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    1. Sleep struggles: how do I get better sleep quality?

      Life is especially stressful lately, and with that my usual sleep struggles are just getting worse. When I was younger, I struggled to fall asleep - and at times, I still do - and I was able to...

      Life is especially stressful lately, and with that my usual sleep struggles are just getting worse. When I was younger, I struggled to fall asleep - and at times, I still do - and I was able to develop some strategies that helped me soothe my overactive mind (ADHD brain goes brrrrr). As I'm getting older, I'm having a different problem come up though.

      Now the trouble isn't so much getting to sleep as it is staying asleep long enough to get the rest I need, or at least want. For example, this past week has been the first week of school for me as a teacher. It is absolutely exhausting. I crash out between 8/9pm every night. Then I find myself awake at 2/3am without fail and just toss and turn until either I eke out a half hour of sleep before my alarm at 5am or just give up and get up.

      Of course those hours I spend lying awake in bed are the perfect time for my mind to turn to dark and terrible thoughts as well. The small hours of the morning are apparently perfect for this. That's a whole other thing I'm working on dealing with.

      I know this isn't a unique problem, I know that there isn't a catch all solution, I'd just love to hear some different ideas on what to do about it.

      48 votes
    2. Router recommendations?

      Hello my fellow tildestians (tilderinos?) - I'm looking to upgrade a very old home router (a hand-me-down linksys of some variety). I game quite a lot (my computer is connected via ethernet to the...

      Hello my fellow tildestians (tilderinos?) - I'm looking to upgrade a very old home router (a hand-me-down linksys of some variety). I game quite a lot (my computer is connected via ethernet to the current router) (often while others folks are streaming shows elsewhere in the house) so preferably something that is able to handle that? Maybe something that would allow a later upgrade with mesh? I don't know what a mesh is but I see them recommended in a lot of these "best router of 2026" lists so maybe that's something I need to look into.

      I've seen a lot of recommendations for asus and tp-link and ubiquiti? I am not super technically inclined so ease of set up is a nice bonus but I'm willing to put in the effort if needed >_< Budget is around ~300 usd. Blessings be if you have the time and knowledge to spare for me :) thank you!

      (also, if this is in the wrong topic please relocate me with my sincerest apologies)

      22 votes
    3. CYCLE - Soundscapes, Impressionism, and Process Art

      TLDR; I made an electroacoustic album based on artwork, poetry, and soundscapes in Portland, OR, USA. Inspired by ambient electronica and impressionist piano, CYLCE is a dark journey through...

      TLDR; I made an electroacoustic album based on artwork, poetry, and soundscapes in Portland, OR, USA. Inspired by ambient electronica and impressionist piano, CYLCE is a dark journey through nature and urban environments.

      Bandcamp Link: https://nickalus.bandcamp.com/album/cycle

      CYCLE is a project of mine that had an unusual life span (at least for myself). Originally, CYCLE was a sound installment commissioned for a gallery hosted by Open Haus in Portland, OR in collaboration with visual artist Jon Hwong and poet TKTK in a very strange turn of events. Over the past two years it has morphed into an audiovisual experience (I guess that would be the word for it???) using motivic development, creative coding (NO AI WHATSOEVER), and digital degradation.

      In celebration of the physical release (and my first physical release as an artist), I plan to spend the next couple of weeks (as long as the mods are okay with these posts) discussing different aspects of the project in hopes of starting a conversation about other musicians’ practices, thoughts, or critiques. I have included a list of topics I plan on covering in future posts at the bottom of this one.

      Context
      The project started in 2024 (feels like yesterday) while working on my own gallery DEAD WORLD THEORY. A few months out from the premiere, I was introduced to Keith, a local poet, through my co-producer Jon. The three of us talked about their upcoming gallery hosted in the neighborhood. Jon was creating a collection of artwork exploring natural form within technology and Keith was premiering a new chapbook and giving a reading of selected works.

      This was a collision of multiple niche interests of mine. Technology and nature have always been something of interest in my work since joining an electroacoustic ensemble during college. And before then, I was writing weird concert music that was interested in the idea of non-musical sounds (think: hypnotist/New York school of contemporary music), and specifically setting poetry and common speech to music (similar to work such as Jóhann Jóhannsson’s “IBM 1401 - A User's Manual”).

      As you can see, the synchronicity of this project was insane. I needed to be in it.

      I immediately pitched the idea to the other artists: I’ll make a soundtrack for the gallery that combines nature and technology, and the poet and I could perform an impromptu lieder of his work. Both artists loved the idea and took it to the producer of the event. With a little negotiation, it was decided. I was on the bill and even invited to speak on a panel discussion they were holding that evening to discuss my own upcoming project.
      The event was a great success. We had a nice turnout and I had a chance to talk with some phenomenal artists that attended the event.

