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4 votes
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What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them?
What have you been playing lately? Discussion about video games and board games are both welcome. Please don't just make a list of titles, give some thoughts about the game(s) as well.
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If you are asking for human attention, demonstrate human effort
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Marius Borg Høiby, the 29-year-old son of Norway's Crown Princess Mette-Marit, has been found guilty of two counts of rape and sentenced to four years in prison
4 votes -
Babylon 5 S01E14: "TKO" - Episode Discussion
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The Brain That Wouldn't Die - 6/15 3pm EST
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The man who's spent a lifetime making one, giant map
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Shopping around for a new-and-improved backup solution
A few days ago, I posted this and quickly realized that the world of data backups is far richer than just sudo rsync -av --delete --exclude=Videos /home /home_bkup. So now I'm window shopping the...
A few days ago, I posted this and quickly realized that the world of data backups is far richer than just
sudo rsync -av --delete --exclude=Videos /home /home_bkup.So now I'm window shopping the top Linux-supported backup solutions: borg, duplicacy, kopia, restic and--oh look--a core borg dev just dropped his own new-and-improved solution, vykar.
Restic was the first tool I started to research, and I thought I really liked it, got as far as installing, initializing a test repo, creating a couple of snapshots. But restic seems to be, hmm, fussy about the source and destination paths, absolute vs relative paths, etc.
The fact that merely renaming a parent directory (or grandparent, or great-grandparent, etc) causes restic to treat every unchanged byte below that as brand new ... that's a recipe for giant, bloated repos, and it's unacceptable to me ... and hey, lookit that, borg does not do that. So now, restic is out and borg is in.
But what other pros v cons are there, that I haven't even realized need to be considered? What advantages/disadvantages do other apps offer? Which ones can I easily automate with nightly/hourly cron jobs? Which ones have their own even-better automated solutions?
Do I even want encryption? All of my drives/volumes are LUKS encrypted, and anything I would store remotely would also get encrypted before it ever left my LAN ... plus, I'm just a bit nervous about having the backups encrypted, requiring working, functional software to restore/recover data from them....
That may not seem like such a big concern, perhaps, but I am currently working my way thru decrypting a bunch of 10-15 year old TrueCrypt-ed volumes, which requires using an old, outdated version of VeraCrypt and a somewhat "cross-my-fingers" effort to find KeePass repos old enough (also outdated, KeePass 1.0 repos) to still contain the various passwords I used to encrypt those ancient volumes ... but also still use new enough master passwords that I can still get the KeePass repos unlocked.
With rsync, I can literally just go into any backup, find the specific version of the specific file(s) I want to recover, and manually copy it back to my workspace. Is anything like that option available in any of these deduplicated/encrypted solutions, even if they're not encrypted? If (eg) a borg repo is created w/o encryption, the data is still all just borg-specific blobs, right? Or can I navigate into the repo and just manually grab files?
Oh yeah ... for reference, the past 10-ish years, my backup routine has been to create a new, dated, destination folder, starting with a full backup of my /home folder (excluding things like Videos, Music, VMs, other bulky stuff that gets backed up separately/differently), and then running nightly diff backups into the same folder, while also maintaining a "one-day-older" second backup of the whole thing on a 2nd HDD ... then, every 3-6 months, zipping up the current backup folder and starting a new one.
At any rate, there you go; that's the kind of stuff I'm thinking about now, as I overhaul my 20-year-old, 20TB (but could be 2TB) backup system.
Any and all feedback, recommendations, tips are welcome. Danke.
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Smartphones arrived just before the US fertility rate plunged. One study says it’s a direct cause.
25 votes -
Singer Oliver Tree dead at 32 following tragic helicopter crash
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Tildes Minecraft Weekly
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Sweden has halved its borrowing since facing financial meltdown in the 1990s, without raising taxes – and what Britain can learn from this experience
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Tildes Survey #8: What is your favorite video game? (Results)
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Original post
Submit your response here!
- Direct link: https://survey.tildes.community/-/what-is-your-favorite-video-game-8/
- This survey closes on June 14, 2026 at 10:00 UTC
- The results will be published on June 14 shortly after the survey has closed. I'll edit this topic and post a comment about it!
The current plans for questions that will be asked in the coming weeks are as follows:
Question Survey opens Survey closes Vote for the next 4 surveys 2026-05-24 18:00 UTC2026-05-31 10:00 UTCWhat is your gender identity? 2026-05-31 18:00 UTC2026-06-07 10:00 UTCWhat's your favorite video game? 2026-06-07 18:00 UTC 2026-06-14 10:00 UTC How optimistic are you about the future? 2026-06-14 18:00 UTC 2026-06-21 10:00 UTC How often do you visit/read Tildes? 2026-06-21 18:00 UTC 2026-06-28 10:00 UTC I was initially thinking of doing something like kfwyre suggested where you could submit a top 5 or so, but then I thought it would be more fun if I made you decide on a definitive answer. Like how with the pineapple pizza survey there was only Yes and No as answers, you have to make a choice!
So that's what I've decided to do! Pick your ultimate favorite video game. And feel free to discuss your honorable mentions in the comments, of course. ;)
Please submit your ideas for questions here! Even if they've been submitted already by someone else. All input is valuable! You can view all submitted questions on this dashboard.
Thank you all for participating!
The survey has been closed and the results are in!
Thank you to all the 166 people that responded! Check out the dashboard for the full results!
I was initially thinking of making a custom visualization with all the game covers in a big collage together, but I ended up not having the time to do it. :'( If anyone is interested in trying to make that though, please do! I think it'd look really cool.
Thank you all again for participating! Hope to see you in the next survey! :)
39 votes -
007 First Light | Fully Ramblomatic
12 votes -
Masquerage – Waves (2026)
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What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking?
What food and drinks have you been enjoying (or not enjoying) recently? Have you cooked or created anything interesting? Tell us about it!
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The "go fix a minor annoyance" togetherness topic
There's something small that you've been meaning to do but, for whatever reason, you haven't done it. Rather than just forgetting about it, however, your brain has decided to make it take up a...
There's something small that you've been meaning to do but, for whatever reason, you haven't done it. Rather than just forgetting about it, however, your brain has decided to make it take up a minor amount of space in your awareness -- not enough to make it an immediate concern or something you plan to act on, but still just enough to be annoying.
Well, this is your call to address the issue head on! Pull that mental splinter out and get rid of it for good!
Maybe you need to...
- change an air filter
- tighten your showerhead
- go through that stack of mail
- box up a return
- put more air in your bike tires
- rearrange a bookshelf
- throw out some expired cans
- vacuum behind the couch
- clean the dust out of your computer fan
- etc.
Whatever it is, this topic is your call to GO DO THE THING.
And then, come back here and tell us what you did.
One minor annoyance solved for only one person? Not a big deal.
LOTS of minor annoyances solved for LOTS of different people? GIGANTIC DEAL!
