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    1. What is a business/org that's so terrible no one should use if possible?

      BMO Bank of Montreal. Im speechless over how incompetent they are. (Canada) Nestle. Because they're evil. Others? Edit: See also the positive inverse of this post: What is a business/org that is...

      BMO Bank of Montreal. Im speechless over how incompetent they are. (Canada)

      Nestle. Because they're evil.

      Others?

      Edit:

      See also the positive inverse of this post: What is a business/org that is great and ethical in so many aspects that everyone should consider using?

      65 votes
    2. Is the concept of debate completely useless?

      I feel like basically every time I debate any kind of topic (doesn't even have to be controversial, like politics, but of course there it's more common) with people where the participants don't...

      I feel like basically every time I debate any kind of topic (doesn't even have to be controversial, like politics, but of course there it's more common) with people where the participants don't all agree never actually leads to any conclusion where one of the participants would actually change their mind. No matter how the debate goes. No matter whether there is some irrefutable evidence that disproves what one of the participants believes, or if their position is illogical, or basically anything. I feel like people just become entrenched in defending their side, usually the debate starts going in circles, until someone just walks away from the debate or the topic gets changed.

      I don't really like this, it just feels like wasted time... I'd rather if when people actually discuss topics that they'd come to reasonable conclusions that make more sense, make the world better, are better supported by evidence etc. I guess it can be considered to be fun, though I don't really feel it is very fun and instead it just frustrates me. But I guess "debate" is often being done basically fully as entertainment, just look at how big channels like Jubilee are getting on Youtube for example, though I kind of hate it.

      Is there a better way to steer "debates" into something more productive that can actually change peoples minds?

      31 votes
    3. 2025 NFL Season 🏈 Weekly Discussion Thread – Week 1

      Welcome to the 2025 NFL Season Weekly Discussion Thread! 🏈 Share your thoughts on Week 1 — wins, losses, fantasy fumbles, predictions, or anything else football-related. I’ll post these each...

      Welcome to the 2025 NFL Season Weekly Discussion Thread! 🏈

      Share your thoughts on Week 1 — wins, losses, fantasy fumbles, predictions, or anything else football-related.

      I’ll post these each Tuesday after the games wrap up to keep discussion going. Feel free to start your own threads if something deserves more focus!

      Score
      Eagles 24 – Cowboys 20
      Chargers 27 – Chiefs 21
      Colts 33 – Dolphins 8
      Steelers 34 – Jets 32
      Buccaneers 23 – Falcons 20
      Bengals 17 – Browns 16
      Raiders 20 – Patriots 13
      Saints 20 – Cardinals 13
      Commanders 21 – Giants 6
      Jaguars 26 – Panthers 10
      Broncos 20 – Titans 12
      49ers 17 – Seahawks 13
      Packers 27 – Lions 13
      Rams 14 – Texans 9
      Bills 41 – Ravens 40
      Vikings 27 – Bears 24
      19 votes
    4. Why do you like your job?

      I know if I posted that on Reddit, all the top answers would be something like "Money"or "It lets me survive" but I'm looking for something deeper than that. I'm a teacher and school just started...

      I know if I posted that on Reddit, all the top answers would be something like "Money"or "It lets me survive" but I'm looking for something deeper than that.

      I'm a teacher and school just started where I lived and I realize how much freedom the job gives me. I can considerably modify how my day will go as long as the students learn the curriculum. I love that freedom.

      I also love the human nature of it. I get to know and see 100 kids develop every year, plus, I teach juniors and I've had a lot of my last year students stop by me to say hello and talk about their summer or their current teachers. It's fun having all these random positive conversations every day.

      I get to learn a lot about people and about me. I love that growth.

      What about you?

      53 votes
    5. How do you get a feel for new characters?

      Just curiosity as I idly work through details on a project that has a larger "opening" cast than usual. I have a lot of ways I come up with characters and flesh them out (just write them, make...

      Just curiosity as I idly work through details on a project that has a larger "opening" cast than usual. I have a lot of ways I come up with characters and flesh them out (just write them, make them in dress-up games and the like, build them up in daydreams, etc.), but I'm curious about other people's methods.

      So, how do you flesh out characters?

      11 votes
    6. Anyone have advice (or horror stories) on setting up a 100GbE NAS with RDMA / SMB Direct?

      Pretty much what the title says - I'm building out a smallish compute cluster and hoping to set up some centralised storage that won't be a bottleneck, but I'm very much not a networking...

      Pretty much what the title says - I'm building out a smallish compute cluster and hoping to set up some centralised storage that won't be a bottleneck, but I'm very much not a networking specialist. Most of the load will be random reads from compute nodes pulling in the bits of various datasets they need to work on.

      Is it plausible to throw a 100GbE ConnectX-5 card and 256GB RAM into a consumer AM5 machine, format everything in ZFS, and set up a network share with KSMBD? My understanding is that I want to ensure everything's using mirroring rather than worrying about RAIDZ parity if I'm optimising for speed, which is fine, and I know that I'll only get full throughput as far as things can be cached in RAM - but is it reasonable to expect ZFS ARC to do that caching for me? Dare I hope that the SMB driver will just work if I drop it in there between the filesystem and the NIC? Or have I crossed the line into enterprisey-enough requirements that it's going to be an uphill battle to get this working anywhere near line speed?

