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23 votes
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What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them?
What have you been playing lately? Discussion about video games and board games are both welcome. Please don't just make a list of titles, give some thoughts about the game(s) as well.
26 votes -
Reflections and gratitude for Tildes
Hello Tilderinos! As I am finally entering the holiday slowdown, I wanted to express my gratitude for the community here. I ended up migrating here from Reddit during the Apocalypse. Before that...
Hello Tilderinos! As I am finally entering the holiday slowdown, I wanted to express my gratitude for the community here.
I ended up migrating here from Reddit during the Apocalypse. Before that time, I would have told you that Reddit was a pretty good place, but after having time to detox and spending time here, I realize it was just better, but still pretty awful. With a few exceptions (like r/3Dprinting), the negativity I would get hit with when posting anything was pretty toxic.
I also set up Lemmy Sync on lemmy.world, but it's pretty much only good for scrolling shitposts and memes. Which sometimes I want, but if I dig into the comments under a topic, the noise factor is so high that it's usually not worth it.
Tildes is really different. The intentionality that people post with, the quality and positivity of the discussion is all amazing. One thing I enjoy especially is seeing reasonable people express views contrary to my own, and being to learn something from them.
This year has been a year of big changes for me. I left a 10 year run at a startup that was starting to lose the plot, becane a stay-at-home Dad to relaunch my wife's career, and wrestled with major health issues. All of that has been pretty isolating, but Tildes has been a bright spot of connection for me.
Sorry if this comes off as excessively cheesy, but I feel like it's a good time to take a moment and say "Thank you!" I am hoping that if something was really helpful to others, that they will take a moment to share it here.
87 votes -
Melancholy Christmas
I miss the magic of Christmas. Today and tonight feels ordinary to me, and I miss that sense of wonder. I miss the trips my family would take to visit our relatives. I miss the get-togethers, and...
I miss the magic of Christmas. Today and tonight feels ordinary to me, and I miss that sense of wonder.
I miss the trips my family would take to visit our relatives. I miss the get-togethers, and the feasting, and playing games with my cousins and the family friends.
Even though I'm an atheist now, I miss having to go to midnight mass. I miss the excitement of being able to open one present before going to bed.
Unless some tragedy befalls me, I'm sure I can recapture that magic in my future. I'm not depressed about it. But that's a hope for later. For now, this is it.
For everybody else out there who's having a so-so Christmas... wishing you all the best, and hope you can still find a moment to appreciate the holiday.
Normally in the evenings I have to myself, I keep busy and find satisfaction in coding, or writing, or gaming. Tonight, those things don't feel meaningful.
I just wish I had somebody special to share Christmas Eve with, like in all those cozy Christmas songs. Instead, I'm just tired and want to sleep... But I can't go to bed until me and my mom can get my dad changed, so he's not wet with urine the whole night. Just like last night, and the night before that, and the night before that.
I wish I could have gotten to know my dad as well as I've gotten to know my mom, as an adult instead of as a child. But I also would have never spent this much time with my mom if my dad didn't end up with PCA, so wishing for that is wishing for an impossibility.
Why are people setting off fireworks in my area, starting at midnight? It's already 2:00 AM. It's Christmas Eve, not New Years. Aren't kids supposed to be asleep for Santa Claus to drop off presents? Do kids still believe in Santa Claus, or do they just stay up late playing video games on Christmas Eve now?
Maybe they aren't fireworks, maybe they're shooting at Santa.
I've been hearing some ambulance sirens. My dog is upset. It's hard to feel sorry for myself when there are some people having a much worse Christmas than me. If you're having a true disaster of a Christmas, I am truly sorry and I hope you pull through.
37 votes -
How do you deal with socialization during the Holidays?
The Holidays by the end of the year are a time for meeting a lot of family members that we may not have seen for a long time. For a lot of people, this a joyful moment of relaxation where they can...
The Holidays by the end of the year are a time for meeting a lot of family members that we may not have seen for a long time. For a lot of people, this a joyful moment of relaxation where they can enjoy the company of those they love. For others, this can also be a stressful period, when tensions, trauma, and insecurities related to family relationships emerge, often in unexpected ways. Different people experience those events in vastly different ways.
Are you more of an introvert or an extrovert?
What does Christmas (as well as other events with a component of "forced" social gathering) mean to you?
How did you manage it this year?