This topic is our space to communally revel in the glorious shared feeling of being slightly more annoyance-free, together.
IMPORTANT: Clearing up multiple annoyances is explicitly allowed!
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What do you think is the best sandwich?
By sandwich, I am excluding "the Shaggy", where you just pile every good thing you can think of on. I mean what is your favorite traditional sandwich, such that you could say the name to a...
By sandwich, I am excluding "the Shaggy", where you just pile every good thing you can think of on.
I mean what is your favorite traditional sandwich, such that you could say the name to a stranger and have a reasonable chance of them knowing what fillings you are thinking of.
You may include candidates which are not not universally be considered a sandwich, such as hot dogs, quesadillas, burgers, etc. So long as you genuinely beleive it to be superior to all other sandwich forms.
My current shortlist of candidates, as examples:
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Grilled Cheese - Simple, easy, accessible to the masses
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Bahn Mi - A Vietnamese sandwich of a split baguette with kewpie mayo spread, stuffed with marinated grilled pork, cucumber, carrot, and sliced green pepper.
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Italian Combo - An informal sub combination typically consisting of salami, capicolla, and some form of cheese, mozzarella being used as a default .
You can choose your own metric for what makes for a superior sandwich and may consider any standard toppings for the sandwich like mustard/mayo to be included.
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Where The Wild Things Are - by Mac Barnett and Jon Klassen
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Are there any games that had their development abandoned that you followed where you wish that continued/completed development?
For this post I was thinking of games more along the lines of an early access title that was abandoned or had a 1.0 release announced when it was not feature complete or still had bugs/issues that...
For this post I was thinking of games more along the lines of an early access title that was abandoned or had a 1.0 release announced when it was not feature complete or still had bugs/issues that were never addressed. If you feel like a live service/MMO game that has shut down should have kept going, feel free to share it as well.
41 votes -
Alexander Isak marked his first World Cup appearance with a trademark goal as Sweden thrashed Tunisia in their opening match of the 2026 World Cup
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Formula 1 Barcelona-Catalunya Grand Prix 2026 - Race Weekend Discussion
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Barcelona-Catalunya Grand Prix
Circuit de Barcelona-Catalunya
June 12-14, 2026
Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps 1 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:15.717 1:15.228 1:14.679 13 2 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:15.625 1:15.418 1:14.743 14 3 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:15.977 1:15.295 1:14.998 14 4 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:16.287 1:15.361 1:15.001 14 5 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:16.352 1:15.484 1:15.021 12 6 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 1:16.427 1:15.754 1:15.077 14 7 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:16.138 1:15.518 1:15.090 15 8 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:16.673 1:15.585 1:16.542 14 9 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:16.066 1:15.768 1:16.657 17 10 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:15.964 1:15.281 DNF 8 11 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:16.425 1:15.840 8 12 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:16.616 1:16.001 9 13 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:16.590 1:16.191 12 14 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:16.599 1:16.261 12 15 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:16.571 1:16.389 15 16 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:16.881 1:17.827 15 17 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:17.073 9 18 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:17.424 9 19 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:17.545 6 20 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:17.757 9 21 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:18.758 8 22 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:18.815 8 Source: F1.com
Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts. 1 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 66 1:32:28.105 25 2 63 George Russell Mercedes 66 +19.561s 18 3 1 Lando Norris McLaren 66 +23.719s 15 4 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 66 +40.497s 12 5 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 66 +58.661s 10 6 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 65 +1 lap 8 7 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 65 +1 lap 6 8 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 65 +1 lap 4 9 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 65 +1 lap 2 10 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 65 +1 lap 1 11 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 64 +2 laps 0 12 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 64 +2 laps 0 13 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 64 +2 laps 0 14 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 63 +3 laps 0 15 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 62 DNF 0 16 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 61 DNF 0 17 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 60 DNF 0 NC 23 Alexander Albon Williams 55 +11 laps 0 NC 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 37 DNF 0 NC 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 29 DNF 0 NC 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 15 DNF 0 NC 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 5 DNF 0 Fastest Lap: Lewis Hamilton // 1:20.122 on lap 44 👀
DOTD: Lewis HamiltonSource: F1.com
Next race:
Austrian Grand Prix
Red Bull Ring
June 26-28, 202614 votes -
How did Atari apply side art to Arcade Cabinets?
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Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like eulogies, ai overviews and gog. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was...
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like eulogies, ai overviews and gog. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was beady-eyed.
But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched
offbeatstories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!7 votes -
We're so back
Had to spend my whole day without refreshing Tildes every 5 minutes 😔 My browser already renamed the Tildes link on my new tab page to "502 Bad Gateway"
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The 2026 Running of the 24 Hours of Le Mans Race Week Discussion
Warning: this post may contain spoilers
Another year, another Le Mans race
Anyone staying up for the full 24 hours?
