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    1. Do you have an "anime of the season"? | Summer 2026 (June - Sept)

      Another season of anime has (mostly) ended. Inspired by @Flashfall 's excellent seasonal review in an earlier weekly threads, I thought it'd be interesting to hear about everyone's overall...

      Another season of anime has (mostly) ended. Inspired by @Flashfall 's excellent seasonal review in an earlier weekly threads, I thought it'd be interesting to hear about everyone's overall experiences.

      So, what's the best anime you've watched over the last 3 months? Doesn't have to be one released this season, as long as you've recently watched them. Seeing how the old and new compare to each other could also be interesting.

      You can mention which other ones you've also watched so others know what the comparison was. It's also okay if you've only seen one since the fact you liked it enough to highlight is still noteworthy.

      8 votes
    2. Societal type of question

      "Think of the most successful person you know personally in your field. If you had to attribute their position to one primary edge over their peers, which of these was it?" A) Exceptional raw...

      "Think of the most successful person you know personally in your field. If you had to attribute their position to one primary edge over their peers, which of these was it?"
      ​A) Exceptional raw talent or intellectual capability
      ​B) Unusually high stamina and willingness to work long hours
      ​C) Great interpersonal instinct and emotional intelligence
      ​D) Being in the right place at the right time with the right background

      Choosing just one is a recommendation
      Within cells interlinked

      13 votes
    3. Screenless Day discussion topic: September 2026

      The Reboot! I used to run a series of "Screenless Day" monthly posts that were aimed at nudging people to put a short pause on the toxic aspects of tech in their life. They never got much...

      The Reboot!

      I used to run a series of "Screenless Day" monthly posts that were aimed at nudging people to put a short pause on the toxic aspects of tech in their life. They never got much traction, but it was also hard to tell if people were participating because they wouldn't necessarily be here commenting on it and would instead be, you know, off doing other things.

      There has been some renewed interest in the idea recently, so I decided to reboot the series and see how it goes now (especially because the wider tech landscape is arguably worse than it was back when I first started them).

      The spirit of Screenless Day remains the same as it always has been:

      a simple event aimed at encouraging people to take a temporary step away from toxic or consuming aspects of technology and spend their time and energies elsewhere

      Anyone can choose to take a Screenless Day at any time, but the idea is to nudge people towards doing it over the first weekend of the month. Each new discussion topic will go live on the first Friday of the month, and it will remain open for the duration of the month.

      It is strongly encouraged that you talk about your Screenless Day here, as part of the fun of the event is that, even though you might be doing something independently, your actions fit into a larger community picture of other people here sharing the same values.

      Also, to promote both reflection and discussion on the goals of Screenless Day, each month I will be including a new discussion question to provide people the opportunity to reflect on their relationship with technology and keep the topic more “alive” and visible.


      This Month

      In addition to the once again regularly scheduled Screenless Day, there are a couple of housekeeping things for our first month back:

      1. Building a notification list.

      I will be building a notification list to be pinged each time a monthly Screenless Day topic goes up. Anyone commenting in this topic will be included by default. If you do NOT want to be included in the list, please let me know in your comment.

      1. Changing the name?

      "Screenless Day" can be a bit misleading (see the FAQ below), so I'm open to other name ideas. Everything I can come up with tends to sound negative however (e.g. "Pause Toxic Tech" day or something), and I want the name to be a simple but positive one.


      Monthly Discussion

      Use this topic to:

      1. Talk about your plans for an upcoming Screenless Day.
      2. Tell everyone what you chose to do for your Screenless Day, and how it went.
      3. Reflect on your relationship with technology.

      This month's discussion question:

      • Of all the tech you use in your life, what platform/app/device/etc do you feel has the most overall negative impact on you? Why do you think that is?

      FAQ

      What is a Screenless Day?

      A "Screenless Day" is a simple event aimed at encouraging people to take a temporary step away from toxic or consuming aspects of technology and spend their time and energies elsewhere.

      When is it?

