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    1. Want to get in the gym? Here are some tips from a beginner.*

      I wanted to hit the gym all my life, but I never really made it until this year. Granted, I do have a sports background and have been active most of my life, but going to the gym was never really...

      I wanted to hit the gym all my life, but I never really made it until this year. Granted, I do have a sports background and have been active most of my life, but going to the gym was never really for me, until I decided to really do it this year. After years of shoulder and knee problems, I thought adding some muscle to my frame was definitely needed if I didn't want to be in pain all my life.

      Since I had thought about going to the gym for years now, I feel like I gathered a good bit of information that REALLY helped me to go now. Here they are:

      • The routine is more important than the results; regardless of any information I give you about macros, weights, sets, proteins, whatever all that, going to the gym one more time is going to be better than not going. Results take a LONG time. You will not see progress after a month. You may not see progress after 2 months. You may start to see some progress after 3 months. Real progress takes many months, years. That's why your number one priority should simply be to go to the gym, even if your workout is the worst ever and you use two machines in 30 minutes. Going to the gym 4 times a week is better than 3, going 3 times a week is better than 2 and so on. It takes about 3 months to a year to have the routine set in your life. After that and during that, you'll have all the time in the world to think about how to optimize your training, but just going and sticking to the routine of going is more important than anything else.

      • Choose the easiest, most accessible gym option; the goal is to go. You should make this the easiest for you. Choose a gym that is easily accessible, before or after work. The closer, the better. Heck, your gym can even be your own home! Make some place for you to workout if you want to. You can easily do very good home workouts with maybe 100-150$ worth of equipment.

      • Stick to a simple workout plan; There are some easy plans: target 2 muscle groups per workout, or alternate upper lower body; try to hit the muscles two times a week (2x biceps, 2x triceps, etc.). 3-5 exercises per workout is fine. 1-2min rest, take more if you feel like it, take less if you feel like it.

      • Listen to your body for reps/weight; Going for 5 reps or going for 15 reps, it doesn't matter that much at the start, as long as you can do 2-3 series of that. Try to aim for anything from 6 to 12 reps, if you feel you can do more, do it, if you feel like you cannot, then don't. Some times I do 6, sometimes I do 12, but I try to aim for 8. The routine is more important than the results, all you need to do is go to the gym, the perfect workout can come in later.

      • The movement is more important than the weight; building muscle is simply your muscles tearing and healing. As long as your muscles tear, you've done a good job. But that tear must come from a movement done well, or else you'll tear something that was not supposed to. Go for slower reps if needed, less explosion in your movements. Watch a video on how to do specific exercises if needed, some are mandatory to make sure you don't injure yourself (squats, deadlifts).

      • Don't overdo it, progressive overload is the key; getting injured is EASY, the goal is to go to the gym, not be hurt. Go lower on the weights at first, it's not a competition. I started my dumbell press with like 10 pounds, shaking like crazy, it's normal. We've all been there. Don't ego lift. The routine is more important than the results. The big weights will take a while to reach, but it'll happen progressively.

      • Have some kind of goal that is not tied to a number; I guess this one is more personal, but I feel like it's way easier to stick to the routine when you don't "care" about the results as much. The true goal is to be fit or to be lean or to be muscular or to be healthy, no? I feel like those are achievable long term and are guaranteed to come from the routine. I think if you're a beginner and set some kind of arbitrary number, you're not an expert to know if that goal is realistic or not and it makes the whole working out thing to be dependent on a result that you don't have the slightest idea how difficult it is or how long it takes to reach it. I think goals with a number should come after the routine is set in, not before going to the gym, but hey, that's just my two cents.

      • Eat enough, drink water, get more protein; protein shakes are easy and not that costly, just having a protein shake is fine. Not having it is fine too. If you want to build muscle, you should aim for 100-150g of protein per day. Make sure you eat enough and well, but in the end, the routine is more important. Remember, getting fit happens at the gym, getting lean happens in the kitchen. Weight loss and weight gains both happen in the kitchen. Realistically, a normal genetic male will gain AT BEST 10-12 pounds of muscle the first year of working out (assuming optimal results), so you can aim for that, but just know that your weight gains might not be muscle.