Hyperpole:
Thursday, 11 June 2026 - 20:00 CET (18:00 UTC)Qualifying & Hyperpole Provisional Results
Position Class Number Driver Team Qualifying Hyperpole 1 Hyperpole 2 1 Hypercar 15 Dries Vanthoor BMW M Team WRT 03:23.625 03:23.280 03:22.564 2 Hypercar 12 Will Stevens Cadillac Hertz Team Jota 03:23.148 03:23.312 03:23.078 3 Hypercar 35 Dries Vanthoor Alpine Endurance Team 03:23.135 03:23.018 03:23.620 4 Hypercar 20 António Félix da Costa BMW M Team WRT 03:23.444 03:23.246 03:23.764 5 Hypercar 101 Filipe Albuquerque Cadillac WTR 03:23.323 03:23.191 03:23.778 6 Hypercar 19 Paul-Loup Chatin Genesis Magma Racing 03:24.084 03:23.643 03:23.823 7 Hypercar 009 Roman De Angelis Aston Martin THOR Team 03:23.777 03:23.991 03:24.729 8 Hypercar 51 James Calado Ferrari AF Corse 03:24.623 03:23.406 03:25.081 9 Hypercar 17 André Lotterer Genesis Magma Racing 03:24.424 03:23.126 03:26.116 10 Hypercar 38 Jack Aitken Cadillac Hertz Team Jota 03:23.485 03:23.091 03:23.865 11 Hypercar 007 Ross Gunn Aston Martin THOR Team 03:23.906 03:24.001 12 Hypercar 50 Antonio Fuoco Ferrari AF Corse 03:24.514 03:24.105 13 Hypercar 36 Jules Gounon Alpine Endurance Team 03:23.960 03:24.122 14 Hypercar 7 Kamui Kobayashi Toyota Gazoo Racing 03:24.314 03:24.268 15 Hypercar 8 Ryō Hirakawa Toyota Gazoo Racing 03:23.791 03:24.578 16 Hypercar 93 Stoffel Vandoorne Peugeot TotalEnergies 03:24.978 17 Hypercar 83 Phillip Hanson AF Corse 03:25.495 18 Hypercar 94 Malthe Jakobsen Peugeot TotalEnergies 03:25.660 19 LMP2 28 Job van Uitert IDEC Sport 03:37.725 03:34.612 03:33.242 20 LMP2 29 Esteban Masson Forestier Racing by Panis 03:36.098 03:34.108 03:32.855 21 LMP2 24 Jack Doohan Nielsen Racing 03:37.665 03:35.150 03:33.510 22 LMP2 43 Nick Yelloly Inter Europol Competition 03:37.004 03:33.762 03:33.578 23 LMP2 Pro-Am 4 Alex Quinn CrowdStrike Racing by APR 03:39.369 03:33.889 03:33.628 24 LMP2 30 Julien Andlauer Duqueine Team 03:34.662 03:34.386 03:33.702 25 LMP2 Pro-Am 14 Kevin Estre TDS Racing 03:40.264 03:34.542 03:33.715 26 LMP2 Pro-Am 99 Dane Cameron AO by TF 03:38.698 03:34.845 03:34.280 27 LMP2 Pro-Am 183 Matthieu Vaxivière AF Corse 03:39.985 03:34.789 03:34.692 28 LMP2 343 Reshad de Gerus Inter Europol Competition 03:35.247 03:34.179 03:35.038 29 LMP2 22 Gergoire Saucy RLR MSport 03:37.564 03:36.510 30 LMP2 Pro-Am 222 Oliver Jarvis IDEC Sport 03:41.418 03:35.688 31 LMP2 26 Vladislav Lomko Vector Sport 03:36.555 03:35.982 32 LMP2 37 Theodor Jensen CLX Motorsport 03:35.229 03:37.419 33 LMP2 9 Kakunoshin Ohta Proton Competition 03:38.088 03:36.918 34 LMP2 Pro-Am 44 Horst Felbermayr Jr. Proton Competition 03:41.453 35 LMP2 Pro-Am 25 Michael Jensen Algarve Pro Racing 03:42.739 36 LMP2 Pro-Am 48 Fred Poordad RD Limited 03:42.856 37 LMP2 Pro-Am 3 John Farano DKR Engineering 03:43.551 38 LMGT3 27 Mattia Drudi Heart of Racing Team 03:56.688 03:53.166 03:52.433 39 LMGT3 21 Alessio Rovera Vista AF Corse 03:56.962 03:54.837 03:53.412 40 LMGT3 87 José María López Akkodis ASP Team 03:56.581 03:54.495 03:53.614 41 LMGT3 78 Jack Hawksworth Akkodis ASP Team 03:57.261 03:54.340 03:53.869 42 LMGT3 32 Sean Gelael Team WRT 03:56.537 03:53.337 03:54.401 43 LMGT3 69 Parker Thompson Team WRT 03:56.700 03:54.699 03:54.655 44 LMGT3 74 Dennis Marschall Kessel Racing 03:56.560 03:54.665 03:54.677 45 LMGT3 23 Jonny Adam Heart of Racing Team 03:55.975 03:53.723 03:54.888 46 LMGT3 91 Timur Boguslavskiy Manthey DK Engineering 03:56.183 03:53.561 03:55.610 47 LMGT3 77 Ben Tuck Proton Competition 03:55.951 03:54.528 03:55.666 48 LMGT3 88 Logan Sargeant Proton Competition 03:56.931 03:54.753 49 LMGT3 62 Julian Hanses Team Qatar by Iron Lynx 03:57.531 03:54.771 50 LMGT3 61 Rui Andrade Iron Lynx 03:56.950 03:55.033 51 LMGT3 54 Francesco Castellacci Vista AF Corse 03:57.277 03:55.175 52 LMGT3 92 Riccardo Pera The Bend Manthey 03:57.466 03:55.314 53 LMGT3 10 Antares Au Garage 59 03:57.662 54 LMGT3 33 Ben Keating TF Sport 03:57.724 55 LMGT3 79 Johannes Zelger Iron Lynx 03:57.776 56 LMGT3 150 Custodio Toledo Richard Mille AF Corse 03:57.991 57 LMGT3 57 Takeshi Kimura Kessel Racing 03:58.109 58 LMGT3 59 Clément Mateu Racing Spirit of Leman 03:58.395 59 LMGT3 58 Alexander West Garage 59 03:59.352 60 LMGT3 2 Prince Jefri Ibrahim TF Sport 03:59.592 61 LMGT3 13 Orey Fidani 13 Autosport 04:00.258 62 LMGT3 34 Peter Dempsey Racing Team Turkey by TF DSQ Race Start:
Saturday, 13 June 2026 - 16:00 CET (14:00 UTC)Race Results.
POSITION NUMBER TEAM DRIVER_1 DRIVER_2 DRIVER_3 VEHICLE CLASS GROUP STATUS LAPS TOTAL_TIME GAP_FIRST GAP_PREVIOUS FL_LAPNUM FL_TIME 1 7 Toyota Racing Mike CONWAY Kamui KOBAYASHI Nyck DE VRIES Toyota TR010 Hybrid HYPERCAR Classified 381 24:03'01.030 303 3'25.155 2 20 BMW M Team WRT Robin FRIJNS René RAST Sheldon VAN DER LINDE BMW M Hybrid V8 HYPERCAR Classified 381 24:03'11.943 10.913 10.913 304 3'25.607 3 8 Toyota Racing Sébastien BUEMI Brendon HARTLEY Ryo HIRAKAWA Toyota TR010 Hybrid HYPERCAR Classified 381 24:03'21.447 20.417 9.504 306 3'25.041 4 12 Cadillac Hertz Team Jota Louis DELÉTRAZ Will STEVENS Norman NATO Cadillac V-Series.R HYPERCAR Classified 381 24:03'33.411 32.381 11.964 343 3'25.369 5 51 Ferrari AF Corse Alessandro PIER GUIDI James CALADO Antonio GIOVINAZZI Ferrari 499P HYPERCAR Classified 381 24:05'23.453 2'22.423 1'50.042 303 3'26.154 6 35 Alpine Endurance Team António FÉLIX DA COSTA Charles MILESI Ferdinand HABSBURG Alpine A424 HYPERCAR Classified 381 24:05'31.235 2'30.205 7.782 313 3'26.243 7 83 AF Corse Yifei YE Robert KUBICA Philip HANSON Ferrari 499P HYPERCAR Classified 381 24:05'36.603 2'35.573 5.368 314 3'26.382 8 007 Aston Martin Thor Team Harry TINCKNELL Tom GAMBLE Ross GUNN Aston Martin Valkyrie