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11 votes
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Thousands apply to be a Finn for ninety days – Americans, Canadians and Britons among those lured by campaign to attract foreign tech workers
11 votes -
Germany and Finland have repatriated five women and eighteen children from Syrian camps housing suspected family members of Islamic State militants
6 votes -
My family’s slave
10 votes -
Denmark's prime minister has apologised to twenty-two children who were removed from their homes in Greenland in the 1950s in a failed social experiment
11 votes -
"Other countries have social safety nets. The US has women."
19 votes -
Friending and forgiving racists
9 votes -
How to talk to friends and family who share conspiracy theories: Fringe movements will persist long after Election Day. Here’s how to help.
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I cry for the mountains - A California rancher's account of the wildfires' devastating impact on his family, his cattle, and the forests
8 votes -
Remembering my father
11 votes -
A desperate rescue: A father's heartbreaking attempt to save his family from a raging fire
9 votes -
If you're a parent, what is it like?
If I see myself in someone's child here then I'm deleting this thread, no questions asked /s You should probably say/indicate your and your children's age and sex (can be plural, obviously.) You...
If I see myself in someone's child here then I'm deleting this thread, no questions asked /s
You should probably say/indicate your and your children's age and sex (can be plural, obviously.)
You can follow the Q&A format below but you don't have to.
A few questions that come to (my very uninitiated) mind are:
How much time do you spend on them?
If you aren't their biological parent:
(i.e you're
@aphoenixnot hetero and a parentdidn't want to go through fkin birthing peoplean adoptive parent, for example)- Where did you (uhh) find them?
- If it was an orphanage, what was it like there? (Can you even find children elsewhere if they don't have parents?)
- How many children were there to choose from?
- What led you to choose the child you picked in specific instead of someone else?
(Dear God, is this an ethical question to ask?)
How do you parent them?
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Do you follow what they're doing on the Internet or how much they use it? How much?
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Do you encourage them to have a good diet? How much?
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Do you encourage them to do more chores? How much?
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When you do this, how cooperative are they? If they aren't, what do you do to convince them?
How do you and your partner split the time spent taking care of them?
What was the most unexpected thing about parenting to you?
More personal questions below. (You can avoid these, I probably would too tbh)
If you had a particular preference/expectation for what you wanted/expected your child to be and got something else, what did you do?
How did birth(-ing?) go? What was it like?
What was being/seeing your partner be pregnant like?
Is there anything you regret doing when parenting them?
Why did you have them?
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My mother and my motherland - Jiayang Fan on the struggles of growing up as a poor immigrant, and how her desperate attempt to protect her hospital-bound mother was repurposed as Chinese propaganda
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Back to the land - Alice Driver writes about her father, a potter, and his ongoing project of building his own tomb as his final creative act
6 votes -
The value of extended families
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My nonbinary child: An anthropologist muses on what her career and child have taught her about gender stereotypes and fluidity
7 votes -
Coming out at ninety years old... to my gay daughter
7 votes -
Why Nigerians are muting their mothers on WhatsApp
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Young people around the world are less religious than their parents in several measures
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Family buys all of a Chicago paletero’s ice pops on Father’s Day, collects nearly $40K for him: ‘He refuses to stop working’
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Why are we so quick to scrutinise how low-income families spend their money?
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New York’s Gender and Family Project advises parents how to support their children’s gender expression
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Families of children with disabilities face acute challenges under COVID-19
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For those who (privately) aspire to become more reclusive
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A short history of child protection in the UK, with discussion about the impact of temporary coronavirus law
6 votes -
Man recreates supermarket at home for 87-year-old mother battling dementia
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Titus, Episode One - Dad's Dead
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Family violence perpetrators using COVID-19 as 'a form of abuse we have not experienced before'
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With the UK on coronavirus lockdown, some young people have been forced to isolate alongside parents who don't accept their sexuality
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Coronavirus has upended our world. It's okay to grieve
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The curse of an open floor plan
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Cheating on my parents: My own abusive mother and father were being replaced, and they knew it
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Four years, two continents: A gay Chinese couple's journey for a surrogate son
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The tears of our mothers
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A new book by Greta Thunberg's mother reveals the reality of family life during her daughter's transformation from bullied teenager to climate icon
14 votes -
Eight things toxic mothers have in common
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An app can be a home-cooked meal
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A photographer has spent twenty years documenting stillbirths. For grieving families, the photos preserve the only memories they have of their child
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Why it's cheaper to have a baby in Finland than in the US
11 votes -
The nuclear family was a mistake
14 votes -
The great affordability crisis breaking America
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New data from Sweden challenges the idea that parents of autistic children refrain from having more children, a practice known as reproductive stoppage
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Finland's woman-led center-left government plans to nearly double the length of paternity leave to give new fathers the same amount of paid time off work as new mothers
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James Joyce’s grandson and the death of the stubborn literary executor
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Two gay Chinese dads. One long and winding trip to fatherhood
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On the line between truth and fiction when writing about your family
8 votes -
Finland's family cafes are helping solve one of parenting's biggest problems – loneliness
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How my daughter disrupted my politics
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I'm freaking out and need advice
My mother died last month and I've been thinking of leaving my father's house ever since then. I initially thought I'd be okay with doing that, regardless of whether or not my father would object,...
My mother died last month and I've been thinking of leaving my father's house ever since then. I initially thought I'd be okay with doing that, regardless of whether or not my father would object, but he talked with me last night saying he'd be okay if I left and now I'm FREAKING OUT.
Background: I'm 23 and living in Houston, Texas. I have an older brother who lives in Dallas who offered to take me in, but it wouldn't be very permanent as he plans on leaving the country for a trip next year and will be gone for some time. I also have a friend from high school who offered me a room, but she lives in Seattle and was fired from her job. No one else who is close to me is able to offer me a place to stay.
My concerns: I dropped out of college. I was planning on going back but then my mother died and that plan was put on hold, so I don't have any marketable skills (I've only ever worked in retail). I also don't have a job lined up anywhere else. I've never had to take on so many bills at one time and therefore I don't know much about budgeting.
I'd like to leave, but where I am it's secure and comfy. Maybe it's finally time I pushed myself out of my comfort zone and start taking control of my own life, but I don't want to risk my safety and finances on a crazy idea.
I welcome any and all advice, and thanks for reading.
edit: changed a word
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When does a boyfriend or girlfriend become part of the family?
10 votes