      • Use ChatGPT to help if needed; When I started going at the gym, I followed all these tips, but I didn't really know that to do. So I asked ChatGPT to make me a 4 days a week workout plan, 5 exercises: pull, push, legs, full body. I tried what it gave me for about a month, but I used that month to just replace exercises I didn't like and I slowly started making my own program to fit what I wanted. But I was super happy that I at least had a starting program. I realize that's what's stopping a lot of people and you can use AI to help you out with that, especially if you don't have money to buy a program or pay a trainer to make one for you.

      • Be disciplined, but be kind to yourself; There will be days when you will not be able to workout. There will be days when you will not want to workout. There will be days when you will feel bad about working out. It's ok to miss a day, it's ok to miss a week. Remember, the routine is more important. Just make sure to go back to your routine as soon as possible. Missing one workout after going 20 times in a row feels a lot less bad than missing 2-3 every week.

      Finally, if you have any questions about starting the gym, feel free to ask. I'll gladly help.

      51 votes
    2. What are some of your "life hacks" you use regularly?

      These could be active skills or techniques you've found helpful, things you've built or bought that have changed an area of your life, or just something that brings you more joy than you had...

      These could be active skills or techniques you've found helpful, things you've built or bought that have changed an area of your life, or just something that brings you more joy than you had before.

      A few subject areas that could spark ideas (but please share things outside of these if you have them!):

      • Work / Professional Life / Networking
      • Cooking / Baking / Food Prep
      • Cleaning
      • DIY
      • Crafts / Hobbies
      • Home Automation / Security
      • Beauty / Grooming / Personal Hygiene
      • Travel
      • Planning / Scheduling / Memory Aids
      • Fitness
      • Relaxation
      • Mental Health
      24 votes
    3. How do you want to define 2026 for yourself?

      I was never one to subscribe to new year's resolutions, but I do believe in using the new year to set a mindset for defining the past year and a goal for the new year's theme. How do you want to...

      I was never one to subscribe to new year's resolutions, but I do believe in using the new year to set a mindset for defining the past year and a goal for the new year's theme. How do you want to describe your 2026 this time next year?

      I want mine to be a year of sowing. I want to make roots in a new job which I love and extend myself out to new people to create relationships I'm proud to have.

      Another big focus this year for me will be physical change. I'm the heaviest I've ever been and last time I was close to this weight, I dropped 70lbs in under 6 months. It's time for me to find a sustainable way to reach and maintain that target weight again.

      7 votes
    4. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      6 votes
    5. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like the game awards.2025, devices.smart and gift cards. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like the game awards.2025, devices.smart and gift cards. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was out of the loop.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      15 votes
    6. Good News Everyone!

      Welcome back to another edition of the good news thread. Where I challenge folks to find and post good news. Don't just link to a source of good news, pick one out and share it. Personal good news...

      Welcome back to another edition of the good news thread. Where I challenge folks to find and post good news. Don't just link to a source of good news, pick one out and share it. Personal good news stories are also welcome!

      Even if it's good in the face of bad, even if it's the sort of good that can also remind you that shit's fucked up. For this thread, we focus on the good and we don't let the fact there's still also bad in the world drag us down.

      65 votes
    7. Tildes Book Club 2025 retrospective

      Here we are at the end of another year. This was our first full year of the Tildes Book Club, so congratulations are in order for reaching this milestone. Currently we're taking a well-earned...

      Here we are at the end of another year. This was our first full year of the Tildes Book Club, so congratulations are in order for reaching this milestone. Currently we're taking a well-earned December break, until we return in January for more.

      This year saw us reading more variety across both fiction and non-fiction, covering scifi, history, autobiographies, and short stories.

      Here are some stats for 2025:

      • Books Read: 11 (18 if counting short stories)
      • Total Pages: 3,919
      • Participants: 50 unique users (134 total participations)
      • Total Comments: 456
      • Nominations Submitted: 55
      • Nomination Votes Cast: 233

      The superlative awards:

      • Most Discussed: Hyperion (68 comments)
      • Deepest Discussion: The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store (averaged 5 comments per person)
      • Longest Read: The Ministry for the Future (563 pages)
      • Shortest Read: Elder Race (199 pages)
      • Oldest Read: Cat's Cradle (published 1963)

      The full list of 2025's discussions can be found here:

      Much thanks as always to @boxer_dogs_dance for organizing this club for us. We have a great lineup for 2026, including renowned authors like Kafka, Nabokov, and Pratchett.