HYPERCAR Classified 379 24:03'30.890 2 Laps 2 Laps 318 3'26.611 9 101 Cadillac WTR Ricky TAYLOR Jordan TAYLOR Filipe ALBUQUERQUE Cadillac V-Series.R HYPERCAR Classified 379 24:03'59.236 2 Laps 28.346 286 3'26.368 10 36 Alpine Endurance Team Frédéric MAKOWIECKI Jules GOUNON Victor MARTINS Alpine A424 HYPERCAR Classified 379 24:05'06.622 2 Laps 1'07.386 300 3'26.399 11 94 Peugeot Totalenergies Loïc DUVAL Malthe JAKOBSEN Théo POURCHAIRE Peugeot 9X8 HYPERCAR Classified 377 24:04'18.448 4 Laps 2 Laps 340 3'28.688 12 93 Peugeot Totalenergies Paul DI RESTA Stoffel VANDOORNE Nick CASSIDY Peugeot 9X8 HYPERCAR Classified 376 24:05'21.204 5 Laps 1 Laps 299 3'28.268 13 19 Genesis Magma Racing Mathieu JAMINET Paul-Loup CHATIN Daniel JUNCADELLA Genesis GMR-001-Hypercar HYPERCAR Classified 372 24:04'04.363 9 Laps 4 Laps 297 3'27.645 14 009 Aston Martin Thor Team Alex RIBERAS Marco SØRENSEN Roman DE ANGELIS Aston Martin Valkyrie HYPERCAR Classified 372 24:04'28.357 9 Laps 23.994 352 3'26.326 15 43 Inter Europol Competition Jakub SMIECHOWSKI Tom DILLMANN Nicholas YELLOLY Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 361 24:06'33.808 20 Laps 11 Laps 248 3'36.312 16 343 Inter Europol Competition Bijoy GARG Reshad DE GÉRUS Nico MÜLLER Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 360 24:03'07.994 21 Laps 1 Laps 287 3'36.780 17 29 Forestier Racing by Panis Louis ROUSSET Esteban MASSON Oliver GRAY Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 360 24:03'20.959 21 Laps 12.965 288 3'35.910 18 26 Vector Sport Ryan CULLEN Vladislav LOMKO Pietro FITTIPALDI Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 360 24:03'34.356 21 Laps 13.397 289 3'36.503 19 37 CLX Motorsport Adrien CLOSMENIL Ian AGUILERA Theodor JENSEN Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 360 24:04'52.522 21 Laps 1'18.166 266 3'37.168 20 28 IDEC SPORT Paul LAFARGUE Valerio RINICELLA Job VAN UITERT Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 359 24:05'11.370 22 Laps 1 Laps 296 3'36.960 21 4 Crowdstrike Racing by APR George KURTZ Alexander QUINN Laurin HEINRICH Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 358 24:03'26.294 23 Laps 1 Laps 286 3'36.567 22 22 United Autosports Rasmus LINDH Grégoire SAUCY Mikkel JENSEN Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 358 24:03'37.658 23 Laps 11.364 286 3'36.704 23 183 AF Corse François PERRODO Matthieu VAXIVIERE Ben BARNICOAT Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 357 24:04'34.947 24 Laps 1 Laps 285 3'36.632 24 99 AO by TF PJ HYETT James ALLEN Dane CAMERON Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 356 24:05'02.178 25 Laps 1 Laps 289 3'37.081 25 9 Proton Competition Jonas RIED Kakunoshin OHTA Harry KING Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 356 24:05'32.283 25 Laps 30.105 220 3'37.853 26 25 Algarve Pro Racing Michael JENSEN Enzo TRULLI Jake HUGHES Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 356 24:05'50.357 25 Laps 18.074 321 3'37.375 27 14 TDS Racing Tobias LUTKE Mathias BECHE Kévin ESTRE Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 355 24:06'08.936 26 Laps 1 Laps 284 3'36.090 28 44 Proton Competition Horst Jr FELBERMAYR Horst Felix FELBERMAYR Lorenzo FLUXA Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 354 24:04'54.501 27 Laps 1 Laps 43 3'38.713 29 222 United Autosports Daniel SCHNEIDER Benjamin HANLEY Oliver JARVIS Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 354 24:05'24.274 27 Laps 29.773 259 3'37.439 30 48 RD Limited Fred POORDAD Tristan VAUTIER Romain DUMAS Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 353 24:05'07.555 28 Laps 1 Laps 291 3'38.038 31 3 DKR Engineering John FARANO Sebastian ALVAREZ Renger VAN DER ZANDE Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 P/A Classified 344 24:06'21.773 37 Laps 9 Laps 306 3'37.941 32 24 Nielsen Racing David HEINEMEIER HANSSON Edward PEARSON Jack DOOHAN Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Classified 341 24:03'49.886 40 Laps 3 Laps 316 3'36.606 33 33 TF Sport Ben KEATING Jonny EDGAR Nicky CATSBURG Corvette Z06 LMGT3.R LMGT3 Classified 336 24:06'52.461 45 Laps 5 Laps 290 3'54.592 34 78 Akkodis ASP Team Tom VAN ROMPUY Hadrien DAVID Jack HAWKSWORTH Lexus RC F LMGT3 LMGT3 Classified 335 24:03'08.533 46 Laps 1 Laps 305 3'53.802 35 23 Heart of Racing Team Gray NEWELL Eduardo BARRICHELLO Jonny ADAM Aston Martin Vantage AMR LMGT3 LMGT3 Classified 335 24:04'13.931 46 Laps 1'05.398 47 3'54.736 36 87 Akkodis ASP Team Petru UMBRÄRESCU Clemens SCHMID José María LÓPEZ Lexus RC F LMGT3 LMGT3 Classified 335 24:04'15.666 46 Laps 1.735 48 3'54.445 37 21 Vista AF Corse François HÉRIAU Simon MANN Alessio ROVERA Ferrari 296 LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Classified 335 24:04'34.041 46 Laps 18.375 33 3'54.709 38 34 Racing Team Turkey by TF Peter DEMPSEY Salih YOLUÇ Charlie EASTWOOD Corvette Z06 LMGT3.R LMGT3 Classified 335 24:05'08.218 46 Laps 34.177 124 3'54.953 39 32 Team WRT Darren LEUNG Sean GELAEL Augusto FARFUS BMW M4 LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Classified 334 24:03'32.171 47 Laps 1 Laps 250 3'55.282 40 150 Richard Mille AF Corse Custodio TOLEDO Lilou WADOUX Riccardo AGOSTINI Ferrari 296 LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Classified 334 24:04'30.987 47 Laps 58.816 124 3'55.894 41 74 Kessel Racing Dustin BLATTNER Lorenzo PATRESE Dennis MARSCHALL Ferrari 296 LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Classified 334 24:04'44.899 47 Laps 13.912 266 3'55.182 42 57 Kessel Racing Takeshi KIMURA Conrad LAURSEN Daniel SERRA Ferrari 296 LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Classified 334 