      Inspiration
      As mentioned above, this project was a perfect storm of my influences and niche interests. I’ll break the project into two parts. Sorry you can't hear the last part (should’ve been there).

      Nature and Technology: The Soundtrack
      I have always been the person to challenge a rule, not because I want to break it, but because I want to understand it. Naturally, as a pianist studying composition and performance with a wicked resistance to authority, I became interested in the avant-garde of music. This new fascination started with the usual suspects: Ives, Cage, Monk, and Schoenberg. But it quickly led to the modern approach of this idea such as noise, harsh ambient, industrial, etc.

      This turn of events led to joining an electroacoustic ensemble where we utilized traditional instruments with technology to create shows, galleries, and sound installations. I immediately felt the shift in my peers:

      Was I a pianist or was I a DJ? Was I a composer or a producer? Was this music or was this art (or neither)?

      I began to obsess over this question. Where is this line between electronic and acoustic? Where is the end of nature and the start of technology? What is the line between music and art? If you are familiar with music history I am sure you know this is a pointless question that has been argued for centuries in either direction under the conversation of programmatic and absolute music. CYCLE is a culmination of my interested in ecoacoustics, technology, urban development, rural preservation, and the psychoacoustic effects of noise.

      The Impromptu Lieder
      The second half of the performance was an impromptu lied with Keith’s poetry set as the libretto. This was my second cycle of lieder as a composer. The first being a song cycle for Piano and Mezzo Soprano which used T. S. Eliot's “Cycle of Preludes” as the libretto. The preludes were traditionally set using Western notation and assigning pitches to the libretto. I wanted to do something different for this one.

      In my journey of the opium dens of contemporary music and the avant-garde (circa 2018), I had discovered the Icelandic composer Jóhann Jóhannsson. The piece was titled IBM 1401 - A User’s Manual, an opera that used a printer’s user manual as the libretto. Jóhannsson correlated the user’s manual with childhood memories of his father who was a salesman for IBM. I would not consider myself a printer enthusiast, but this work was striking. This took the programmatic style of impressionist lieder but worked from something that would be considered wholly technical and categorically “Not Art”. But, now the silly manual printed on cheap paper n’est pas une pipe.

      I wanted to emulate the “Treachery of Image” in a sonic medium. However, the poetry I was working with is ART. So, rather than subverting the source material I decided to subvert the performance aspect. Rather than prescribing singing to the text, it would use common speech. I worked with Keith to transcribe the natural rhythm of his collection of poems. This allowed the rhythm of the poetry to be the pulse of the music.

      Doubling down on programmatic vs absolute, I worked closely with Keith to understand the meaning of his work. I kept seeing the recurrence of phases (or cycles) of life, nature, grief, love, and healing. The work had hope, but hope that was sustained through a hostile world, fighting against the downward pull of pessimism. I also asked my poor poet to destroy their own work by telling me one word. This singular word would become the “narrative motif” of each piece.

      I decided to work with impressionist aesthetics for two reasons: extended harmony and programmatic composition. Firstly, the growing class of piano-composers during this era such as Rachmaninoff and Debussy were a huge influence on me as a Pianist. Secondly, the “narrative motif” from Keith would be used to decide the sonic motifs. One specific example of this is using planing fourths upward rather than using a Picardy third for moments that reflect sadness changing to happiness.

      Below is a list of the topics I plan on covering in the next couple of weeks:

      Location specific

      Portland: Selected Soundscapes

      Associated Memories: Places and the Past

      Song Cycle

      Modulation without Keys

      Timbral Motifs

      Song Cycle/Story Structure

      Ecoacoustics

      Nature/Transition/Urban

      Audio to Video

      Audio to Video: Motifs

      If there is something you are particularly interested in or something you don’t see on the list please leave a comment and I’ll add it in! Additionally, this entire post is meant to be a discussion for musicians and fans of music to talk, so, please leave your thoughts below for myself or other people to jump in.

      13 votes
    4. What programming/technical projects have you been working on?

      This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's...

      This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's interesting about it? Are you having trouble with anything?

      8 votes
    5. What are your favourite anime and/or manga?

      Pretty basic question I know, figure since people come and go the answers could change Mine are Made in Abyss, Blame, Girl's Last Tour Edit: almost forgot: Yotsuba to! Most wholesome and hilarious...

      Pretty basic question I know, figure since people come and go the answers could change

      Mine are Made in Abyss, Blame, Girl's Last Tour

      Edit: almost forgot: Yotsuba to! Most wholesome and hilarious thing I've read!

      34 votes
    6. Tildes Minecraft Weekly - Season ending on Sunday August 30th!