      15 votes
    7. How is Linux these days?

      How is Linux these days for everyday desktop use? I'm looking to reformat soon and I'm kind of sick of all the junk the comes alone with Windows. I've used Linux briefly, back in the early 2000's...

      How is Linux these days for everyday desktop use? I'm looking to reformat soon and I'm kind of sick of all the junk the comes alone with Windows.

      I've used Linux briefly, back in the early 2000's but..not at all since really. I'm also learning web dev so I thought it could be fun to use to get used to it.

      Do you use it for everyday use?

      If your unfamiliar with Linux, how difficult is it to get things "done" on it?

      Do most modern apps work these days?

      As someone that's been using Windows for most of their life, do you think it's difficult to pick up and get running?

      Do games work?

      Edit I'm going to test out mint tonight on a thumb drive, thanks everyone!

      52 votes
    8. Do we have enough NFL fans to warrant weekly discussions?

      I'd love to see sports.american_football be a bit more active. Today was the first Sunday of the season and it's crickets in here. Would there be any interest in weekly threads during the season?...

      I'd love to see sports.american_football be a bit more active. Today was the first Sunday of the season and it's crickets in here.

      Would there be any interest in weekly threads during the season? Maybe something posted on Thursdays containing a list of the week's upcoming games and then people can just discuss them as the games happen? Nothing super formal, just a thread that might encourage some discussion throughout the week. If it takes off, great. If not, no biggie.

      Any thoughts/ideas?

      22 votes
    9. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like vehicles.autonomous, jb pritzker and hollow knight.silksong. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like vehicles.autonomous, jb pritzker and hollow knight.silksong. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was jotting these down.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      14 votes
    10. What programming/technical projects have you been working on?

      This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's...

      This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's interesting about it? Are you having trouble with anything?

      16 votes
    11. Help: Suddenly seeing a huge influx of ethernet devices on my network

      I noticed today that there are a large number of devices on my home network, all claiming to be ethernet connections. They kind of claimed all free IP addresses from x.x.x.63-253. They are not all...

      I noticed today that there are a large number of devices on my home network, all claiming to be ethernet connections. They kind of claimed all free IP addresses from x.x.x.63-253. They are not all on from what I have seen (and they are currently almost all off). Normally, my network should have only a handful of ethernet devices, which are my Fedora desktop, my Proxmox host, my OpenMediaVault VM on Proxmox machine running 24/7, and then the occassional VM I boot up as needed. I searched the occasional MAC address of one of these devices, and nothing came up. Does anyone know what the culprit of this would be or what I could use to diagnose it?

      Screenshot of some of the weird devices listed (I blacked out my known devices)

      Edit: It appears to be solved. I believe my OpenMediaVault VM was acting up/having issues and was gobbling up IP addresses. The issue has not occurred since restarting my Proxmox host.

      19 votes
    12. What creative projects have you been working on?

      This topic is part of a series. It is meant to be a place for users to discuss creative projects they have been working on. Projects can be personal, professional, physical, digital, or even just...

      This topic is part of a series. It is meant to be a place for users to discuss creative projects they have been working on.

      Projects can be personal, professional, physical, digital, or even just ideas.

      If you have any creative projects that you have been working on or want to eventually work on, this is a place for discussing those.

      12 votes
    13. Formula 1 Italian Grand Prix 2025 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Italian Grand Prix
      Autodromo Nazionale Monza
      September 5-7, 2025


      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      POS. NO. DRIVER TEAM Q1 Q2 Q3 LAPS
      1 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:19.455 1:19.140 1:18.792 18
      2 4 Lando Norris McLaren 1:19.517 1:19.293 1:18.869 21
      3 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:19.711 1:19.286 1:18.982 19
      4 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:19.689 1:19.310 1:19.007 20
      5 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:19.765 1:19.371 1:19.124 20
      6 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:19.414 1:19.287 1:19.157 18
      7 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:19.747 1:19.245 1:19.200 22
      8 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 1:19.688 1:19.323 1:19.390 21
      9 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:19.658 1:19.362 1:19.424 20
      10 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 1:19.619 1:19.433 1:19.519 18
      11 87 Oliver Bearman Haas 1:19.688 1:19.446 15
      12 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 1:19.777 1:19.498 15
      13 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:19.644 1:19.528 19
      14 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:19.837 1:19.583 16
      15 31 Esteban Ocon Haas 1:19.816 1:19.707 15
      16 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 1:19.917 6
      17 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:19.948 9
      18 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:19.992 9
      19 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:20.103 9
      20 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:20.279 5