      Feel free to share your favourite Book Club reads from 2025, or what you're looking forward to in 2026.

      14 votes
    8. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      5 votes
    9. I don't care much for symbolism

      Looking at movies and books like a sleuth, looking for correlations, is not my thing. That is a very cerebral way to look at stories. I prefer letting them take over me with all they got,...

      Looking at movies and books like a sleuth, looking for correlations, is not my thing. That is a very cerebral way to look at stories. I prefer letting them take over me with all they got, symbolism included but mixed with everything else. When it comes to fiction and magic, I wanna watch the trick, not figure it out. Much like magic tricks, I firmly believe that, when dissected, fiction tends to die.

      By that I mean that it becomes less appealing.

      I'm a little annoyed by the view that, if you don't look for "hidden meanings", your engagement with art is of a lesser quality. As if there was only one acceptable and elevated way to read things.

      Much to my delight, people have built interesting symbolism from my writing that I never intended to create. I don't write symbolism, but I tend to use elements that are universal, well-known, and easy to interpret as symbols.

      I'm not sure why I wrote this. I just wanted to organize my thoughts about this subject in a place where people are nice.

      I guess that is it.

      What do you think of symbolism?

      30 votes
    10. Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 becomes first indie game to win Game of the Year at The Game Awards

      Definitely a well deserved GOTY. I haven't gotten around to it yet, but my friends have been raving about it! Lots of indie games nominated this year. Really feels like we're in a golden age of...

      Definitely a well deserved GOTY. I haven't gotten around to it yet, but my friends have been raving about it!

      Lots of indie games nominated this year. Really feels like we're in a golden age of indies.

      72 votes
    11. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like coordinates, consumer electronics and dictionaries. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like coordinates, consumer electronics and dictionaries. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was befuddled.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      9 votes
    12. Bagels and shrinkflation

      A few years ago I started shopping at Lidl and came to really like their bakery. I noticed over time that their bagels became smaller. Smaller than the bagels at Giant supermarket, and two real...

      A few years ago I started shopping at Lidl and came to really like their bakery.

      I noticed over time that their bagels became smaller.

      Smaller than the bagels at Giant supermarket, and two real bagel shops I eventually found. Currently "everything" bagels at Lidl are 79 cents each. At the real bagel shops "everything" bagels are $2 each.

      The Lidl bagels are smaller, the "everything" bagels don't have salt or nearly as much. I like them better than the bagels from one of those two "real" bagel shops.

      Thankfully, the smaller Lidl bagels have fewer calories!

      I remember a few years ago I saw several articles about bagel places scooping out some of the bread for people watching their weight.

      Duh, they should have just made them smaller.

      The Lidl bagels are still large enough to make decent sandwiches.

      22 votes
    13. Without looking, do you have a vague idea of your coordinates?

      I was recently talking to a group of people about a random plot point in a video game, wherein a character reveals some coordinates written down on a sheet of paper and says something to the...

      I was recently talking to a group of people about a random plot point in a video game, wherein a character reveals some coordinates written down on a sheet of paper and says something to the effect of "I think that's nearby, I will check it out." Nearly everyone in the group was thrown back by that, saying that there is no way that the character would know their coordinates off hand.

      Later on, through entirely unrelated circumstances (some SciFi show where a human told aliens to drop him at specific coordinates), coordinates came up in a discussion with my family. Half of the family knew, half the family didn't know, and both halves were surprised by the other half.

      I would be able to tell you if some random coordinate were within a reasonable drive of my city or not. I am curious about the ratio of people on Tildes that would know.

      (I have absolutely no idea how to tag this)

      58 votes
    14. 2025 NFL Season 🦃 🏈 🥧Weekly Discussion Thread – Week 14

      Welcome to the 2025 NFL Season Weekly Discussion Thread! 🦃 🏈 🥧 Share your thoughts on Week 13 — wins, losses, fantasy fumbles, predictions, or anything else football-related. (Don't worry...

      Welcome to the 2025 NFL Season Weekly Discussion Thread! 🦃 🏈 🥧

      Share your thoughts on Week 13 — wins, losses, fantasy fumbles, predictions, or anything else football-related.