      A new discussion topic will go up on the first Friday of each month, with participants encouraged to make one of their days that weekend a "Screenless Day."

      The topic remains open for the whole month, so people can choose to take Screenless Days whenever they like and talk about them in that month's discussion.

      Does it have to be truly "screenless"?

      "Screenless" is an ideal, not a mandate.

      The spirit of the day is to deliberately step away from toxic or consuming aspects of technology, and what that means is different for each person. Thus, it is up to each participant to determine what "screenless" means to them. Some might only choose to not use social media for a day; some might choose to eliminate all "screens" but still use their ereader; some may maintain some screen use but only for necessity (e.g. work; classes; GPS; etc.). Some might get rid of screens entirely, or go fully "unplugged" for the day.

      How do I participate?

      You do not have to do anything formal at all to participate -- simply make your Screenless Day happen in whatever way is best for you!

      If you’d like to, use this thread to share plans for your upcoming Screenless Day or summaries/reflections about it once it’s over.

      Can I chat in this thread if I'm not doing a Screenless Day myself?

      Yes! The more, the merrier! Discussion from anyone, participant or non-participant alike, is welcome. Though, do understand that it might take a bit longer than normal for some people to respond. :)

      37 votes
    4. Tildes Book Club - Have you started Dr. No by Ian Fleming?

      Moving right along myself. Links with more information for anyone undecided: LibraryThing:StoryGraph Content Warnings based on user submissions from StoryGraph. Plot summary of the previous work...

      Moving right along myself.

      Links with more information for anyone undecided: LibraryThing:StoryGraph

      Content Warnings based on user submissions from StoryGraph.

      Plot summary of the previous work in the series (From Russia, with Love) from Wikipedia.

      14 votes
    5. Irreverent ads make me want to buy things even less

      Lately on YouTube I’ve been getting a few really weird ads. The first was a 5 second spot video for Fatty brand meat sticks. They say “vegans look away” as they spin on the screen. I’m...

      Lately on YouTube I’ve been getting a few really weird ads.

      The first was a 5 second spot video for Fatty brand meat sticks. They say “vegans look away” as they spin on the screen.

      I’m plant-based: I don’t eat animal products 99.9% of the time. And well before I was like this I wouldn’t have eaten their product because meat sticks were just simply gross. But literally every time I see an advertisement for a food product I see something that looks more like actual meat on the screen so when I see the ad in question, it is basically the single most flaccid insult I have ever seen.

      I wouldn’t even be bringing it up except for today I had a different ad show up from dbrand, this time as an image as I was looking through the recommended videos. It was a screenshot of a conversation between them and peta over some leather something or other.

      I just think about what this kind of advertising is supposed to do. It’s supposed to position the product in a persons mind. It says to them “buy this to stick it to those leftist vegan cucks” while still being soft enough that a leftist vegan cuck might not be bothered by it and might still consider buying it.

      But I think there is a different message we should take from these ads: these companies are run by assholes. The fact that leather and meat require animals to die is a morbid fact that our society has accepted, and rubbing that into the faces of those who disagree with it is not a good look; it just reveals them as the children that they are.

      While my dietary restrictions may have prevented me from buying anything from Fatty, the only thing stopping me from buying from dbrand is their own idiotic marketing. Why on earth did they think that they think that their trolling would be effective advertising outside of the trolling website?

      50 votes
    6. Anyone have any ketogenic diet stories?

      Good or bad, I'm interested I got into fasting back in like 2019 maybe a bit earlier I forget, I was watching some some crazy dumb shit like snake diet, but it seemed to work for weight loss, but...