      Server host: tildes.nore.gg (Running Java 26.2) Verification site: https://tildes.nore.gg BlueMap: https://tildes.nore.gg/map/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TildesMC Plugins and Data Packs Data...

      Server host: tildes.nore.gg (Running Java 26.2)
      Verification site: https://tildes.nore.gg
      BlueMap: https://tildes.nore.gg/map/
      Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TildesMC

      Plugins and Data Packs Data Packs:
      • Age Lock [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Armor Statues [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Bat Membranes [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Cauldron Concrete [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Cauldron Mud [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Custom Nether Portals [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Husks Drop Sand [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Mini Blocks [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • More Mob Heads [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Nullscape - End terrain upgrade
      • Player Head Drops [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Renewable Dragon Stuff
      • Silence Mobs [Vanilla Tweaks]
      • Terralith - Overworld terrain upgrade
      • Wandering Trades [Vanilla Tweaks]

      Plugins:

      • BlueMap - Provides a live 3D rendering of the game world
      • Clickable Links - Makes http URLs in chat clickable (only for registered players)
      • CoreProtect - Records all block/container/mob changes (Anyone can look up changes with /co inspect)
      • DebugStick - Gives the ability to craft debug sticks in survival
      • EasyArmorStands - GUI for editing armor stands
      • GSit - Sit on stairs/slabs!
      • Hexnicks - Enables Tildes usernames to be displayed
      • hsrails - Allows for 4x speed rail travel
      • LuckPerms - Locks down unregistered users
      • Otherside - Fix for mob farms involving Nether portals
      • Rapid Leaf Decay - Increases the speed of leaf decay by 10x
      • WorldEdit - Used for occasional admin stuff
      • WorldGuard - Prevents unregistered users from changing anything in the world

      The server operates on a soft whitelist. Anyone can log in and walk around, but you need a Tildes account to gain build access.


      We recommend you install our mod web-chat so that you can chat while in your web browser. It turns the server into an old-school chat room.

      <- Previous Thread Next Thread ->

      27 votes
    7. I run a speculative fiction book club

      If anyone wants a replacement for the Tildes book club (and thanks /u/boxer_dogs_dance for running it consistently for so long!!) I run one that might interest speculative fiction readers. Be...

      If anyone wants a replacement for the Tildes book club (and thanks /u/boxer_dogs_dance for running it consistently for so long!!) I run one that might interest speculative fiction readers. Be warned that it's a "dictatorship" where I pick every book, and I alternate between lesser-known books I've read and already enjoyed; and books that I'm interested in but haven't read yet.

      Here is the list of books we have read:

      • The Raven Scholar
      • A Song of Legends Lost
      • A Shadow in Summer (Long Price Quartet)
      • Allow Me To Introduce Myself [the only non-spec-fic we've done thus far]
      • Gods of the Wyrdwood (Forsaken Series)
      • Kalyna the Soothsayer
      • The Black Company (The Black Company)
      • Battle of the Linguist Mages
      • The Cloud Roads (Raksura)
      • Sanctuary Duet
      • Ten Thousand Doors of January
      • The Dream Hotel
      • The Element of Fire (Ile-Rien) [this is the only one so far that I hadn't read yet and didn't really enjoy]
      • A Portrait in Shadow
      • House of Suns [current month]
      • City of Lies by Sam Hawke [next month]

      The book club is in an "anyone can invite anyone but it's not publicly listed anywhere" Discord server dedicated to reading speculative fiction with about 1000 members, ~50 active), if anyone thinks like this list of books seems in line with your tastes I can dm you a join link! It's very low commitment and done with threads so you can read the current book or a backlist book and still talk about it + scroll through past discussion easily.

      I can also offer advice (how to pick books, how to do things in Discord in a sane way, etc) if anyone else is interested in running something like this

      22 votes
    8. Cousin came out as trans. Looking for good online forums/spaces.

      One of my cousins (age 23), at the end of weeks-long stay at an inpatient psychiatric facility, came out as trans to his parents. They are very supportive, if a bit surprised. I want to help them...

      One of my cousins (age 23), at the end of weeks-long stay at an inpatient psychiatric facility, came out as trans to his parents. They are very supportive, if a bit surprised.

      I want to help them and my cousin out and link them to some online forums/discussion spaces. He’s (AMAB, hasn’t mentioned what the new pronouns are) very online, so I’d be most interested in stuff for him. I know some of the sites don’t have the best reputation, or are very polarizing, so I’d like sites that are positive and supportive.