Is this usually a happy time for you? Why?
16 votes -
Weekly US politics news and updates thread - week of December 25
This thread is posted weekly - please try to post all relevant US political content in here, such as news, updates, opinion articles, etc. Extremely significant events may warrant a separate...
This thread is posted weekly - please try to post all relevant US political content in here, such as news, updates, opinion articles, etc. Extremely significant events may warrant a separate topic, but almost all should be posted in here.
This is an inherently political thread; please try to avoid antagonistic arguments and bickering matches. Comment threads that devolve into unproductive arguments may be removed so that the overall topic is able to continue.
6 votes -
Day 25: Snowverload
Today's problem description: https://adventofcode.com/2023/day/25 Please post your solutions in your own top-level comment. Here's a template you can copy-paste into your comment to format it...
Today's problem description: https://adventofcode.com/2023/day/25
Please post your solutions in your own top-level comment. Here's a template you can copy-paste into your comment to format it nicely, with the code collapsed by default inside an expandable section with syntax highlighting (you can replace
python
with any of the "short names" listed in this page of supported languages):<details> <summary>Part 1</summary> ```python Your code here. ``` </details>
8 votes -
Paul Taylor: Ten years on stage (full show)
4 votes -
Manchester United reaches agreement for Sir Jim Ratcliffe to acquire 25% of the company
13 votes -
Peter Watts on conscious ants and human hives
14 votes -
Movie of the Week #9 - Home Alone
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
We end the month of 1990s movies with a Christmas classic. Home Alone from 1990.
Is this a stable Christmas movie in your household or is it perhaps the first time you see it?
Next months schedule for January is:
- 1st: Four Rooms
- 8th: Planes, Trains, and Automobiles
- 15th: City Lights
- 22nd: Marcel The Shell With Shoes On
- 29th: The Iron Giant
15 votes -
Tildeverse.org
19 votes -
How a child's accidental call to a top-secret phone line launched NORAD's Santa Tracker
36 votes -
How would you present a digital gift to someone?
In one of my secret santas this year I have bought a digital copy of a solo RPG to give, however as it's only a PDF I'm not really sure what the best way to go about presenting this on the day of...
In one of my secret santas this year I have bought a digital copy of a solo RPG to give, however as it's only a PDF I'm not really sure what the best way to go about presenting this on the day of the exchange would be. I want there to be something for her to open, I know that much. In an ideal world whatever she opens will link to a download of the PDF or something, so maybe a QR code situation of some sort?
18 votes -
US President Joe Biden pardons thousands on federal marijuana charges, commutes others
79 votes -
From lesbian rom-coms to moody gay ghost stories, there's a queer holiday title for everyone in the alphabet and every mood
17 votes -
Panel settles on Minnesota flag's final design
40 votes -
The Hyperloop was always a scam
68 votes -
Overtime — Charles Stross [A Christmas Story]
11 votes -
Needle felting newbie. Any tips or advice?
I just got into felting, and I have already made 3 siamese cat ball.. ornament... things. I plan to sell these on Etsy for some side income. Does anyone have any good sources for wool, with a good...
I just got into felting, and I have already made 3 siamese cat ball.. ornament... things. I plan to sell these on Etsy for some side income.
Does anyone have any good sources for wool, with a good selection of colors (preferably earth tones)?
What about tips in felting strategies for things like keeping lines neat, or blending colors together, fading them, general design layout planning, etc?
Pics of my first felt cat, the seal point: https://imgur.com/a/u6hJOgy
20 votes -
Day 24: Never Tell Me The Odds
Today's problem description: https://adventofcode.com/2023/day/24 Please post your solutions in your own top-level comment. Here's a template you can copy-paste into your comment to format it...
Today's problem description: https://adventofcode.com/2023/day/24
Please post your solutions in your own top-level comment. Here's a template you can copy-paste into your comment to format it nicely, with the code collapsed by default inside an expandable section with syntax highlighting (you can replace
python
with any of the "short names" listed in this page of supported languages):<details> <summary>Part 1</summary> ```python Your code here. ``` </details>
6 votes -
Luxardo (high-end maraschino) cherries are a staple garnish in fancy cocktails. What happens if you distill the juice into alcohol, and make a cocktail with it? | Will It Distill
20 votes -
I made an open-source, self-hostable synced narration platform for ebooks
39 votes -
Working out, working in: applying the six principles of athletic training to writing and creative work
7 votes -
Christmas box office: ‘Aquaman 2’ sinks with $40 million debut
15 votes -
Mobile Suit Baba by Hempuli is out today and free for now
25 votes -
2021 U2 spy plane pilot tube food, US Air Force ration taste test MRE review
25 votes -
Playing Quake for the story (A franchise retrospective)
11 votes -
What are your traditional Christmas dinners, and do you do anything that's unusual in your country?