      Good or bad, I'm interested

      I got into fasting back in like 2019 maybe a bit earlier I forget, I was watching some some crazy dumb shit like snake diet, but it seemed to work for weight loss, but I never changed my eating so when I stopped fasting I gained all the weight back, in 2020 or 2021 I tried carnivore diet, but I went into psychosis (I have mental health issues) and I thought god wanted me to eat with my family so I started eating what they eat (which is mostly SAD junk) and I gained all my weight back

      In maybe 2024 or 2025 I forget, I started watching a bunch of self help stuff, and one of the creators I watched on YouTube was Dr k (healthygamerGG) and with that I started meditating and trying to prioritize "sativik" foods, so for breakfast I would eat something like oatmeal with turmeric and cumin and vegetables, and I lost some weight on that diet, but I fell out of that routine and returned to SAD junk and gained all the weight back and then some

      Last April I hit 300 pounds, the most I ever weighed, and it was a wakeup call, what really told me it was a problem might seem silly but its because my bicycle has a 300 pound weight limit lol

      I decided to try carnivore again, but this time I slowly transitioned into it, because in 2021 when I tried it, I went from SAD one day to Carnivore the next and god dman I had diarrhea for 30 days lol, so this time I simply started by buying 2 cases of sardines and adding in a can every day at lunch, slowly removing other foods and adding in meat and eggs, I was probably fully carnivore by may 1st

      For the first 30 days, probably all of may, I ate eggs in the morning, can fish at lunch and a pound of meat at dinner, until I got a KetoMojo (glucometer) around the 30 day mark, I was expecting super low glucose and super high ketones since I was eating carnivore for 30 days at this point, but its not what I seen, my fasting glucose was (ever so slightly) high and my ketones were constantly between 0.8 and 0.9 (at least they were rock steady I guess)

      But as I was seeing these measurements for a few days I had also stumbled upon the medibolic mind YouTube channel and people using ketogenic diets for mental health issues, so I figured let's try a medical keto diet

      medical keto diets are actually kinda hard to find any info on, but as far as I can tell they seem to be really simple, you can boil them down to a ratio, like 2:1 or 3:1, so I chose 2:1, so for every 1 part protein + carb I eat, I would eat 2 parts fat

      So for example if I ate 70g protein and 15g carbs, i would need to eat 170g fat, which is kinda harder then it sounds, I feel sorry for epileptics who need to eat 3:1 or 4:1 every single day and never fucking up to control seizures, you basically need to chug 35% cream to hit those numbers

      So added in fat bombs I'd make with nut butter and tallow to increase my fatI play around with what I add but I may do something like melt tallow in a pot, whisk in some stevia and and cacao to taste (basically a chocolate bar but tallow In stead of cacao butter) pour into a foil lined dish, drop in a few whole nuts for crunch and sprinkle some salt, and then freeze, eat straight from the freezer and top with some but butter

      I also lowered my protein, I would try to aim for between 70 and 80 grams a day, and I loosened up and ate some vegetables, technically fruit, stuff like tomato and cucumber and olives and peppers, (I love a horiatiki)

      From the beginning of April till about the end of august I dropped from 300 pounds to 255, this probably wasn't diet all alone, because I went from completely sedentary, I would almost never leave my room, to walking the dog for hours a day, and lifting weight once or twice a week, being in heavy ketosis just increased my NEAT (non exercise activity) like I would find myself just jumping up from.the couch for no reason, and I started to roll with it and do stuff

      In September I started eating the wild fruit that grew around town, crab apples, wild sour grapes, chokecherries, hawthorn fruit, nanyberries I basically take a picture of every plant I find and my phone tells me what it is (plant.net) and then I google uses for the plant, I also tried many teas, mint, lemon balm, wild bergmot, catnip (all those are mint family), goldenrod, rosehips

      But since I started eating the stuff I find on the ground my weight stalled, I went from 255 in august to 257 as of right now, I also had some other effect, my scalp got itchy again, my armpits got more smelly, more aches and pains I notice, I feel more exhausted from my walks, some of this like the scalp and smell may be candida or something idk, others might be inflammation or negative effects from constantly switching between normal metabolism and ketosis

      Oh and the heart burn, before I started (pre-april) I had VERY BAD heartburn, like it would keep me up in the night, I would.sleep with a bottle of water/baking soda solution beside my bed so when the heartburn woke me up I could drink it, this was going on for like a year maybe, the main driver was sugar, when I ate a sweet it would.act up, but I couldn't stop eating sweets, but when I started carnivore it got dramatically better fast, fat would still trigger it a bit, but sugar was like a 8/10 pain and fat was 2/10 pain, but after some time the fat even stopped hurting, and now I never have heart burn anymore, even if I eat the fruit like I have been, which would have preciously been horrible pain