24:05'15.370 47 Laps 30.471 315 3'55.456 43 59 Racing Spirit Of Leman Clément MATEU Marius FOSSARD Valentin HASSE CLOT Aston Martin Vantage AMR LMGT3 LMGT3 Classified 332 24:03'47.474 49 Laps 2 Laps 288 3'55.119 44 10 Garage 59 Antares AU Thomas FLEMING Marvin KIRCHHÖFER McLaren 720S LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Classified 332 24:06'28.306 49 Laps 2'40.832 64 3'55.627 45 92 The Bend Manthey Yasser SHAHIN Riccardo PERA Richard LIETZ Porsche 911 GT3 R LMGT3 LMGT3 Classified 330 24:05'31.149 51 Laps 2 Laps 261 3'55.051 46 2 TF Sport Prince Jefri IBRAHIM Lorcan HANAFIN Ben GREEN Corvette Z06 LMGT3.R LMGT3 Classified 330 24:06'15.609 51 Laps 44.460 72 3'55.312 47 58 Garage 59 Alexander WEST Finn GEHRSITZ Benjamin GOETHE McLaren 720S LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Classified 329 24:03'07.290 52 Laps 1 Laps 300 3'55.994 48 62 Team Qatar by Iron Lynx Abdulla AL-KHELAIFI Julian HANSES Giuliano ALESI Mercedes-AMG LMGT3 LMGT3 Classified 324 24:03'54.380 57 Laps 5 Laps 264 3'55.261 49 88 Proton Competition Stefano GATTUSO Giammarco LEVORATO Logan SARGEANT Ford Mustang LMGT3 LMGT3 Classified 323 24:06'25.942 58 Laps 1 Laps 248 3'56.412 50 30 Duqueine Team Doriane PIN Julien ANDLAUER Richard VERSCHOOR Oreca 07 - Gibson LMP2 Retired 307 20:36'43.524 74 Laps 16 Laps 289 3'36.518 51 27 Heart of Racing Team Ian JAMES Zacharie ROBICHON Mattia DRUDI Aston Martin Vantage AMR LMGT3 LMGT3 Retired 291 21:03'27.097 90 Laps 16 Laps 250 3'54.747 52 69 Team WRT Anthony MCINTOSH Parker THOMPSON Daniel HARPER BMW M4 LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Retired 291 21:08'08.763 90 Laps 4'41.666 273 3'56.660 53 50 Ferrari AF Corse Antonio FUOCO Nicklas NIELSEN Miguel MOLINA Ferrari 499P HYPERCAR Retired 284 18:19'55.370 97 Laps 7 Laps 155 3'26.903 54 15 BMW M Team WRT Kevin MAGNUSSEN Raffaele MARCIELLO Dries VANTHOOR BMW M Hybrid V8 HYPERCAR Retired 272 17:20'34.543 109 Laps 12 Laps 267 3'25.638 55 17 Genesis Magma Racing André LOTTERER Luis Felipe DERANI Mathys JAUBERT Genesis GMR-001-Hypercar HYPERCAR Retired 263 16:26'58.396 118 Laps 9 Laps 95 3'27.915 56 91 Manthey DK Engineering James COTTINGHAM Timur BOGUSLAVSKIY Ayhancan GÜVEN Porsche 911 GT3 R LMGT3 LMGT3 Retired 254 18:02'21.172 127 Laps 9 Laps 172 3'54.593 57 77 Proton Competition Eric POWELL Ben TUCK Sebastian PRIAULX Ford Mustang LMGT3 LMGT3 Retired 244 17:33'09.298 137 Laps 10 Laps 88 3'57.026 58 38 Cadillac Hertz Team Jota Sébastien BOURDAIS Earl BAMBER Jack AITKEN Cadillac V-Series.R HYPERCAR Retired 218 15:57'19.921 163 Laps 26 Laps 123 3'26.370 59 79 Iron Lynx Johannes ZELGER Matteo CRESSONI Lin HODENIUS Mercedes-AMG LMGT3 LMGT3 Retired 153 11:03'22.599 228 Laps 65 Laps 137 3'56.320 60 54 Vista AF Corse Thomas FLOHR Francesco CASTELLACCI Davide RIGON Ferrari 296 LMGT3 Evo LMGT3 Retired 110 7:36'48.500 271 Laps 43 Laps 48 3'55.613 61 61 Iron Lynx Martin BERRY Rui ANDRADE Maxime MARTIN Mercedes-AMG LMGT3 LMGT3 Retired 65 5:03'16.609 316 Laps 45 Laps 55 3'56.396 62 13 13 Autosport Orey FIDANI Lars KERN Matthew BELL Corvette Z06 LMGT3.R LMGT3 Retired 61 4:55'34.441 320 Laps 4 Laps 43 3'55.608 10 votes -
Elon Musk net worth estimated at $1.1 trillion
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Does generative AI have a natural limit without a major innovation?
I was musing about this recently with the recent models becoming more capable. The core of gen AI is the model, which is trained on a massive dataset. To date, gen AI has improved because the...
I was musing about this recently with the recent models becoming more capable. The core of gen AI is the model, which is trained on a massive dataset. To date, gen AI has improved because the models have become larger, more efficient, the data they are trained on has become better and the software/harnesses around them has improved to help query them.
As I see it, surely the bottleneck will soon become the data they are trained on? If we imagine a scenario where a models could consume an infinite amount of training data, and there is no limit to the training time or quality. The sum of human skill/knowledge is the limiting factor. Gen AI should (in theory) never be able to out preform or push the boundary of the sum of humanity at time of training.
Or, counterpoint, is there enough randomness and speed to iterate that gen AI can actually step change and improve if training times/cost were less prohibitive? Most companies/models today will save good output and feed it back into the next iteration, but right now that's taking months. What if that took minutes?
What do you think?
Is gen AI going to take us to general intelligence?
Will gen AI get to a place where it's "intelligence" and reasoning is actually better than the sum of Humanity?21 votes -
Favorite recipes you've come up with
Hi all. I'm interested on hearing about recipes you've come up with yourself, whether completely from scratch or variation on an existing one. Maybe you were lacking an ingredient one day, and...
Hi all. I'm interested on hearing about recipes you've come up with yourself, whether completely from scratch or variation on an existing one. Maybe you were lacking an ingredient one day, and subbed one that changed the recipe in a good way. Maybe you tried a dish at a restaurant that you love and attempted to recreate it at home. Maybe you had a bunch of leftover ingredients you didn't know what to do with, so decided to throw them all together and pray for the best. Or maybe inspiration struck suddenly one day for a perfect dish, and you gave it a shot. Would love to hear the backstory of the recipe if you have it. I'll start.
