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8 votes
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A desperate rescue: A father's heartbreaking attempt to save his family from a raging fire
9 votes -
A Short Vision (1956)
4 votes -
"It took genius to chisel these buttocks" – The top ten bottoms in art, chosen by our critic
14 votes -
365 Days: The "Polish 50 Shades of Grey" has been a surprise smash on Netflix despite being absolutely terrible
12 votes -
Inside Second Life's most expensive brothel
8 votes -
A feud in wolf-kink erotic fanfiction raises deep legal questions about copyright and authorship
18 votes -
FC Seoul are facing penalties, including expulsion from their own stadium, for putting sex dolls on empty seats during a match last weekend
12 votes -
Games for "the flame"
TL;DR: What do you do with your SO (if anything) to spark some fun? Do you have a go-to move, or game that gets interest going for some fun? A lot of us have been sheltering in place for some time...
TL;DR: What do you do with your SO (if anything) to spark some fun? Do you have a go-to move, or game that gets interest going for some fun?
A lot of us have been sheltering in place for some time now due to covid-19. What do you do to keep things from getting stale- to show effort, appreciation, and attraction for your significant other?
I'm trying to keep things relatively fresh, but we don't have much space where we are. It takes, for example "naked billiards" off the table. I think they have a copy of "Twister" somewhere, so I might try to see if they're into a game night for some physical closeness. If you have a deck of cards, you can always do strip poker, but it might be a little underwhelming.
Of course, it doesn't always have to be a competition either, back/foot rubs are always a well received from both sides in my experience. I'm also aware of a concept called "Chore-Play[*]" and I try to do what I can to make sure my SO never feels like they're pulling the weight for both of us.
I obviously had a couple ideas, but I'm looking for some inspiration too! I'd like so have some things on the back-burner to whip out when the occasion calls for it, or when the time is right.
PS: I'm not really sure what to expect for responses to this, I know it's a rather personal topic and sharing information like that can be uncomfortable for some. You don't have to share what you do in your relationship if you're not comfortable (obviously), but maybe you share a link of some cool ideas you found somewhere instead? IDK, let's get creative with it!
[*]: With that being said, there is another definition of choreplay that I don't think is what we're after (collectively). I'm not talking about using sex as a bargaining chip for chores, which is what some perceive it as. I'm talking about taking the actions to make your partner feel like valued and appreciated half of the relationship. With those feelings of appreciation and care, comes romance and intimacy.
14 votes -
Why you should not put garlic in your vagina, as a treatment for yeast or anything else
@Jennifer Gunter: Why you should not put garlic in your vagina.A thread.Garlic contains allicin, in THE LAB it MAY have antifungal (i.e. anti yeast) properties. This is in a lab, not even in mice. Just a dish of cells. Your vagina is not a dish of cells. #vaginaisanogarliczone 1/8
15 votes -
Analysis and Qualitative Effects of Large Breasts on Aerodynamic Performance and Wake of a “Miss Kobayashi’s Dragon Maid” Character
16 votes -
Genuinely unnerving anime
4 votes -
Bara Karin – Fuck Me Like A Robot (2020)
4 votes -
Tonight (now with English subtitles!)
6 votes -
Highlights from the This is Gender photography competition
8 votes -
Andy Warhol's 1950s erotic drawings of men to be seen for first time - not displayed before due to homophobia artist encountered
14 votes -
When artificial intelligence lost in translation is
9 votes -
Hookers, Hustlers, Pimps & Their Johns
7 votes -
The plant ecology of the Los Angeles River
14 votes -
Men are scamming crisis hotlines to masturbate on calls
10 votes -
Man with 5.5-inch horn growing on his back slipped "through the net" docs say
18 votes -
Freddie Gibbs And Madlib: NPR Music Tiny Desk Concert (2019)
8 votes -
Megan Thee Stallion: NPR Tiny Desk Fest (Extended Concert Series) (2019)
5 votes -
Beautiful tomboys of the 1930s
15 votes -
Dragon Quest XI (dunkview)
4 votes -
Nutty Putty: ‘I really, really want to get out’
17 votes -
Long shot: The story of a Kurdish sniper
7 votes -
The Left Rights - I'M ON CRACK (2010)
6 votes -
She took her amputated leg home, and you can too
10 votes -
Blasphemous | Launch trailer
11 votes -
A very German idea of freedom: Nude ping-pong, nude sledding, nude just about anything
16 votes -
Mumiy Troll feat. Linda Leen and Yana Kay - Miedvieditsa (She-Bear/Ursa) (2003)
5 votes -
Queers in Love at the End of the World: A ten-second game
9 votes -
FKA Twigs - Cellophane (2019)
6 votes -
El Paso massacre galvanizes far-right accelerationists
12 votes -
The El Paso shooting and the gamification of terror
49 votes -
Against Me! - Bamboo Bones (2011)
7 votes -
bűnös & fáj
i intended to actually post these like three days ago but that didn't happen because it has to be super fucking late for me to even want to post these and unfortunately they've now aged...