      Oh and some other things, i try not to drink coffee often, I have gone months without coffee at all, but the last 3 weeks I have had some more then I'd like, I need to start tapering it again, and ditto for tea, even when I had no coffee at all I'd have tea once or twice a week so I wasnt completely no caffeine

      If you like rap music check out Inpatients album Asylum, its Ren and Chris Webby, Ren is one of my favourites, Chris Webby has made some controversial statements but as a Millennial that grew up in the before times I'm not about canceling people

      What's your keto story?

      15 votes
    7. Trolley problem, again

      Hi! I just watched the TV show Widow's Bay (highly recommended). One episode explored the classic trolley problem and got my mind rolling over its fascinating nuances. I see this problem was...

      Hi!

      I just watched the TV show Widow's Bay (highly recommended). One episode explored the classic trolley problem and got my mind rolling over its fascinating nuances. I see this problem was already discussed on tildes, but hope a 2026 revisit is worthwhile.

      The episode promoted not pulling the lever. It argued that we can't stop all the horrible things that happen in the world. But we can control our own moral status:

      "The runaway trolley is life. The lever is me... if I pull that lever it's a choice and I'm choosing to kill that person. I could never do that."

      and this lovely message:

      "The world is violent and mercurial. It will have its way with you…We live in a perpetually burning building, and what we must save from it all the time is love."

      As sweet as that is, I find that interpretation lacking. To me, the physical act of pulling the lever isn't the core moral signal. Not pulling it isn't a get-out-of-responsibility-free card. There's still a violent outcome. That outcome happened because you made the choice to allow it. While you're not responsible for the scenario, you're still responsible for the outcome because it was entirely on you what the result would be.

      I think my interpretation matches the "utilitarian" argument, which also hints at "the ends justify the means." I'm not, more generally, willing to get behind "the ends justify the means". But there is important nuance here. Sometimes we must cause harm for greater good and inaction in hard circumstances is its own moral trap. So I'm not sure what I think.

      Also enjoyed exploring the variants at https://neal.fun/absurd-trolley-problems/. How would you handle them?

      23 votes
    8. 'Sparks of Tomorrow' anime discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Another show ended this last week. Any one else also watched this one?

      Overall a bit hit-and-miss for me. The art is beautiful, but the direction I felt frequently has odd moments that affected the pacing.

      If there's a theme to the story I guess it'd be something along the line of don't be too obsessive in pursuing your dream (Yousuke with trying to bring Seiroku back, or the wine lady having to remind Inako that focusing on her dream of making her mom's sake is great but don't forget about the people the creation was meant for).

      However, a lot of characters' actions were poorly motivated, making the story felt disjointed. While watching I kept thinking why Kihachi and Yousuke couldn't just work together instead of keep trying to steal the book from each other, it's not like they were competitors. Kihachi was said to be distrustful so maybe it was because he was suspicious of the guy, but then he kept giving out information or showing Yousuke his invention, as if enticing him to steal the book. Another example is Inako's dream to make her mom's sake and be a master brewer, which felt like should have been focused on more early on during the show, making her a foil to Kihachi's approach in chasing his dream perhaps. Instead the show seemed to put more focus on her being too trusting for most of the show, only when the electric book was randomly revealed to also contain her mom's sake recipe that this aspect of her character was brought back.

      On a higher note, the OP and ED musics were the highlights for me. Quirky and sparkly which suits the story very well.