      (Don't worry @hamstergeddon, I gotchu buddy)

      9 votes
    15. Question regarding these songs and autotune

      I've always been kinda partial to Meghan Trainor. Just in the sense that sometimes I will once in a blue moon listen to All About That Bass. I heard she released a new song (Still Don't Care). I...

      I've always been kinda partial to Meghan Trainor. Just in the sense that sometimes I will once in a blue moon listen to All About That Bass. I heard she released a new song (Still Don't Care).

      I want to like that song but something about it feels off.

      If I listen to All About that Bass, I figured it's been modified in post-production with whatever artists use to make themselves sound a bit better, but when I listen to Still Don't Care, it feels like the amount of auto-tune being used is substantially higher. Like it sounds like more fluff or fake or something. But I am also by no means a singer or someone who has any idea what goes into making a song so maybe I am completely off.

      Am I imagining that Still Don't Care is using auto-tune to a higher extent?

      8 votes
    16. How do you design your campaigns?

      Let me define a campaign as an episodic story with a clear hook, rising action (or actions), climax, and ending. It would ideally be a story that goes for multiple (at least 4 or 5) play sessions...

      Let me define a campaign as an episodic story with a clear hook, rising action (or actions), climax, and ending. It would ideally be a story that goes for multiple (at least 4 or 5) play sessions so as to distinguish it from a one shot.

      How do you, as a DM, develop and run these?

      Over the years in my group we've all taken turns running campaigns, one shots, sessions, etc and what's always fascinated me most is how everyone's planning style is so different. Some get into ridiculous detail, while others (guilty...) tend to improv.

      19 votes
    17. Formula 1 Abu Dhabi Grand Prix 2025 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Abu Dhabi Grand Prix
      Yas Marina Circuit
      December 5-7, 2025


      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:22.877 1:22.752 1:22.207 18
      2 4 Lando Norris McLaren 1:23.178 1:22.804 1:22.408 17
      3 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:22.605 1:23.021 1:22.437 17
      4 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:23.247 1:22.730 1:22.645 18
      5 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:23.163 1:22.948 1:22.730 18
      6 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:23.071 1:22.861 1:22.902 18
      7 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 1:23.374 1:22.874 1:22.904 21
      8 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:23.334 1:23.023 1:22.913 18
      9 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 1:23.373 1:22.997 1:23.072 18
      10 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 1:23.386 1:23.034 DNF 17
      11 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:23.254 1:23.041 11
      12 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:23.187 1:23.042 12
      13 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:23.265 1:23.077 14
      14 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:22.894 1:23.080 12
      15 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:23.316 1:23.097 15
      16 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:23.394 9
      17 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:23.416 6
      18 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 1:23.450 9
      19 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:23.468 9
      20 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:23.890 9

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 58 1:26:07.469 25
      2 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 58 +12.594s 18
      3 4 Lando Norris McLaren 58 +16.572s 15
      4 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 58 +23.279s 12
      5 63 George Russell Mercedes 58 +48.563s 10
      6 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 58 +67.562s 8
      7 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 58 +69.876s 6
      8 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 58 +72.670s 4
      9 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 58 +79.014s 2
      10 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 58 +79.523s 1
      11 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 58 +81.043s 0
      12 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 58 +81.166s 0
      13 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 58 +82.158s 0
      14 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 58 +83.794s 0
      15 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 58 +84.399s 0
      16 23 Alexander Albon Williams 58 +90.327s 0
      17 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 57 +1 lap 0
      18 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 57 +1 lap 0
      19 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 57 +1 lap 0
      20 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 57 +1 lap 0

