuesdays Free Talk

      ~tv Ask (survey)
      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any TV shows recently you want to discuss? Any shows you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      5 votes

    24. Formula 1 Singapore Grand Prix 2026 - Race Weekend Discussion

      ~sports.motorsports Ask
      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Singapore Grand Prix
      Marina Bay Street Circuit
      October 9-11, 2026

      Sprint Race Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:33.477 1:32.701 1:31.156 15
      2 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:33.573 1:32.614 1:31.276 21
      3 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:33.495 1:32.246 1:31.399 19
      4 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:34.277 1:33.106 1:31.454 19
      5 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:34.257 1:32.572 1:31.587 15
      6 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:33.748 1:32.562 1:31.702 14
      7 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:34.392 1:32.998 1:31.849 20
      8 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:34.855 1:33.133 1:32.341 15
      9 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 1:34.182 1:32.947 DNF 15
      10 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:34.673 1:33.155 DNF 15
      11 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:35.048 1:33.249 12
      12 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:34.128 1:33.420 14
      13 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:34.950 1:33.423 12
      14 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:34.690 1:33.466 14
      15 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:34.960 1:33.734 12
      16 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:35.004 1:34.368 12
      17 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:35.136 6
      18 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:35.662 6
      19 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:36.130 7
      20 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:36.760 8
      21 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:36.868 9
      22 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:37.376 7

      Source: F1.com

      Sprint Race Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 20 39:48.162 8
      2 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 20 +2.591s 7
      3 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 20 +16.871s 6
      4 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 20 +17.238s 5
      5 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 20 +20.632s 4
      6 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 20 +24.321s 3
      7 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 20 +27.525s 2
      8 1 Lando Norris McLaren 20 +28.272s 1
      9 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 20 +36.220s 0
      10 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 20 +37.640s 0
      11 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 20 +50.464s 0
      12 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 20 +52.467s 0
      13 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 20 +55.792s 0
      14 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 19 DNF 0
      NC 23 Alexander Albon Williams 14 DNF 0
      NC 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 6 DNF 0
      NC 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 6 DNF 0
      NC 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 2 DNF 0
      NC 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 2 DNF 0
      NC 63 George Russell Mercedes 1 DNF 0
      NC 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1 DNF 0
      NC 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 0 DNF 0

      Source: F1.com

      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:33.241 1:31.639 1:31.373 15
      2 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:32.774 1:31.953 1:31.427 25
      3 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:32.429 1:31.529 1:31.496 25
      4 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:33.601 1:32.079 1:31.562 23
      5 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:32.775 1:31.895 1:31.712 24
      6 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:33.617 1:32.212 1:31.747 23
      7 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:33.076 1:32.245 1:31.860 22
      8 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:33.182 1:32.602 1:32.225 22
      9 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:32.885 1:32.319 1:32.369 21
      10 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:33.288 1:32.498 1:32.781 21
      11 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:33.147 1:32.784 19
      12 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:33.356 1:32.908 12
      13 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:33.803 1:33.323 15
      14 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:33.774 1:33.526 15
      15 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:34.169 1:33.658 19
      16 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:33.261 1:33.787 14
      17 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:34.223 9
      18 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:34.289 10
      19 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:34.946 8
      20 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:35.123 8
      21 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:35.984 10
      RT 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 3

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 62 1:42:00.785 25
      2 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 62 +7.335s 18
      3 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 62 +24.573s 15
      4 1 Lando Norris McLaren 62 +40.506s 12
      5 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 62 +49.644s 10
      6 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 62 +53.188s 8
      7 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 62 +81.666s 6
      8 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 62 +83.386s 4
      9 63 George Russell Mercedes 62 +84.677s 2
      10 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 62 +90.862s 1
      11 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 61 +1 lap 0
      12 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 61 +1 lap 0
      13 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 61 +1 lap 0
      14 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 61 +1 lap 0
      15 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 61 +1 lap 0
      16 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 61 +1 lap 0
      17 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 60 +2 laps 0
      18 23 Alexander Albon Williams 59 DNF 0
      19 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 59 +3 laps 0
      NC 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 36 DNF 0
      NC 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 29 DNF 0
      NC 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 7 DNF 0

      Fastest Lap: Charles Leclerc // 1:35.202 on lap 41
      DOTD: Max Verstappen

      Source: F1.com

      Next race:
      United States Grand Prix
      Circuit of the Americas
      October 23-25, 2026

      11 votes

    45. Timasomo 2026: Week 1 Updates

      ~creative.timasomo Text 59 words
      Update us on your progress in TIMASOORCOANOLPRTHYOALSTMO Timasomo so far! What did/didn't you get done this week? Anything go according to plan? Anything go off the rails? Any successes or...

      Update us on your progress in TIMASOORCOANOLPRTHYOALSTMO Timasomo so far!

      • What did/didn't you get done this week?
      • Anything go according to plan?
      • Anything go off the rails?
      • Any successes or struggles to share?
      • Do you need feedback or help on anything?

      This is your topic to share anything and everything you want about what you’ve made so far.

      19 votes