I am interested in the amount of variety there is in Christmas dinners. In the UK it tends to be roast meat (and turkey is popular) and a lot of roast veg. The table ends up being quite...
I am interested in the amount of variety there is in Christmas dinners. In the UK it tends to be roast meat (and turkey is popular) and a lot of roast veg. The table ends up being quite complicated because Aunt Mabel really wants cauliflower cheese and Cousin Bert needs that braised red cabbage and etc so you end up with a lot of stuff set out.
And that's just the UK - I'd be really interested to know about what people eat in other places.
For me it's going to be simple and quiet this year. Chemotherapy and immunotherapy mean my immune system is struggling and I feel very gently nauseous. I am going to have roast chicken, glazed roast parsnips, carrots (not sure whether mashed, or roasted, or gently steamed), roast potatoes, and roast sprouts. And then my sister made me a Christmas pudding so I'll have that for after.
Here's a description of and recipe for Christmas Pudding: https://www.nigella.com/recipes/ultimate-christmas-pudding
30 votes -
Movie of the Week #8 - The Talented Mr. Ripley
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
The next movie from the 1990s is The Talented Mr. Ripley from 1999 directed by Anthony Minghella with a 90s moviestar lineup of Matt Damon, Jude Law, Gwyneth Paltrow, Cate Blanchett, Philip Seymour Hoffman and many others. Based on the novel of the same name by Patricia Highsmith from 1955.
Feel free to add any thoughts, opinions, reflections, analysis or whatever comments related to this film.
The rest of the schedule is:
- 25th of December: Home Alone
11 votes -
What did you do this week (and weekend)?
As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do...
As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do nothing at all? Tell us about it!
7 votes -
An EP I recorded last spring | We All Shit - Songs of a Bitch (2023)
15 votes -
This was the year that studios finally learned bigger is not always better
12 votes -
New study - scent of tears from female humans reduces revenge seeking and aggression in males, similar to patterns observed in other mammals
31 votes -
Camel Cards the game
6 votes -
Tildes ReExtended version announcements and changelog
This topic will be used to announce future versions of Tildes ReExtended! Mozilla Addons Chrome Web Store Tildes ReExtended is the principal enhancement suite for Tildes. If you'd like to be...
This topic will be used to announce future versions of Tildes ReExtended!
Tildes ReExtended is the principal enhancement suite for Tildes.
If you'd like to be notified of future releases, reply to this comment and I'll @-mention you when the next version is published (you have to uncollapse the comment). When you no longer want to be notified, simply delete your comment or ignore this topic.
42 votes -
Top of the charts: The songs the sound engineers use to tune your stereo (2021)
14 votes -
Guinness World Record Christmas drone show (1,500+ drones)
7 votes -
Vote for "Movie of the Week" in January - 100 minutes or less
Voting closed So I am making the poll a bit earlier. The holidays are coming up and it might also be better to have the schedule about a week before rather than having it the day before the first...
Voting closed
So I am making the poll a bit earlier. The holidays are coming up and it might also be better to have the schedule about a week before rather than having it the day before the first movie of the month. This time we are going for shorter running times - so anything at 100 minutes (1 hour and 40 minutes) or less. "Movies are too damn long nowadays" is a common complaint, so lets see what we can come up with of good movies that don't require a long evening to watch.
We will need five movies for January.
Rules
- Must have a running time of 100 minutes / 1h40m or less based on official running time on IMDb
- Not one we have already done
- Only one nomination per user
- Please only nominate if you intent to participate
In case of ties in the number of votes, random.org will decide. Voting closes Sunday.
11 votes -
Donkey Kong: A record of struggle
9 votes -
Tildes Game Giveaway: Holiday 2023
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🎵 It's the most wonderful time of the year 🎵
Holiday game sales are currently happening, and some are right around the corner!
This is our annual holiday game giveaway topic. Spread some goodwill and holiday cheer with others!