      39 votes
    9. Formula 1 Dutch Grand Prix 2026 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Dutch Grand Prix
      Circuit Zandvoort
      August 21-23, 2026


      Sprint Race Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:13.278 1:12.235 1:11.567 17
      2 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:13.071 1:12.189 1:11.608 15
      3 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:13.011 1:12.190 1:11.622 16
      4 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:13.126 1:12.026 1:11.666 15
      5 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:13.668 1:12.511 1:11.794 15
      6 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:13.585 1:12.771 1:12.094 15
      7 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:13.151 1:12.445 1:12.191 15
      8 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:13.977 1:12.720 1:12.578 12
      9 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:13.730 1:12.786 1:12.583 12
      10 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:14.057 1:12.785 1:12.737 15
      11 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 1:13.420 1:13.136 13
      12 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 1:14.490 1:13.145 11
      13 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:14.618 1:13.439 9
      14 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:14.284 1:13.616 13
      15 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:14.503 1:13.893 12
      16 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:14.596 1:14.294 12
      17 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:14.728 6
      18 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:14.738 7
      19 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:15.391 5
      20 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:15.472 7
      21 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:15.545 7
      22 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:16.014 5

      Source: F1.com

      Sprint Race Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 63 George Russell Mercedes 24 30:25.318 8
      2 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 24 +1.360s 7
      3 1 Lando Norris McLaren 24 +5.196s 6
      4 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 24 +5.581s 5
      5 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 24 +10.185s 4
      6 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 24 +10.529s 3
      7 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 24 +12.188s 2
      8 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 24 +42.510s 1
      9 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 24 +44.437s 0
      10 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 24 +44.971s 0
      11 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 24 +47.471s 0
      12 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 24 +54.466s 0
      13 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 24 +56.483s 0
      14 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 24 +66.098s 0
      15 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 24 +66.588s 0
      16 23 Alexander Albon Williams 24 +74.632s 0
      17 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 24 +74.650s 0
      18 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 24 +75.284s 0
      19 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 23 +1 lap 0
      20 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 23 +1 lap 0
      21 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 21 +3 laps 0
      NC 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 7 +17 laps 0

      Source: F1.com

      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:12.695 1:11.628 1:11.163 21
      2 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:12.924 1:11.959 1:11.265 20
      3 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:13.022 1:11.915 1:11.296 21
      4 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:12.610 1:11.641 1:11.305 21
      5 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:12.673 1:11.970 1:11.494 25
      6 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:13.064 1:11.910 1:11.558 23
      7 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:13.290 1:11.874 1:11.618 22
      8 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 1:13.392 1:12.301 1:11.733 25
      9 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:13.142 1:12.433 1:12.079 22
      10 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:13.074 1:12.525 1:12.185 22
      11 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:13.115 1:12.616 14
      12 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 1:13.085 1:12.627 15
      13 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:13.188 1:12.797 19
      14 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:13.322 1:12.800 13
      15 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:13.544 1:13.137 17
      16 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:13.552 1:13.182 16
      17 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:13.574 10
      18 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:13.650 10
      19 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:13.818 10
      20 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:13.826 11
      21 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:14.371 10
      22 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:14.600 10

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 1 Lando Norris McLaren 72 2:4:44.859 25
      2 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 72 +11.536s 18
      3 63 George Russell Mercedes 72 +15.906s 15
      4 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 72 +16.755s 12
      5 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 72 +17.258s 10
      6 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 72 +32.332s 8
      7 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 72 +79.915s 6
      8 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 71 +1 lap 4
      9 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 71 +1 lap 2
      10 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 71 +1 lap 1
      11 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 71 +1 lap 0
      12 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 71 +1 lap 0
      13 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 71 +1 lap 0
      14 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 70 +2 laps 0
      15 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 70 +2 laps 0
      16 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 70 +2 laps 0
      17 23 Alexander Albon Williams 66 DNF 0
      NC 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 61 DNF 0
      NC 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 52 DNF 0
      NC 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 45 DNF 0
      NC 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 2 DNF 0
      NC 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 0 DNF 0

      Fastest Lap: Charles Leclerc // 1:14.230 on lap 60
      DOTD: Lando Norris

      Source: F1.com

      Next race:
      Italian Grand Prix
      Autodromo Nazionale Monza
      September 4-6, 2026

      9 votes
    10. Library resources megathread

      Since we had a number of threads on Library resources, I figured we should have a place to consolidate them. If you find something of note, add it to the thread! This will probably be rather US...

      Since we had a number of threads on Library resources, I figured we should have a place to consolidate them. If you find something of note, add it to the thread!

      This will probably be rather US centric, but if something works in your neck of the woods, let us know.

      28 votes
    11. Fitness Weekly Discussion

      What have you been doing lately for your own fitness? Try out any new programs or exercises? Have any questions for others about your training? Want to vent about poor behavior in the gym? Started...

      What have you been doing lately for your own fitness? Try out any new programs or exercises? Have any questions for others about your training? Want to vent about poor behavior in the gym? Started a new diet or have a new recipe you want to share? Anything else health and wellness related?

      4 votes