      2 votes
    9. Formula 1 Azerbaijan Grand Prix 2026 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Azerbaijan Grand Prix
      Baku City Circuit
      September 24-26, 2026


      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:43.615 1:43.462 1:42.526 26
      2 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:44.360 1:43.780 1:43.363 23
      3 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:45.014 1:43.814 1:43.364 22
      4 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 1:44.161 1:43.880 1:43.500 21
      5 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:44.571 1:44.020 1:43.672 21
      6 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:44.260 1:44.037 1:43.858 22
      7 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:44.489 1:44.106 1:44.047 20
      8 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:44.041 1:43.706 1:44.081 24
      9 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:45.104 1:44.629 1:44.566 25
      10 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:45.106 1:44.683 1:44.963 21
      11 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:45.228 1:44.775 17
      12 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 1:45.535 1:44.860 18
      13 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:45.031 1:45.001 17
      14 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:45.039 1:45.016 18
      15 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:45.381 1:45.106 16
      16 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:45.504 5
      17 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:45.799 10
      18 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:45.920 10
      19 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:46.593 9
      20 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:46.658 9
      21 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:47.337 9
      22 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:48.290 10

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 63 George Russell Mercedes 51 1:38:02.143 25
      2 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 51 +0.196s 18
      3 6 Isack Hadjar Red Bull Racing 51 +10.704s 15
      4 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 51 +14.136s 12
      5 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 51 +14.512s 10
      6 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 51 +22.382s 8
      7 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 51 +31.159s 6
      8 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 51 +31.189s 4
      9 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 51 +31.929s 2
      10 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 51 +32.416s 1
      11 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 51 +33.231s 0
      12 30 Liam Lawson Racing Bulls 51 +34.013s 0
      13 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 51 +36.401s 0
      14 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 51 +41.400s 0
      15 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 51 +44.230s 0
      16 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 49 DNF 0
      NC 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 36 DNF 0
      NC 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 35 DNF 0
      NC 1 Lando Norris McLaren 35 DNF 0
      NC 23 Alexander Albon Williams 29 DNF 0
      NC 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 20 DNF 0
      NC 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 7 DNF 0

      Fastest Lap: George Russell // 1:44.916 on lap 49
      DOTD: Max Verstappen

      Source: F1.com

      Next race:
      Bahrain Grand Prix in Malaysia
      Sepang International Circuit, Malaysia
      October 2-4, 2026

      10 votes
    10. Is Aniimo’s AI usage as obvious to anyone else?

      I've been playing Aniimo for a bit. The gameplay is fun, but some of the artwork looks blatantly AI generated to me. I've seen images with double headed animals and wheat that seems to disappear....

      I've been playing Aniimo for a bit. The gameplay is fun, but some of the artwork looks blatantly AI generated to me. I've seen images with double headed animals and wheat that seems to disappear. Maybe those are placeholders, but the dialogue, some creature and NPC designs, and even the voiceacting set off my spidey sense too.

      The developers claim they don't use generative AI for creating the characters, world and story, but haven't been clear about where they do and don't use it specifically as far as I know. Is it as obvious to anyone else as it is to me? Has anyone found clearer evidence either way?

      I may keep playing because it's fun, but I won't spend a single bit of my money on it. The fact that it feels like a Genshin rip-off makes the whole thing kind of funny, too.

      10 votes
    11. Realizing I could run as far as my mental state carried me made me become addicted to distance running. Anyone else been enjoying running/long runs?

      I have not been a serious runner in years and never a good one. I picked up running again, having wanted to for a while. My friend randomly wanted to start a running music playlist together and...

      I have not been a serious runner in years and never a good one. I picked up running again, having wanted to for a while. My friend randomly wanted to start a running music playlist together and the fun of choosing hyped-up songs led me to run 10-15-20-32k in the span of just a few months. I do not think I have ever run more than 7mi in my life. Now I look around at the sprawling city around me, satisfied that I can pick any point I see and run there.

      If anyone else is into this would enjoy reading your stories or thoughts. I am especially interested in tips for greatly increasing distance without hurting myself. I had to simmer down a lot after doing 32k...

      32 votes
    12. Using Obsidian or a similar PKM for curriculum, unit and lesson planning

      I was wondering if anyone else has considered using a PKM like Obsidian (markdown editor with linking) for the unit and lesson planning. Specifically, I am intrigued by the ability to link...