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      POS. NO. DRIVER TEAM LAPS TIME / RETIRED PTS.
      1 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 53 1:13:24.325
      2 4 Lando Norris McLaren 53 +19.207s
      3 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 53 +21.351s
      4 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 53 +25.624s
      5 63 George Russell Mercedes 53 +32.881s
      6 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 53 +37.449s
      7 23 Alexander Albon Williams 53 +50.537s
      8 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 53 +58.484s
      9 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 53 +59.762s
      10 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 53 +63.891s
      11 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 53 +64.469s
      12 87 Oliver Bearman Haas 53 +79.288s
      13 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 53 +80.701s
      14 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 53 +82.351s
      15 31 Esteban Ocon Haas 52 +1 lap
      16 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 52 +1 lap
      17 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 52 +1 lap
      18 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 52 +1 lap
      NC 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 24 DNF
      NC 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 0 DNF

      Fastest Lap: Lando Norris // 1:20.901 (Lap 53)
      DOTD: Max Verstappen

      Source: F1.com


      Next race:

      Azerbajian Grand Prix
      Baku City Circuit
      September 19-21, 2025

      14 votes
    14. What programming/technical projects have you been working on?

      This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's...

      This is a recurring post to discuss programming or other technical projects that we've been working on. Tell us about one of your recent projects, either at work or personal projects. What's interesting about it? Are you having trouble with anything?

      16 votes
    15. What's a question you could ask to determine if someone is an expert in your line of work?

      For example, I'm handy with a lot of stuff. I could change an outlet in the wall no problem. But if asked by an electrician what gauge Romex is safe for what amperage, or what color direct bury...

      For example, I'm handy with a lot of stuff. I could change an outlet in the wall no problem. But if asked by an electrician what gauge Romex is safe for what amperage, or what color direct bury Romex is, I'd have no idea (from the knowledge I walk around with day to day).

      I'm curious what other random facts people may know from their line of work that quality them as more knowledgeable than your average goose joe. Or to paraphrase, walking around knowledge people wouldn't know unless they googled it, or worked/were very knowledgeable in your field. And how many of them I (or others) might know.

      To start from my job:

      Q: Under what circumstances would one want to withhold the administration of vasopressors (Epinephrine) in a cardiac arrest?

      A:

      When the cardiac arrest is due to hydrocarbon intake, e.g. huffing spray paint

      61 votes
    16. What have you been listening to this week?

      What have you been listening to this week? You don't need to do a 6000 word review if you don't want to, but please write something! If you've just picked up some music, please update on that as...

      What have you been listening to this week? You don't need to do a 6000 word review if you don't want to, but please write something! If you've just picked up some music, please update on that as well, we'd love to see your hauls :)

      Feel free to give recs or discuss anything about each others' listening habits.

      You can make a chart if you use last.fm:

      http://www.tapmusic.net/lastfm/

      Remember that linking directly to your image will update with your future listening, make sure to reupload to somewhere like imgur if you'd like it to remain what you have at the time of posting.

      6 votes
    17. Disabling Auto-Zoom in the YouTube app (iOS)

      Hey y’all, YouTube recently decided to put a feature into the app which zooms in to fill the screen more and reduce the dark space. There’s apparently settings for the android app, but I can’t...

      Hey y’all,

      YouTube recently decided to put a feature into the app which zooms in to fill the screen more and reduce the dark space. There’s apparently settings for the android app, but I can’t seem to find any way to disable if for iOS. Does anyone have any suggestions? It’s incredibly annoying and distracting when watching videos.

      14 votes
    18. What did you do this week (and weekend)?

      As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do...

      As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do nothing at all? Tell us about it!

      5 votes
    19. Home network help part 2, SSH and Server

      Edit: I've made some progress if you want to read the edits at the end. Last year I started slowly planning out a home server setup with help from Tildes. I've gotten a few things up and running,...

      Edit: I've made some progress if you want to read the edits at the end.

      Last year I started slowly planning out a home server setup with help from Tildes. I've gotten a few things up and running, but have been bouncing off a variety of walls trying to get to the next step.

      The first goal was-
      "Ok i've got Cosmos up and running for local access using self signed certs. I'd like to get it up and running using lets encrypt and a domain so I can eventually start giving a few family and friends proper logins and external access". Of note, ideally,

      This led to a second goal of-
      "Gosh it sure would be nice if I didn't have to be sitting at the physical server to do testing and could instead be at another computer in my house. I should probably configure ssh locally (working) and get it to forward windows so I can work in other rooms (not working...)"

      "The stack":

      Server - MS01 running LTS Ubuntu with Cosmos Cloud installed (well it was, but is currently not)

      Router - Ubiquiti Dream Machine Pro (of note i've done some minimal guided config of this to try and harden it at a basic level so my cameras and IoT devices are better isolated. Not fully default, but the server is, for now, in the same network/vlan as the rest of my main computers so don't think this should matter.)