Cincinnati style daal. The family chili recipe growing up was cincinatti/skyline style chili. I've thus always preferred my chili without beans, and I love the depth of flavor cincinnati style chili has. My family even likes to use ground turkey meat because we think it absorbs the flavors of the spices better than beef does. When I moved to the UK, I suddenly had access to excellent Indian food, daals now being one of my favorites. One thing that immediately struck me about daals was the depth of flavor in them. The lentils serve to add texture and some creaminess, but the spices in it are the highlight of the dish. In fact, this kinda reminded me of my family chili. I began wondering, could I make a daal but with the spices from my family chili? This would be pretty nice, as turkey is kinda hard to find outside of christmas time here and lentils are a good low-cost protein. Well, it turns out the cooking process for daal and my family's chili are pretty similar, so I took a black daal recipe from dishoom and tried subbing the cincinatti chili spices for the spices in the daal. Many of the other ingredients between the two recipes are similar. And it's come out pretty good! I'm still refining it, it lacks some umami without the meat, but I think the next batch will be great. Serving it with naan and cilantro, instead of spaghetti. Always with shredded cheese and chopped onions of course.
Filipino Dip. One of my favorite recipes to make is chicken adobo, so easy to make and it's delicious. I usually have some chicken and sauce left after making a batch, and one day it occurred to me that there was enough sauce left I could dip a sandwich in it. Huh, that's kinda similar to a french dip. So I shredded up the remaining chicken, toasted a baguette, and sauteed a bunch of onions to add to the sandwich. It was absolutely delicious, and what I will be doing with my leftover chicken adobo from now on.
St Patrick's Day Ramen. So, this year I decided to make my family's St Patrick's Day meal. Kinda hard to do in the UK, as corned beef is really not a big thing. (Yes, I know they have the tinned version, no, it's nothing like the real deal). But I corned my own beef, and then braised it in red wine, and invited friends over to share. Afterwards, with all the corned beef gone, a friend and I were looking at the braising liquid. There was a ton of it left, and it tasted frankly delicious. My friend pointed out that it reminded him of a ramen broth, and so an idea was born. I bought some thinly sliced beef from the local asian grocery store, and assembled the ramen with it, the noodles, cabbage, thinly sliced green apples (I know it seems weird, but it's used in the family cabbage recipe), and pickled garlic/cucumbers made from the leftover corned beef brine. It came out delicious, and will definitely be doing it next year.
Oven roasted brussel sprouts and carrots. This came from a restaurant near me that unfortunately closed. They would make the most amazing, crispy, roast brussel sprouts and carrots served with a tangy, smokey dressing. After it closed, I would dream of these brussel sprouts, and I tried googling recipes to find something similar with no luck. I knew only a couple of things: that the head chef was Peruvian and said on the menu it had inspired this dish; there was mezcal in the dressing, likely providing the smokey component. So after researching Peruvian recipes, I've come up with a vinaigrette that's as close as I can remember: bragg's cider vinegar, juice from one lime, olive oil, salt and black pepper, and a splash of mezcal. If available, add a touch of aji amarillo paste. May need to add a little sugar for a hint of sweetness. It took some time to figure out a crispy brussel sprout too, as home ovens can't get as hot as a commercial kitchen, but also finally found an oven roasting recipe I was happy with.
Looking forward to hearing everyone elses recipes!
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"The therapeutic industry is platonic prostitution"
If any therapists are reading this, feel free to skip this post or at least know that I do not intend to offend you or your profession. I happened upon that phrase while scrolling somewhere. I...
If any therapists are reading this, feel free to skip this post or at least know that I do not intend to offend you or your profession.
I happened upon that phrase while scrolling somewhere. I thought that it is a harsh thing to say and while it is not something I entirely agree with, I also do not entirely disagree with it. It was real provocative too, so it really got me thinking.
As someone that has done hundreds of hours of therapy with little to show for it, I feel like it is an understandable thing to say because on a deep fundamental level, I truly get it.
If you are talking to a friend or loved one (who is not being paid to talk to you) about mental health, if you bring up some personal issue, raise a life problem, anything deeper than surface level interpersonal stuff, there is a high likelihood that the conversation will steer towards a version of this question: have you tried therapy?
That is - probably unintentionally and unbeknownst to them - the signal to me that the conversation is now over. They do not have the mental capacity to talk about it at the moment, maybe they feel they are out of their depth with such a heavy subject matter, or perhaps they do not have the life experience to relate to it. Maybe all of the above. It is all fair enough. So they bring up their best bet for a solution that in their mind might help. It gets very old but I remind myself to appreciate their good faith and good intentions.
The answer to that question is that yes I have indeed tried therapy. I have tried so much therapy, in fact, that whole teams of therapists have concluded that therapy cannot help me. I would be remiss if I was not open about that bias, and it is probably the reason I have found the incentive to spend so many hours writing this post in the first place.
The way we behave and interact with each other is unrecognizable compared to just one or two centuries ago before industrialization. It used to be that whatever troubles you were dealing with, you probably had a community around you. Even if you did not talk about what troubled you directly, the people were there to make you feel safe. You didn't have to talk about diagnostic criteria and therapeutic methods and psychiatric theories and mindfulness and self-help resources... you had people to talk to. The simple fact that people were around you all day every day meant that you got on with it and coped with things. You had a neighborhood or village or whatever in which friends and family lived and worked closely together every day. People to talk to all day. That is therapeutic in itself.
Nowadays, work-life balance is such an enforced thing that connections seem to be in rigid boxes. Not that people are not friends with their coworkers, but it is my impression that it is kind of rare to truly befriend a coworker. So you have a box that is called work, and you have a box that is called life. And you do not much mix them together - you certainly do not talk about heavy life things at work. Big no-no, even though it is the former that takes up a majority of most people's time awake during the week. Not to go on a tangent about capitalism, but the way our entire system is built up around individualism is not something that can be ignored here either. Through urbanization, we seem to have lost our sense of one another. I of course cannot speak to other societies than my own, but I do see these sentiments from people that live in other countries of the western world too.
I do not think that it is controversial to conclude that individualism can be extremely harmful. The we-society of the past pretty quickly transformed into our current me-society. So much so that "self-help" is a huge industry. A lot of people are getting by just fine of course, but for those of us who are not fitting into boxes, this societal obsession with individualism only worsens our states of mind. Off to school, off to university, off to work, start a family, get married, build a house, mow the lawn, rinse and repeat for the next generation. That is what the majority is doing and they have little to no problems doing it. Some of them think it is so normal and easy, even, that it becomes repetitive so they find themselves calling it the hamster wheel and start writing articles about how boring it is to be married and have children and own property.
But if you do not fit into those boxes, are not capable of these things, do not have a supportive environment, well good luck to you, there will be no networking, no meaningful connections, there will be major hardship ahead if you have not somehow managed to figure it all out on your own. Due to being even slightly socially inept, behind your peers in any way, or if you chose a different path in life, chances are that you are sooner or later going to run into this so-called platonic prostitution of the therapeutic industry.