      Fastest Lap: Charles Leclerc // 1:26.725 on lap 45
      DOTD: Max Verstappen

      Source: F1.com


      2025 Final Drivers Standings -- SPOILER
      Pos. Driver Nationality Team Pts.
      1 Lando Norris GBR McLaren 423
      2 Max Verstappen NED Red Bull Racing 421
      3 Oscar Piastri AUS McLaren 410
      4 George Russell GBR Mercedes 319
      5 Charles Leclerc MON Ferrari 242
      6 Lewis Hamilton GBR Ferrari 156
      7 Kimi Antonelli ITA Mercedes 150
      8 Alexander Albon THA Williams 73
      9 Carlos Sainz ESP Williams 64
      10 Fernando Alonso ESP Aston Martin 56
      11 Isack Hadjar FRA Racing Bulls 51
      12 Nico Hulkenberg GER Kick Sauber 49
      13 Oliver Bearman GBR Haas F1 Team 42
      14 Liam Lawson NZL Racing Bulls 38
      15 Esteban Ocon FRA Haas F1 Team 38
      16 Lance Stroll CAN Aston Martin 34
      17 Yuki Tsunoda JPN Red Bull Racing 33
      18 Pierre Gasly FRA Alpine 22
      19 Gabriel Bortoleto BRA Kick Sauber 19
      20 Franco Colapinto ARG Alpine 0
      21 Jack Doohan AUS Alpine 0

      Source: F1.com

      2025 Final Constructors Standings -- SPOILER
      Pos. Team Pts.
      1 McLaren 833
      2 Mercedes 469
      3 Red Bull Racing 451
      4 Ferrari 398
      5 Williams 137
      6 Racing Bulls 92
      7 Aston Martin 89
      8 Haas F1 Team 79
      9 Kick Sauber 70
      10 Alpine 22

      Source: F1.com


      Next race:

      Pre-Season Testing 2026 - Sakhir
      Bahrain International Circuit
      February 11-13 & 18-20, 2026

      Australian Grand Prix
      Albert Park Circuit
      March 5-7, 2026

      See you all next year -- Enjoy the break!

      17 votes
    18. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      7 votes
    19. Formula 1 2025 Final Race Predictions?

      Happy Friday -- It's the final race weekend of the 2025 season. McLaren captured the WCC races ago, but the WDC is still up for grabs between Oscar Piastri (392pts), Lando Norris (408pts), and Max...

      Happy Friday -- It's the final race weekend of the 2025 season. McLaren captured the WCC races ago, but the WDC is still up for grabs between Oscar Piastri (392pts), Lando Norris (408pts), and Max Verstappen (396pts).

      Who do you think will take it home?

      Any other predictions about what will happen in Abu Dhabi? Who will win Formula 1.5 this weekend? Will we get a replay of AD 2021? Will Michael Masi be revealed at the last moment to the Race Director? Will Yuki say "Screw Redbull!" and bin it into Max? Will Max say "Screw Redbull!" and just drive off into the desert sunset? Will Kimi channel his inner Bottas and have a 5-day pit stop? Will Alonso take P1 on Sunday?

      All takes -- serious and unhinged -- welcome.

      13 votes
    20. Do you feel like you’ve had many lives so far? Why, why not? Which?

      I’ve been mulling over this for the past few weeks. Even though I haven’t drastically changed lives over the course of my lifetime, I still feel like I’ve had eras: As a young adult in the UK and...

      I’ve been mulling over this for the past few weeks.

      Even though I haven’t drastically changed lives over the course of my lifetime, I still feel like I’ve had eras:

      • As a young adult in the UK and around the world, figuring things out
      • As a student in Canada
      • As an employee in another province
      • And now as an independent consultant in Switzerland and France

      Although I still live a comfortable western lifestyle, I do feel these different eras are akin to different lives. 18 year old me wouldn’t guess what 30 or 40 year old me became. Not only professionally but also emotionally and day to day.

      To delineate my eras, I consider career/professional matters but also outlook on life, lessons learnt, relationships, country/city of résidence (or lack thereof).

      Do you have a similar feeling? Why or why not? And what do you consider you life or lives to have been so far?

      32 votes
    21. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like lists, thanksgiving and sexploitation. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like lists, thanksgiving and sexploitation. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was bemused.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      8 votes
    22. Sailing skill is live on Oldschool Runescape as of two weeks ago

      Ive been playing nonstop for the past two weeks basically, took last week off work so I could play. Lvl 67 as of this morning and I’m a little behind my clan mates who are 80s pushing 90s Thoughts...

      Ive been playing nonstop for the past two weeks basically, took last week off work so I could play. Lvl 67 as of this morning and I’m a little behind my clan mates who are 80s pushing 90s

      Thoughts in general? Thoughts on salvaging nerf this am?