      Clients - All local windows 10/11 machines for now, although in the off off chance it matters, i'm running nushell in the terminal

      Domain Provider - Cloudflare

      The SSH Problems:

      I have a friend who's set SSH up for themselves with their home server, however they haven't had time to come over and troubleshoot. My rough understanding is "setup VcXsrv, change some configs, then it just works.". Windows these days has ssh built in, and I can SSH to the machine just fine with my key.

      ssh -X...less so. I've read some docs, followed some guides, tried copilot, and it all leads to "yeah should work" and it just doesn't. I have configured a ssh config on both machines to allow X11 forwarding, i've started the XLaunch making sure I disable access control, made sure my unbuntu login isn't on wayland and so on. So far, no dice.

      If someone has an end to end guide they trust to link, i'll gladly read and start from scratch. I've been cobbling together so many sources at this point i'm very lost. Lots of things jump quickly to "well just use WSL", which yeah ok i probably should test that next, but I was hoping I wouldn't need to (and am unclear if that'll even help).

      The HTTPS/Domain Problems:

      So..cosmos cloud.

      I like the theory behind this software in that it helps enforce best practices so you don't blow your own head off when you screw something up. Maybe it's not the absolute best starting place, but getting it running without a domain was trivial, and more importantly, shockingly well documented. Not perfect, but for what I understand is mostly a one man show it's better than a lot of professional grade stuff i've dealt with.

      And so I figured it'd be easy to just do the setup from scratch but choose https and point to my domain. There's been two attempts here, no DNS challenge and DNS challenge

      No DNS Challenge Method

      Per their docs it seemed easy enough. I'd never touched a DNS screen before but I configured an A record pointing at my WAN IP (eventually...) and disabled the cloudflare proxy.

      Well going to that domain took me to my router login. Hmm. After screwing around with port forwarding and router DNS records I never got it to work and felt like I was playing with fire, so undid everything I'd done and decided I'd try the DNS challenge. Of note I could still access the cosmos cloud page from http directly to the IP, where it confirmed it failed to get the TLS cert, but https to the domain wasn't having it.

      DNS Challenge Method

      This seemed like I was close, and then nothing. I have no idea if i need to do internal routing on the router for this, it just sorta says "Do the DNS challenge, here's a form, you don't need to fill out all of it" which uh...ok.

      I filled out what I think I needed to after setting up a token(not an API key) in cloudflare. I'm pretty certain I got that correct as I saw text files with keys created on cloudflare's DNS page and had I screwed that I'm guessing it couldn't have.

      However from what I can tell, that's as far as it got. The files nuked themselves 2 minutes later when the TTL expired, and going to the domain locally gave me the cloudflare "our shit's fine, the server is timing out" page. From what I could tell diving into logs, cosmos had the same error, and I couldn't hit cosmos at all, even using the IP and http.

      I do however wonder if maybe it did work BUT since I undid the router DNS record before trying this maybe that killed it? dunno.

      Any ideas?

      That's basically my situation. Figured i'd throw it here and see if anyone has some guidance or troubleshooting they'd recommend. Aforementioned friend who's done some of this before should be free one of these weekends and can probably help, and I haven't tried again since the second attempt. I've thrown some of the questions i've had on the discord and gotten minimal response(although I'm kinda using the thread as a rubber ducking spot as well). Next attempt is probably just DNS challenge again after more research on it and seeing if that works if I put back on the router DNS record, but i feel like logically that shouldn't work.

      Oh also if anyone has some general recommended reading so that I can really understand what the hell it is I'm doing I'd love that. There's a ton of networking books/articles/etc, and in general I'd like to learn more about the subject, but I'm curious if there's a go to for people who are techy and trying to dip their toe in all of it the same way I am and setting up a proper home network and server.

      Edit:
      So after lots of testing, doc reading, and help from the cosmos discord I:

      1. Got the DNS challenge to work according to the cosmos logs.
      2. narrowed down that the main issue was my UDM pro router policies. Needed a firewall rule and a port forward, and had only done one of those at a time in my various attempts and not realized they were really different.

      Now once that was all working and I could hit the site i was getting "likely a false cert" errors, but since i've got all the pieces I'm probably going to try another clean install later and see what we get. Hurrah for troubleshooting, good docs, rubber ducking, and helpful humans.

      Edit 2:

      Eventually required:

      1. Port forward rule in UDM pro
      2. Firewall rule in UDM pro
      3. Static IP and DNS entry in UDM pro.

      One I’d done those things started working. Killed it after that as now I need to think about architecture

      14 votes
    20. TV Tuesdays Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any TV shows recently you want to discuss? Any shows you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      9 votes
    21. La Dispute – No One Was Driving the Car (2025)

      There was some discussion here when the earlier singles for this album came out, so I figured it was worth posting the full album now that's out (as of today, September 5)....

      There was some discussion here when the earlier singles for this album came out, so I figured it was worth posting the full album now that's out (as of today, September 5).

      https://ladispute.bandcamp.com/album/no-one-was-driving-the-car

      Have you listened yet? What do you think? Standout songs? What did you think of the rollout for this album? (If you're unaware, the band released nearly the full album, except for the final two songs, over the past several months. They essentially released each "chapter" in the story of the album as individual EPs or singles.)