i intended to actually post these like three days ago but that didn't happen because it has to be super fucking late for me to even want to post these and unfortunately they've now aged sufficiently that i categorize them firmly in the "intensely mediocre" column with everything i ever do. unfortunate, tbh. anyways here's stuff:
bűnös
UP AGAINST THE WALL, MOTHERFUCKER—
or i'll shatter your bones
and crush your heart—
to dance with me is to dance
a fine line that wrenches two worlds apartfor on one side there is a hall of saints—
on the other
the brimstone of hell—
and to stay on the side of the hall of saints
is something you'd best do well.and brave souls that dare toe the line—
that cross it
are mighty thin—
and their ranks are made of anarchists
who commit most grievous sin.UP AGAINST THE WALL, MOTHERFUCKER—
state your allegiance
to the vaunted line—
or soon you too shall join the ranks
of those who deserve malign.
fáj
when i was seventeen
the panic attacks began.
the nightmares.
the violence. the violence. the violence.violence is a funny little thing—
insidious, slithering in through one grate
and out the other.
it always begins with little things,
little fantasies in one ear and out the other.
dreams here and there, manufacturing terror and hurt.
invasive thoughts, marching to an intensifying drumbeat.
one offs.it's not normal to
want to hurt so bad.
it's not normal to
want to cut yourself everywhere,
is it?
to feel those feelings,
to bear them like a cross shackled on your back?
to wish some days you could cut to the bone
even though you're afraid of blood?
to mutilate yourself until you can't feel anymore
even though you know those feelings are irrational?
to wish you could die violently, publicly
even though you're afraid of death?violence isn't a very funny little thing—
terrifying, inescapable and ever recurring
one night after the other.
it was the little things once,
the little fantasies that used to be but now
consume the dreams, the
waking thoughts, becoming a great crescendo.
every day.when i was nineteen
the panic attacks were normal.
the nightmares.
the violence.12 votes -
How Pornhub and Girls Do Porn are enabling doxing and harassment
20 votes -
i woke up with a headache and found this in my notes. (the coffin song)
In the shadows Like a ghost you hide In the single most foreign Corners of my mind Therapy and pills still Can’t subside the angelic choir Of your pretty lies Promises you made, The bones I broke...
In the shadows
Like a ghost you hide
In the single most foreign
Corners of my mind
Therapy and pills still
Can’t subside the angelic choir
Of your pretty lies
Promises you made,
The bones I broke
You once took my breath
And now I choke
Jesus let me breathe
Is there hope for me?
.
Now I desire
The obscure
All that reminds
Of being yours
Your oils, poison
My waters, pure
Your love is cancer
There is no cure.
.
I watched my grandfather take his final breaths as he kissed my head and you held my hand. Not two months later you foresaw our end, and decided not to keep me, even as a friend.
And now you’re off, marriage in the plans. I pray your time falls like the sand and hits the bottom of every glass as fast as it can.
I have no home. I’m lost and cold. You promised me a home would grow. We got a dog, and had planned for more. Mouth of this world, a fish at shore you took my breath and killed me slow.
I’m suicidal, I have no hope. I’ve not a gun, don’t have a rope. The only reason I’ve not a note, I’d end it all, I’d end it all.
I just want to feel pretty.
Pretty loved and pretty free
But for now I keep to getting
Pretty drunk, it isn’t cheap
But I can afford it/‘s kinda sweet
Too bad you’re not round
To drink with me.
I’d fill the bottle
We’d watch the office
Instead I scar
Until I am solid
An ugly rock
A useless object
I’ll break my stones
And build a coffin
And die in your name
Die in your name.
11 votes -
my therapist won't return my calls (lmfao fuck me)
tw: self-harm; suicide; lost love. i hit my cigarette like an abuser hits her wife because i'm a fucking coward to afraid to take his life i've felt love before i beg it through the strife but i...
tw: self-harm; suicide; lost love.
i hit my cigarette
like an abuser hits her wife
because i'm a fucking coward
to afraid to take his life
i've felt love before
i beg it through the strife
but i only find a heart
at the wrong side of a blunt and useless knife
.
and it's only mine
at least there's proof
that i can feel
when blood protrudes.
but that's not "work appropriate"
so i get tattoos
what a shame i can't get paid to die.
12 votes -
Tim Minchin - Pope Song (2011)
7 votes -
Thomas Benjamin Wild Esq - No More Fucks To Give (2019)
4 votes -
Richard Cheese - People Equals Shit (Slipknot Cover) (2005)
6 votes -
Med students are doing vaginal exams on unconscious, non-consenting patients
17 votes -
Father-daughter border drowning highlights migrants' perils
14 votes -
If PornHub wants to support a cause, start with sex worker rights
12 votes -
The British sex workers fighting censorship
7 votes -
Why kink, BDSM, and leather should be included at Pride
6 votes -
The loophole: He held her down, choked her, and masturbated onto her. The law said it wasn't sexual assault.
22 votes