      Haven’t played in years and think it sounds neat? It is. Bond up and play, sailing is a meta skill so you can lvl up while you level up but watch out for random crates of alcohol in the sea cause while you get xp from sampling…. Sometimes they tele you to the abyss cause Jagex is pro troll

      23 votes
    23. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like jmail, cookies and coming out. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like jmail, cookies and coming out. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was befuddled.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      10 votes
    24. Tildes Book Club schedule 2025 - 2026

      Here is the schedule for the upcoming year Last week in August - Cats Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut, Last week in September - Stories of Your Life and Others by Ted Chiang Last week in October - The...

      Here is the schedule for the upcoming year

      Last week in August - Cats Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut,

      Last week in September - Stories of Your Life and Others by Ted Chiang

      Last week in October - The Poisoners Handbook: Murder and the Birth of Forensic Medicine by Deborah Blum,

      Last week in November - We are Legion (We are Bob) by Dennis Taylor,

      December break for the holidays.

      Last week in January - Fire on the Mountain by Terry Bissen,

      Last week in February - The Truth by Terry Pratchett

      Last week in March - The Metamorphosis by Kafka,

      Last week in April - The Tea Girl of Hummingbird Lane by Lisa See,

      Last week in May - Pnin by Nabokov,

      Last week in June - How to Become the Dark Lord and Die Trying by Wexler,

      Last week in July - A Psalm for the Wild Built by Becky Chambers,

      Last week in August - Light From Uncommon Stars by Ryka Aoki

      Last week in September - Dr. No by Ian Fleming

      30 votes
    25. Formula 1 Qatar Grand Prix 2025 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Qatar Grand Prix
      Lusail International Circuit
      November 28-30, 2025


      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:20.234 1:19.650 1:19.387 18
      2 4 Lando Norris McLaren 1:20.157 1:19.861 1:19.495 17
      3 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:20.472 1:19.985 1:19.651 23
      4 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:20.074 1:20.186 1:19.662 26
      5 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:20.576 1:20.084 1:19.846 22
      6 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 1:20.603 1:20.350 1:20.114 20
      7 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:20.520 1:20.251 1:20.287 25
      8 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:20.598 1:20.219 1:20.418 21
      9 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:20.681 1:20.324 1:20.477 21
      10 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:20.564 1:20.343 1:20.561 23
      11 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 1:20.630 1:20.353 20
      12 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:20.539 1:20.433 15
      13 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:20.548 1:20.438 20
      14 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 1:20.653 1:20.534 20
      15 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:20.629 1:20.629 19
      16 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 1:20.761 9
      17 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:20.864 11
      18 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:20.907 9
      19 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:21.058 10
      20 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:21.137 9

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 57 1:24:38.241 25
      2 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 57 +7.995s 18
      3 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 57 +22.665s 15
      4 4 Lando Norris McLaren 57 +23.315s 12
      5 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 57 +28.317s 10
      6 63 George Russell Mercedes 57 +48.599s 8
      7 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 57 +54.045s 6
      8 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 57 +56.785s 4
      9 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 57 +60.073s 2
      10 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 57 +61.770s 1
      11 23 Alexander Albon Williams 57 +66.931s 0
      12 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 57 +77.730s 0
      13 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 57 +84.812s 0
      14 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 56 +1 lap 0
      15 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 56 +1 lap 0
      16 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 56 +1 lap 0
      17 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 55 DNF 0
      18 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 55 DNF 0
      NC 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 41 DNF 0
      NC 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 6 DNF 0

      Fastest Lap: Oscar Piatri // 1:22.996 on lap 44
      DOTD: Max Verstappen

      Source: F1.com


      Next race:

      Abu Dhabi Grand Prix
      Yas Marina Circuit
      December 5-7, 2025

      13 votes
    26. Midweek Movie Free Talk

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      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      8 votes
    27. Can we maybe have an informal agreement to avoid posting articles that require you to sell your firstborn child to the devil just to read them?

      Around half of the articles I click here are hidden behind cookie walls where you have to accept all cookies, or you won't be able to read them at all. And it's getting extremely annoying. Like,...

      Around half of the articles I click here are hidden behind cookie walls where you have to accept all cookies, or you won't be able to read them at all. And it's getting extremely annoying. Like, no. I do not want to click that, and the stupid websites are not even giving me a real alternative.

      Example: the guardian made this change around a month back. Now, you accept all cookies etc. or pay.

      Can we please try to avoid that in the future by posting from other sources, if other sources are available for the same topic?

      66 votes