      For me, this is miles better than PANORAMA was, and I'm glad that I held off on listening to anything after Environmental Catastrophe Film was released until this full album drop. I sort of hated the rollout for that, but I also think I understand why they did it.

      I don't think it tops Rooms of the House, but it's absolutely among the band's top three (with Wildlife being the third in that mix). It really does feel like a mashup of the urgency/aggression of Wildlife and the artistry of Rooms of the House, and brings in some of the band's spoken word releases as well.

      Environmental Catastrophe Film is the best song on the record, but that was going to be hard to beat because it may be the band's best song in general -- certainly their best song in a decade. Steve has also caught my attention each time it's come up in my play throughs.

      5 votes
    22. Tildes Book Club discussion - August 2025 - Cats Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      This is the seventeenth of an ongoing series of book discussions here on Tildes. We are discussing Cats Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut. Our next book will be Stories of Your Life and Others at the end of September.

      I don't have a particular format in mind for this discussion, but I will post some prompts and questions as comments to get things started. You're not obligated to respond to them or vote on them though. So feel free to make your own top-level comment for whatever you wish to discuss, questions you have of others, or even just to post a review of the book you have written yourself.

      For latecomers, don't worry if you didn't read the book in time for this Discussion topic. You can always join in once you finish it. Tildes Activity sort, and "Collapse old comments" feature should keep the topic going for as long as people are still replying.

      And for anyone uninterested in this topic please use the Ignore Topic feature on this so it doesn't keep popping up in your Activity sort, since it's likely to keep doing that while I set this discussion up, and once people start joining in.

      21 votes
    23. Does anyone have a digg invite code I can get ?

      I joined their waitlist last month and still didn't get an invite, now they even have mobile apps but still invite-only... so any chance I can get an invite code from someone here 👉👈. I just want...

      I joined their waitlist last month and still didn't get an invite, now they even have mobile apps but still invite-only... so any chance I can get an invite code from someone here 👉👈. I just want to try and see what it's like

      Edit: I didn't expect so many comments, I hope everyone gets an invite! but I just want to say, it seems it doesn't work the same way as tildes and from what I can tell, you need to be a "Groundbreaker" to create invites and only 2 invites can be created? (would appreciate if someone can clarify that in the comments) and I'm personally not able to create invites from my account unfortunately, otherwise I would've sent an invite to everyone who commented. :(

      43 votes
    24. What have you been watching / reading this week? (Anime/Manga)

      What have you been watching and reading this week? You don't need to give us a whole essay if you don't want to, but please write something! Feel free to talk about something you saw that was...

      What have you been watching and reading this week? You don't need to give us a whole essay if you don't want to, but please write something! Feel free to talk about something you saw that was cool, something that was bad, ask for recommendations, or anything else you can think of.

      If you want to, feel free to find the thing you're talking about and link to its pages on Anilist, MAL, or any other database you use!

      11 votes
    25. Fitness Weekly Discussion

      What have you been doing lately for your own fitness? Try out any new programs or exercises? Have any questions for others about your training? Want to vent about poor behavior in the gym? Started...

      What have you been doing lately for your own fitness? Try out any new programs or exercises? Have any questions for others about your training? Want to vent about poor behavior in the gym? Started a new diet or have a new recipe you want to share? Anything else health and wellness related?

      8 votes
    26. What are your favorite ways to measure your own health?

      A lot of people are familiar with body fat percentage, BMI, etc. Personally, my BMI has been 'better' when I've been less healthy, and generally worse as I've been more healthy. Body fat...

      A lot of people are familiar with body fat percentage, BMI, etc. Personally, my BMI has been 'better' when I've been less healthy, and generally worse as I've been more healthy. Body fat percentage is difficult to actually measure. So every few months, I look for metrics that fit my biases. For example:

      • Jeff Nippard's Noob to Freak Benchmarks - I like these primarily because it's a multiplier on bodyweight. Additionally, he makes a good argument for why you'll never get past "Intermediate" due to the work and sacrifices required.
      • StrengthLevel - If you want to compare yourself to people of similar weight, age, and gender. You can see the "novice", "intermediate", etc. break downs of your lift for your cohort.
      • Ready for Labour and Defence was a USSR and now modern Russia series of benchmarks of health. It includes pull-up goals as well as how far you can throw a grenade. Can't say I've applied these but I like the concept.
      • Anime Workout - Solo-Levelling, One-Punch Man. Why wouldn't you want to be an anime hero?

      If possible, explain why it's your "favorite." Can be everything from accuracy, to ease of application, or you just being really good at it.