Before you participate, please make sure you read the rules below.
Rules
-Gifters
Post your available games, the platform and method of delivery, rules for your giveaways (e.g. first-come first-serve, random draw, etc.), and any additional info or requirements. Feel free to get creative!
-Giftees
Request giveaways. Please make sure you follow the gifter's posted guidelines.
-Guidelines
Anyone can choose to be a gifter, giftee, or both! Giveaway rules are set by individual gifters, but there are handful of guidelines everyone should follow:
- No grey market keys! Only give away games from reputable sources. If you're not sure what this means, please ask.
- Requests for games should be done in this topic, but if the gift is a key, those should be delivered by PMs only. Please don't post keys publicly in this topic, even obfuscated ones.
If you're new to these, check out previous giveaway threads to see how these usually go.
49 votes -
Help me understand Dell Latitude model numbers
This link gives some useful detail about Dell Latitude model numbers. https://en.tab-tv.com/dell-latitude-identification-and-decoding-of-the-laptop-model/ Unfortunately, it only goes up to 2017....
This link gives some useful detail about Dell Latitude model numbers.
https://en.tab-tv.com/dell-latitude-identification-and-decoding-of-the-laptop-model/
Unfortunately, it only goes up to 2017.
The first digit is the "series". There are several series, higher numbers are better.
The second digit is the screen size. 1=11", 2=12", ..., 7=17".
The third digit is the year. 1=2010, 2=2011, ..., 7=2016, 8=2017.
The forth digit is connected to form factor - standard, removable screen, transformer.
My question is whether there's a similar decoder ring for newer models.
EDIT:
Okay, so, newer models appear to follow similar convention, with slight changes to last two digits for year.
eg, Dell Latitude 9510 = premium ultrabook, 15" screen, released 2020.
eg Dell Latitude 7440 = ultrabook, 14" screen, released 2023
The first digit identifies the range:
- 9 = premium ultrabook
- 7 = ultrabook
- 5 = mid range
- 3 = entry level
The second digit is the screen size:
- 5 = 15"
- 4 = 14"
- 3 = 13.3"
- 2 = 12.5"
- 1 = 11.6"
The last two digits give the release year:
- 90 = 2018
- 00 = 2019
- 10 = 2020
- 20 = 2021
- 30 = 2022
- 40 = 2023
15 votes -
Pen needle source
For almost a decade, I've been buying BD pen needles off Amazon. This low-cost supply has unfortunately dried up and I'm almost out. I'm leery of the other random brands they carry, some of the...
For almost a decade, I've been buying BD pen needles off Amazon. This low-cost supply has unfortunately dried up and I'm almost out. I'm leery of the other random brands they carry, some of the reviews don't sound very good. So, folks who use pen injectors, where do you get your needles? I'm not dead set on BD but would like something of similar quality.
The last time I got some at a local pharmacy, they came with a $45 co-pay for 100 needles. I go through at least 3 per day, so 45 cents each seems a lot to ask on top of the ~$1k/month pens.
10 votes -
"The secretive industry destroying the economy" (it's private equity)
16 votes -
Fifty-five books Scientific American recommends in 2023
12 votes -
Welcome to the ad-free internet
37 votes -
Midweek Movie Free Talk
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
9 votes -
Conan O’Brien’s wild first year: An oral history - In 1993, NBC made a historic decision—and gave Late Night to a nobody. O’Brien, Letterman, Lorne Michaels, Lisa Kudrow, and more tell all.
29 votes -
Tildes Minecraft Survival Bi-Weekly Thread
Server host: tildes.nore.gg Dynmap: https://tildes.nore.gg Playtime counter: https://tildes.nore.gg/playtimes.html Verification site: https://verify.tildes.nore.gg Tildes website extension (show...
Server host:
tildes.nore.gg
Dynmap: https://tildes.nore.gg
Playtime counter: https://tildes.nore.gg/playtimes.html
Verification site: https://verify.tildes.nore.gg
Tildes website extension (show online status): Firefox (Desktop and Android) - ChromeThe server operates on a soft whitelist. Anyone can log in and walk around, but you need a Tildes account to gain build access.
25 votes -
Charity for profit: Brandfluence/Softgiving, the marketing agency behind some of Twitch's most successful fundraising streams quietly collected 42% of donations
26 votes