      I was wondering if anyone else has considered using a PKM like Obsidian (markdown editor with linking) for the unit and lesson planning.

      Specifically, I am intrigued by the ability to link curriculum documents, resources I have collected, within my lessons. And being able to see a graph view of how everything links together really tickles my brain, while still maintaining my structured folder hierarchy (a nice mix of classical file management, non-linear organization through tagging, and chronological view based on creation date or modification date). I also enjoy the TaskNotes plugin Kanban view, and it's one file per task approach (letting me put a lot of detail into the task, or linking the task to another file). Obsidian also offers an education discount for publish / sync, but I think I am going to stick with my DAV sync to my homelab/media-centre, and maybe publish some lesson plans on a free site host using a generator like quartz.

      Here is two published examples, one being more so lesson plans meant for teachers while the other is a component shared for students within a class. Both of these examples are American, so not 100% applicable to what I would do, but still really interesting to peak at.
      English - Curriculum & planning approach - Obsidian Publish
      Linear Algerbra - Course companion approach - Quartz

      I was just wondering what other educators have tried (even if it is something completely different!), what has worked for you in terms of understanding, as well as what works for you sharing stuff with colleagues or student teachers (university candidates partaking in their practicum).

      Addendum: I also have a paperless-ngx document server hosted, but this personally is more so for storing personal documents related to my banking, health, instructional manuals etc. All of the paperwork that is just so easy to lose, and is also part of my physical archival setup with ASN (archival serial number) QR stickers that I put on physical documents - I suck at physical organization so just numbering them and using tags and search on paperless just works for me.

      I also have zotero for research still, which integrates nicely with obsidian (I used to use logseq but when they shifted to a database format they removed the in-build integration.

      lastly, I do keep a physical planner, physical writing can help me with my day-to-day life; but for longer form stuff I do really need it digitally. I guess it is perhaps a little disjointed to be using a kanban board in my obsidian vault as well as a physical planner, but there is a certain work and personal separation that it allows for. Similar to my journaling in a physical notebook, there is an ephemeral nature to it that actually works very well for me vs something like my lesson planning which is recurring.

      20 votes
    13. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      5 votes
    14. Library resources megathread

      Since we had a number of threads on Library resources, I figured we should have a place to consolidate them. If you find something of note, add it to the thread! This will probably be rather US...

      Since we had a number of threads on Library resources, I figured we should have a place to consolidate them. If you find something of note, add it to the thread!

      This will probably be rather US centric, but if something works in your neck of the woods, let us know.

      29 votes
    15. VR questions, recommendations, tips, and tricks

      I know we have a few VR veterans around the site, and given that the Steam Frame has finally materialized, we likely have some people who are soon to be new to VR. This is a topic for people to...

      I know we have a few VR veterans around the site, and given that the Steam Frame has finally materialized, we likely have some people who are soon to be new to VR.

      This is a topic for people to ask any questions they have about VR, as well as for people who are familiar to share recommendations, tips, tricks, and any other thoughts they have.

      29 votes
    16. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like loneliness, firmware and game mechanics. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like loneliness, firmware and game mechanics. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was inquisitive.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      9 votes
    17. Tildes Book Club - Future

      This month's discussion is the last thing on the schedule. Are people interested in continuing? If so, two things will need to be decided: a new schedule, and a new host; a rotating series of...

      This month's discussion is the last thing on the schedule. Are people interested in continuing? If so, two things will need to be decided: a new schedule, and a new host; a rotating series of hosts, like in the CGA threads, is likely the most sustainable long term move IMO.

      27 votes
    18. Pulsar X2 v2 Medium mouse battery replacement

      I wanted to put out a more complete guide than what's currently available for people who may want to do this in the future; welcome to my blog. Love the mouse, but the battery wasn't lasting more...

      I wanted to put out a more complete guide than what's currently available for people who may want to do this in the future; welcome to my blog.

      Love the mouse, but the battery wasn't lasting more than 3 days.