      For me:

      • Squat, Deadlift, and Bench - 1x Bodyweight x 10 reps (e.g., a barbell squat where you're lifting your body weight) - I like the idea that I can truly support my own weight.
      • Being able to do unassisted pullups
      • 100 push ups, 100 pull ups, 100 squats - it's completely arbitrary, based on a base 10 number system, but for that same reason it just feels like a good "benchmark."
      • Your 30 minute run distance / speed - 30 minutes is relatively long, so I like it as a measure of realistic improvement, rather than thinking about outlier improvements in speed or distance that might go away the next week.
      • Enough hours of sleep and a normal sleep schedule for 1 month - This is hard for me, but feels great when I'm in the swing of it.
      • Doing some kind of activity every day for at least 1 month - Even if it's just 15 minutes of stretching, I know that it means something to "try."
      24 votes
    27. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      7 votes
    28. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like sideloading, messaging and friendship. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like sideloading, messaging and friendship. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was eagle-eyed.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      14 votes
    29. Need help with importing emails into macOS Mail from ProtonMail

      Hey there Tildes, hopefully someone could help me with this. I'm having problems importing all my emails I exported from ProtonMail into macOS Mail app/iCloud. Recently decided to move my custom...

      Hey there Tildes, hopefully someone could help me with this. I'm having problems importing all my emails I exported from ProtonMail into macOS Mail app/iCloud.

      Recently decided to move my custom domain email addresses to iCloud so I could just use the built-in Mail app on my Mac and iPhone. I backed up all of my emails with ProtonMail's own export tool. It exported every email (or maybe email thread?) as a .eml file and .json file (metadata I believe). After exporting, I switch the domain names over to iCloud. It was pretty easy. I guess I assumed all of my emails would somehow come with me? Seems silly thinking about it now. But I have a backup of all my emails!

      All seemed fine until I tried to import them into macOS Mail. Mail wants a mailbox format (.mbox I believe), but I only have .eml files. It let me select all of the .eml files and import them anyway but it's taking about 10 seconds or more per email and I have like ~17,000 emails. ChatGPT says thats 47 hours 13 minutes 20 seconds. It's also freezing the mail app during this insane import process. It would be great if I didn't have to wait that long and that's assuming something doesn't go wrong/the app crashes.

      No, I don't need all of those emails (I actually deleted about 10,000 over the past month) but now I'm kind of screwed. I guess for security reasons, when you delete the domain from ProtonMail, it deletes all the emails (as far as I can tell, at least). I'm mentioning this because I was thinking I could have tried to find a way to export it in .mbox format or even delete more emails but it's too late for that.

      The way the emails were exported, the filenames are jumbles of letters and numbers so I cant even use Finder to search for specific emails when I need them. I can open each individual email in Mail, so it's not like the files are encrypted, I don't think.

      One thing I thought of -- I once used Mail with ProtonBridge that would allow you to use ProtonMail with the Mail app, but still use Proton servers and it synced all my emails with my computer. I disabled that account some time ago (didn't delete it or remove it completely from the list of accounts, just unchecked it). Do you think that directory of emails is still on my computer somewhere? And would it be useable in my situation?

      I do realize this is completely of my own doing and should have been more thoughtful but I'm here now and would love any help y'all could give. Thanks everyone!


      Edit_1: Oh no... I found the directory for Mail in Application Support and it looks like the Mail importer is making a mailbox for every single email. I tried importing these emails earlier today and it looks like it might have imported everything? Here's a screenshot. 🪦

      I wonder if I could try and import them into another app and then export in a better format? Thunderbird? Ugh, I really do need a lot of these emails…

      Edit_2: So the export tool mentioned above has a restore feature so currently trying that. It will just import these emails back into ProtonMail and I’ll have to figure out the export part again. Hopefully this works!

      17 votes
    30. Android emulators to actually use mobile apps in day-to-day life?

      My understanding is that Android emulators primarily exist for mobile development and app testing and such-like, and maybe secondarily, to play mobile games. I want to explore the possibility of...

      My understanding is that Android emulators primarily exist for mobile development and app testing and such-like, and maybe secondarily, to play mobile games.

      I want to explore the possibility of using them as a, basically, full-time replacement for installing apps on my phone. More and more apps and services have no "desktop/laptop" version, and no website version. Installing the app on your phone is starting to become a non-negotiable requirement ... one that I'd like to find a work-around to.

      So, yeah ... I guess that's the question. Is this a 'thing'? Has anyone experimented with--or flat-out used--an emulator on a desktop/laptop to run their banking app and the like? Is this even possible? Can you connect an emulator to an app-store and just start downloading/installing stuff?

      Thanks.

      23 votes
    31. Seeking videos of mastery in action

      Mastery in any field or craft is welcome - construction, sculpture, martial arts, music, cooking, motorsports, you name it - but heavy preference for videos with camerawork and/or explanation that...

      Mastery in any field or craft is welcome - construction, sculpture, martial arts, music, cooking, motorsports, you name it - but heavy preference for videos with camerawork and/or explanation that allows the viewer to appreciate the level of technique, precision, efficiency, and focus on display.

      Also, I'm really referring to the practical demonstrations rather than analytical breakdowns after the fact, but if you have one of the latter and feel strongly about it, feel free to share. Long watches welcome.