On your own, family might be there but they are not truly supportive, might have a friend or two but they are not really close friends that can be relied upon for important stuff. Try to talk to them about things and they end up distancing themselves because it is either not that kind of relationship or they do not actually care or you are simply too much to handle for them. Therapy becomes the answer when you bring up the tough subjects and the things that happened as a child, be it bullying or emotional neglect or some kind of violence against you that the adults should have been there to protect you from or at least have seen the signs afterwards but never did. You are far enough outside of what is considered the normal problems, or you are already far enough into a long spiral of mental health issues, or far enough into the depths of psychiatric diagnoses that in order for someone to talk to you, to help you, they have to be paid to do it. How humiliating. But you are told therapy is the only way to help you.
Unfortunately all you can get is one session every two weeks. And the therapist does not even have time for all your problems despite being paid a hefty hourly rate by you or by the system. Come back next time and hope they remember their notes because otherwise you will spend half of their precious scheduled time reiterating your issues and reminding your therapist of your history. But you tell yourself that it is fair enough that they forgot some minor details like the death of your loved one. They are paid to be there, but they are only human after all, you tell yourself it is not fair to expect them to perfectly remember everything. Never mind all the other problems that arose in the time since the previous meeting, but there is not enough time to talk about that. But this is therapy, this will help and things will get better now!
I would usually spend the rest of the day after a therapy session thinking about what I forgot to bring up. The next day I would try to write a few things down, but once the next session comes around, those things are already out-dated and they do not seem to be relevant anymore. It does not matter anyway because there might have been a new cut on my arm because of things brought up in therapy that there was not enough time to process, and I did not care to hide it, and so now the entire new session is spent treating this tiny symptom of illness instead of the years of trauma that is the reason for it. That is how it has to be because the therapist has rules to follow, a system designed in such a way that something like self-harm must immediately be brought front and center. Forget your traumas for now. Forget your life circumstances. Let us do some breathing exercises! Let us do some grounding techniques! We should engage in some mindfulness!
Anyone would probably become mentally unwell and fulfill diagnostic criteria for something or other if their living situation became bad enough. Top of your class, job interviews, get romantically involved and move in to a great apartment together, get accepted to university, probably not going to be a whole lot of symptoms there when things are going great and breezing by. Lose it all though and you are suddenly a textbook example of multiple mental illnesses. Have you tried therapy?
But it will not cure loneliness, unemployment, financial ruin, bad environments, abusive homes. Probably not a lot of therapists would claim that it does, but those unfamiliar certainly do tout it as the cure-all, because they simply do not know better, because individualism is taught as the way of life from the moment you exit the womb. And it is so harmful. The things that therapy claims to solve is to stand on your own two feet and be self-sufficient, self-reliant, stable, need minimal help from the outside. It has even gone so far that a concept of co-dependency has been invented to be a criteria for diagnoses because god forbid you are actually a human being who relies on others like the pack animals we are. Even if you do not rely on others, if you truly desire to do it all on your own, it takes months and months and years and years to get there because of the time between each appointment you can get. It is not even in any way a holistic approach. It is one piece in a huge puzzle, the rest of which you probably cannot even find professional help with.
Let us say that the solutions to all sorts of problems in life are contained in a big toolbox. All those tools will be needed in one way or another, at one point in time or another, throughout life. Therapists are, for some reason, said to know the entire toolbox. Again, they do not claim this themselves. It is society that vaguely thinks so. But the therapist really only knows how to use a small set of the tools needed to repair you. Hopefully the therapist you find is competent, but you might get unlucky and not even know it before it is too late and damage has been done by the wrong treatment being used. They specialize in specific methods but end up applying the wrong one to you. Laymen put them on a pedestal as a mythical force that can solve all manner of serious and complex issues with just a few words of wisdom here and there, or they have hidden gems of mind blowing advice.
But as I have come to see it, the cure to most things that therapists try to solve is simply the formation of a bond. Yet when they undergo their training, it is specifically instilled in them that they should not ever form a bond with their clients because they should not get emotionally invested in them on account of it would cause burn-out to take on so much suffering from people every day. So they create a wall between themselves and the client, a distance they proclaim to be healthy for themselves but what most people would think was worryingly cold if it were any other meetings between two humans. But because one part is paying the other, it is fine, and it is also not a real bond with another person anyway because money was exchanged and services provided. It is robotic.
A bond and a community is what would solve the problems a lot of people who are in therapy have. But we are on average way too individualistic for that. Therapy would not exist to the extent it does if it wasn't so difficult to find solid friends and relationships in modern society. If we all had a tight knit circle that we could lean on, there would not be anywhere near the current demand for therapists and psychologists and psychiatrists and social workers and mentors and advisors and teachers and whatever other mental health professionals I could list.
The key is that the client-therapist relationship is inherently transactional. And so it can never be the nurturing environment that it needs to be to get better and to improve and to become a functioning individual. Even terms like emotional labour have been invented only to become a commodity through which an entire industry is built. People selling their time to help the less fortunate because they sure as hell will not do it to such an extent for free. Maybe some of them also volunteer their services, but I have a hunch that they are few and far between. They are good people for trying to help, but at the same time, they really are only even talking to me because they are getting paid to. That simple fact ruins any and all feeling of sincerity right away.
Why is a therapy-like session not something the average person simply just does for their next of kin? A favour to be returned when the time comes. Some people require more, some people require less, and that ought to be fine. But instead we have this whole industry of people that can sell themselves as the solution to oftentimes unsolvable problems. And those that never even tried it will also help sell it because their social media regurgitates fancy terms that sound smart on their feed, making it sound like a miracle.
But because of our individualistic way of life, or because what we struggle with is outside the norm, or because we did not grow up in a supportive environment, or we experienced things when we were very young, or we do not fit into exact boxes... Whatever it is. It is now entirely socially acceptable for everyone and anyone to say that they cannot deal with this, it is too much, you should get professional help. You do not need a friend, you need therapy.
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Four things to know about the newly approved US sunscreen ingredient
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The BBC went behind the scenes as the score for the blockbuster James Bond video game was recorded
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What's a game you're dying to play that doesn't exist?
Greetings everyone. I'm currently in the process of getting a Computer Science degree for two primary reasons. 1.) Because I want to get a stable development job where I'm currently employed, but...
Greetings everyone. I'm currently in the process of getting a Computer Science degree for two primary reasons. 1.) Because I want to get a stable development job where I'm currently employed, but most importantly to me 2) Because I want to make video games and have the educational credentials to confidently do so.
I know I know, you don't need a computer science degree to create video games, and my program doesn't even teach game development. So I have a long journey ahead learning game dev alongside my program in my own time. Also I have no intentions of working at an actual game company.
So my question today is,
What is a game that you are dying to play, that nobody has made yet?
I'm trying to get some inspiration. It's hard to think about something that truly doesn't exist, because there's so many amazing games already. I'm genuinely curious.
If you're struggling like I am, feel free to list a game that's been made exactly once but no ones been able to reproduce it's genius.