      Examples:

      Jacques Pépin deboning a chicken from 5:00 onwards

      A showcase of the incomparable Zinédine Zidane's ball control

      Red Hot Chili Peppers drummer Chad Smith plays 'blind' covers of Thirty Seconds to Mars and Bring Me The Horizon

      Grandpa Amu assembles soccer ball out of wood

      Lyrical breakdown of Lupe Fiasco's Mural

      14 votes
    32. Could a space traveler accelerate at 1g forever?

      I was reading this Reddit post and was curious about whether the passengers of this theoretical spaceship could experience 1g of acceleration forever assuming the ship has an infinite fuel source....

      I was reading this Reddit post and was curious about whether the passengers of this theoretical spaceship could experience 1g of acceleration forever assuming the ship has an infinite fuel source.

      They shouldn’t be able to pass the speed of light relative to an outside observer, but is there some phenomenon where the passengers can feel like they are accelerating forever?

      28 votes
    33. Retro Video Game Club brainstorming and planning topic

      There was a lot of interest in a Retro Video Game Club. I'm thinking it would be cool to get it off the ground! Use this topic as brainstorming/planning for how we think it should run. 1. We need...

      There was a lot of interest in a Retro Video Game Club. I'm thinking it would be cool to get it off the ground!

      Use this topic as brainstorming/planning for how we think it should run.


      1. We need a facilitator/emcee.

      • Is anyone interested in stepping up and running this?

      2. We need to figure out logistics.

      • Schedule
      • Game selection process
      • Parameters on what counts as "retro" (if necessary)
      • Maybe a name for the club?

      3. Anything else?

      • Is there anything else we need to consider?
      38 votes
    34. Rust protection spray services question

      Hey Tildes car folks, so Rust Protection like this one in Canada -- is it beneficial and or necessary for cars during in Canadian winter? I know we have a lot of salt on the roads, and just in the...

      Hey Tildes car folks, so Rust Protection like this one in Canada -- is it beneficial and or necessary for cars during in Canadian winter? I know we have a lot of salt on the roads, and just in the sea air as well. Talked to a tow truck driver and he always does his work and personal cars every year.

      So I took mine in too. But i wish I'd known that they don't wash the car beforehand. Like an idiot I just drove to the appointment and I got my car back and it's still covered in a layer of regular road dirt. Did I just waste $180?

      Bonus question: the other older car has a 5 x 10 mm rust spot on the side - would this kind of coating do anything about it or what do I do to fix it or not let it get worse?

      7 votes
    35. Refusing LinkedIn's ID verification is costing me my job

      A long, complicated story, summarized: (apart from Tildes, on which I lurk) I swore off all social media years ago. Then my job required that I have an account on LinkedIn. I reconsidered, and...

      A long, complicated story, summarized: (apart from Tildes, on which I lurk) I swore off all social media years ago. Then my job required that I have an account on LinkedIn. I reconsidered, and attempted to make the least disclosive account possible in an effort to protect my privacy. Things aren't going well. Despite logging in with the correct credentials, on the same device, using the same browser; and with access to my signup email, and access to the phone I used to enroll, LinkedIn has flagged my account the second time I tried using it and now requires me to upload images of myself and my government ID to regain access to their cesspool. Are you familiar with their protocols and can share insights, so that if I start again I don't face the same problem?

      I have read what LinkedIn says and I have read discussions on Reddit on the topic. LinkedIn says you can opt to "use your work email" or mail them an affidavit. These options were not given to me. Everyone else I have seen reporting facing this seems to have triggered the system by losing their login credentials or moving countries; what brought this upon me and can I avoid it?

      1. Is it that I use a VPN, and it may have routed through a different IP address on the second login?
      2. I use an email alias. Is LinkedIn purging accounts with email domains that offer aliases?
      3. Is it a result of clearing cookies?
      4. Is it easier to maintain a Google account (!) which LinkedIn allows as login without this ID thing coming up?

      Please be gentle with your advice as I am kind of panicking.

      54 votes
    36. Videos about cultures around the world for a kid

      I have a 4 year old and I'm looking for some video suggestions (ideally a series) that showcases cultures around the world. I have lots of options handy for seeing all sorts of animals from any...

      I have a 4 year old and I'm looking for some video suggestions (ideally a series) that showcases cultures around the world. I have lots of options handy for seeing all sorts of animals from any corner of the globe that are all very kid-friendly if not kid-oriented, but not a lot comes to mind when I want to introduce her to human life around the world. Particularly in urban places. Her exposure to these other cultures is usually just as porters helping some white guys walk around a jungle looking for animals. I can also find lots of travel series, which go to different places, but they are all oriented to adults-- either talking about how to travel to these places as a tourist, or have more adult jokes or are too focused on the presenter.

      Are there any well made series about life in other places? I'd like her to see life in Tokyo, Cairo, Mexico City, favelas of Brazil, Amsterdam, Mumbai, etc.

      15 votes
    37. What did you do this week (and weekend)?

      As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do...

      As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do nothing at all? Tell us about it!

      15 votes
    38. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      10 votes
    39. What have you been listening to this week?

      What have you been listening to this week? You don't need to do a 6000 word review if you don't want to, but please write something! If you've just picked up some music, please update on that as...

      What have you been listening to this week? You don't need to do a 6000 word review if you don't want to, but please write something! If you've just picked up some music, please update on that as well, we'd love to see your hauls :)

      Feel free to give recs or discuss anything about each others' listening habits.

      You can make a chart if you use last.fm:

      http://www.tapmusic.net/lastfm/

      Remember that linking directly to your image will update with your future listening, make sure to reupload to somewhere like imgur if you'd like it to remain what you have at the time of posting.

      14 votes
    40. Should C be mandatory learning for career developers?

      The year is 2025. The C programming language is something like 50 years old now - a dinosaur within the fast-moving environment of software development. Dozens of new languages have cropped up...

      The year is 2025. The C programming language is something like 50 years old now - a dinosaur within the fast-moving environment of software development. Dozens of new languages have cropped up through the years, with languages like Rust and Go as prime contenders for systems-level programming. Bootstrapping a project in C these days will often raise eyebrows or encourage people to dismiss you out of hand. Personally, I've barely touched the language since I graduated.

      Now, with all that said: I still consider learning and understanding C to be key for having an integrated, in-depth understanding of how computers and programming really works. When I am getting a project up and running, I frequently end up running commands like "sudo apt install libopenssl-dev" without really giving it much thought about what's going on there. I know that it pulls some libraries onto my computer so that another program can use them, but without the requisite experience of building and compiliing a library then it's kind of difficult to understand what it's all about. I know that other languages will introduce this concept, but realistically everything is built to bind to C libraries.

      System libraries are only one instance of my argument though. To take a more general view, I would say that learning C helps you better understand computers and programming. It might be a pain to consider stuff like memory allocation and pointers on a regular basis, but I also think that not understanding these subjects can open up avenues for a poorly formed understanding about how computers work. Adding new layers of abstraction does not make the foundation less relevant, and I think that learning C is the best avenue toward an in-depth understanding of how computers actually work. This sort of baseline understanding, even if the language isn't used on a regular basis, goes a long way to improving one's skills as a developer. It also gives people the skills to apply their skills in a wide variety of contexts.

      I'm no expert, though: most of the programming I do is very high-level and abstracted from the machine (Python, Haskell, BASH). I'm sure there are plenty of folks here who are better qualified to chime in, so what do you think?

      39 votes
    41. Formula 1 Dutch Grand Prix 2025 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Dutch Grand Prix
      Circuit Zandvoort
      August 29-31, 2025


      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      POS. NO. DRIVER TEAM Q1 Q2 Q3 LAPS
      1 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:09.338 1:08.964 1:08.662 18
      2 4 Lando Norris McLaren 1:09.469 1:08.874 1:08.674 18
      3 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:09.696 1:09.122 1:08.925 18
      4 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 1:09.966 1:09.439 1:09.208 18
      5 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:09.676 1:09.313 1:09.255 18
      6 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:09.906 1:09.304 1:09.340 22
      7 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:09.900 1:09.261 1:09.390 21
      8 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:09.779 1:09.383 1:09.500 18
      9 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:09.980 1:09.472 1:09.505 18
      10 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:09.950 1:09.366 1:09.630 17
      11 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:09.845 1:09.493 12
      12 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 1:09.954 1:09.622 15
      13 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 1:10.037 1:09.622 12
      14 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:09.894 1:09.637 15
      15 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:09.792 1:09.652 12
      16 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:10.104 9
      17 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 1:10.195 9
      18 31 Esteban Ocon Haas 1:10.197 9
      19 87 Oliver Bearman Haas 1:10.262 9
      RT 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 2

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      POS. NO. DRIVER TEAM LAPS TIME / RETIRED PTS.
      1 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 72 1:38:29.849 25
      2 1 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 72 +1.271s 18
      3 6 Isack Hadjar Racing Bulls 72 +3.233s 15
      4 63 George Russell Mercedes 72 +5.654s 12
      5 23 Alexander Albon Williams 72 +6.327s 10
      6 87 Oliver Bearman Haas 72 +9.044s 8
      7 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 72 +9.497s 6
      8 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 72 +11.709s 4
      9 22 Yuki Tsunoda Red Bull Racing 72 +13.597s 2
      10 31 Esteban Ocon Haas 72 +14.063s 1
      11 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 72 +14.511s 0
      12 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 72 +17.063s 0
      13 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 72 +17.376s 0
      14 27 Nico Hulkenberg Kick Sauber 72 +19.725s 0
      15 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Kick Sauber 72 +21.565s 0
      16 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 72 +22.029s 0
      17 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 72 +23.629s 0
      18 4 Lando Norris McLaren 64 DNF 0
      NC 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 52 DNF 0
      NC 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 22 DNF 0

      Fastest Lap: Oscar Piastri // 1:12.271 (Lap 60)
      DOTD: Isack Hadjar

      Source: F1.com


      Next race:

      Italian Grand Prix
      Autodromo Nazionale Monza
      September 5-7, 2025

      12 votes