I'll start,
I am DYING to play a factory builder game, but with ARPG gameplay. So Factorio / Dyson Sphere Program meets Diablo 4 & Path Of Exile. I just think this would create such a dopamine addicting game that would be impossible to pull away from if done right. My idea would be to have the factory be the loot crafting mechanic for progressively better armos, while the ARPG is what you use to get the materials needed to craft truly insane gear. Idk, if done right I think this could have legs.
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Access to Fable and Mythos 5 cut off after US government order
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Olivia Rodrigo - you seem pretty sad for a girl so in love (2026)
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Blizzard sues to take down another private World of Warcraft server, Project Ascension
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Ruins of the web: Hello Internet
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Star Trek Continues, a fan-made Star Trek series
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Ceiling fan light switch replacement help
Solved! I'm trying to replace the light pull switch on the ceiling fan. Breaker is off, light bulbs are out. The old switch has two black wires that run into the light socket, out of the socket...
Solved!
I'm trying to replace the light pull switch on the ceiling fan. Breaker is off, light bulbs are out.
The old switch has two black wires that run into the light socket, out of the socket comes a white and black wire. The black wire seems to be connected all the way through, the white wire obviously starts in the small socket fixture.
How do I connect these wires? Further up is a crimp connecter on the white and black wires.
I thought this was going to be easier.
Edit: pictures hopefully fixed.
I also don't have any wire nuts or similar connectors apparently so, I am running to grab that.Edited: link to pics deleted for my sanity
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Taskmaster Season 21, Episode 1 - 'Cube is good.' | Full episode
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What have you been listening to this week?
What have you been listening to this week? You don't need to do a 6000 word review if you don't want to, but please write something! If you've just picked up some music, please update on that as...
What have you been listening to this week? You don't need to do a 6000 word review if you don't want to, but please write something! If you've just picked up some music, please update on that as well, we'd love to see your hauls :)
Feel free to give recs or discuss anything about each others' listening habits.
You can make a chart if you use last.fm:
http://www.tapmusic.net/lastfm/
Remember that linking directly to your image will update with your future listening, make sure to reupload to somewhere like imgur if you'd like it to remain what you have at the time of posting.
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When is a bird a ‘birb’? An extremely important guide.
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Save Point: A game deal roundup for the week of June 14
Add awesome game deals to this topic as they come up over the course of the week! Alternately, ask about a given game deal if you want the community’s opinions: e.g. “What games from this bundle...
Add awesome game deals to this topic as they come up over the course of the week!
Alternately, ask about a given game deal if you want the community’s opinions: e.g. “What games from this bundle are most worth my attention?”
Rules:
- No grey market sales
- No affiliate links
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World Cup 2026!
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What internet discussion sites remain?
I'm using the phrase 'internet discussion site' pretty informally, so I hope my meaning will become clearer as you continue reading. I got rid of Snapchat around 4 years ago now. At some point in...
I'm using the phrase 'internet discussion site' pretty informally, so I hope my meaning will become clearer as you continue reading.
I got rid of Snapchat around 4 years ago now. At some point in 2023 I noticed a sharp downtick in discussion quality on Twitter, and got rid of it as well. About two years ago, frustrated with the lack of human interaction and the vying for attention, I deleted Instagram. Near the end of 2025, I stopped using Discord. The final nail in the coffin has now arrived, since I'm unfortunately coming to the conclusion that Reddit is no longer worth visiting, leaving me almost entirely cordoned off from internet communication at a time when more humans are using it than ever before.
I won't bother repeating my personal reasons for this exodus since I feel confident that most people on this website have feelings on the matter that at least approximate my own.
Realistically this is a sign that it's time to prioritize interaction in the real world, and that's certainly a worthwhile thing to pursue. But bluntly society has restructured around the internet in a pretty substantial way, and I don't think it's an unreasonable ask to find various forms of forums on which more meaningful discussions can take place.
Here is my personal survey of the current landscape:- tildes.net: Basically good. I really enjoy this website and I think in a lot of ways the 'bar/pub/cafe' model for a forum, where you can peer through the window but require permission to gain admission, is the only viable model for future online discussion places as the internet becomes ever more saturated with bots and bad actors.
- lobste.rs: Also basically good, for the same reasons as tildes. In some aspects, limited by the fact that it has a particular focus. In other ways, that's a really good thing. Maybe in a perfect world there would be a lobste.rs equivalent for every hobby, and we would return to an early internet forum world.
- Hacker News: Also basically good but perhaps a bit less so than the above two. I think most of the things posted on there are interesting, but a lot of the discussion has lately felt less insightful than it used to. I think a different tildes post noted this as well, but it's very caught up in the AI news cycle, often to an unfortunate degree.
- Rateyourmusic: The core site is enjoyable, and the forums are usually fun to check in on every now and then. Certainly a worthwhile place to visit if you enjoy music.
- Stackexchange networks: This is cheating since this is obviously many sites. I'm a mathematics student and I've found MSE and MathOverflow to be really wonderful places to learn and converse, albeit with some very arcane and strict rules for posting. The philosophy SE seems also generally of a high quality, and there are many other SE sites that I occasionally stumble into and am pleasantly surprised by. Unfortunately I expect its time is finite, since the UX has slowly but surely been degrading and the site traffic dropping.
- Fediverse networks: These sites clearly have potential, but for whatever reason it's still just not there. I drop into lemmy and Mastodon occasionally, but the posts are rarely of high quality. In many ways they just feel like "Reddit/Twitter but with a different name".
Surely these can't be all, right? It's a little soul-crushing to think how many people are online at any given time and how hard it is to find a place not drowning in noise. Maybe this is just my lament.
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Front HVAC not working in minivan
Ok so this is our wheelchair van, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to take it to the shop but I am hoping for an idea of what is going on. We have a 2014 Dodge Grand Caravan with less than...
Ok so this is our wheelchair van, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to take it to the shop but I am hoping for an idea of what is going on.
We have a 2014 Dodge Grand Caravan with less than 45k miles that's been fully modified for wheelchair use. (This shouldn't impact much but it does mean the electric is a bit more complex). It has separate front and rear controls and separate driver passenger front controls for the HVAC. The rear works fine, but the front passenger stopped switching off of the heat maybe a year ago. I forgot about it because we don't drive the car often and since we don't have a front passenger seat in the vehicle, no one is right in front of those vents. The driver side and rear kept working fine.
In the past month, the front vents no longer have any air movement with the very small exception that occasionally when I switch the AC on there's a bit of a very short, light cold breeze. Even more rarely sometimes at highway speeds this breeze will continue longer.
No setting change this afaict, there's no defrost, no switching to a different temp or set of vents that makes the blower work.
I did check the fuses under the hood and they look fine, I haven't gone behind the glove box, in part because I suspect this is going to be out of my skill set.
Suggestions for what could be the cause? Again I know I'll need to get it to a mechanic just hoping to have knowledge going in.
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