      Here's a pic of the original battery (602030 300mAh 3.7V):
      https://drive.proton.me/urls/TT7GVDNG5C#BKMx0MHmSwvg

      I bought a replacement battery from AliExpress:
      902030 550mAh 3.7V JST 1.5mm 3pin

      Here's a pic of the final result:
      https://drive.proton.me/urls/BEMDHJH668#I2ZixElmwv7E

      There's plenty of height clearance, but no wiggle room with length and width.

      The most important tidbit is the polarity of the wires; I had to swap red(+) and black(-).

      On the original battery (all black wires) you can see the P- and P+ indicators on the original battery circuit board. In summary, the "bottom" of the connector (on the mouse) expects a positive (red wire), middle is the sensor (yellow wire), top is negative (black wire).

      The battery arrived with the red and black wires the other way around. I used the smallest flathead screwdriver to, very slightly, prop the plastic "prong" (where you see the three plastic 'prongs', not the flat side) of the red/black wire and gently pull them out. Take note of the wire's positioning (the metal bit). The top has a very tiny metal bump that "clips" against the plastic prong you lifted. Putting the wire back into the housing should be "like a glove"; no forcing.

      Everything is working without issues so far. The Pulsar software is reporting the battery level, but can't be sure if it's accurate. I also haven't had a chance to measure how long the new and improved battery lasts.

      Another tidbit, I tore the "ribbon" when taking the mouse apart.
      https://drive.proton.me/urls/DE33WP907M#Xc4A2qfEoMat

      The cable connects the side buttons. I found a replacement (no thanks to Pulsar support who told me to either pound sand because they wouldn't even hint on tech specs of the cable or pay to ship to Korea and wait months for it to get sorted which it wouldn't because me disassembling the mouse isn't covered under warranty [fair enough]).

      The exact title of the cable I ordered is: "uxcell FFC Flexible Flat Cable 10 Pins 0.5 mm Pitch B Type 80mm". The most important specifications are:

      • 10 Pins
      • .5 mm pitch
      • B Type
      • 80mm (perfect length, but can go a little shorter if you must)
      4 votes
    19. Colorado's Tildos - How-does it suit you?

      (please read as "colorados tildohs, how-dooose it suit you?") Things like Do you feel concerned about living there long term? Does the water situation bother you? Did you move there as an adult,...

      (please read as "colorados tildohs, how-dooose it suit you?")

      Things like

      • Do you feel concerned about living there long term?
      • Does the water situation bother you?
      • Did you move there as an adult, or were you raised there? How does it compare to other places, in your view?

      I have a bit of a fascination with it and have considered moving, but it's a big change from where I currently live.

      18 votes
    20. 'Sayonara Lara' anime discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      A bit late to the party. How did you feel about the show?

      The retro 90s artstyle is definitely the highlight for me. Really gave me fluffy feeling of watching anime when I was (more) little.

      Though that look was not a straight copy but got updated with some slight modern touches,

      like how the story is also an expanded version of the original fairy tale with a more contemporary view about love.

      Now romance is not my strong suit so what I could glean from the story is pretty rough. How I interpret the ending is something like the beginning of a long-distance relationship, Lara went out to explore more of the human world she loves, while being secured that the connection she formed with her loved ones back home would remain strong.

      A running theme of the story is how there's no one singular "true love". This was stated most explicitly when Lara saved Mari from the fish dagger, she yelled about how she didn't need true love but only to be "in world with you [Mari]". One way to interpret that Mari was her true love, but I think it's more interesting if she wasn't "the" one, but that didn't matter because Lara cared about her enough to go through the struggle for her, and that was enough to dispell the curse.

      Another point for this being how the mermaids' light power worked is in Grace flashback, we was shown that Rigmore loved Rowan enough that her light could keep the kingdom alive as what everyone wanted, but she also loved Grace enough to come rushing and sacrificed her life for her. So which love was more "true"? Of course both were, and that was okay. Lara desperately searched for an ultimate love but maybe what the light required was just that she loved something/someone strong enough.

      Earlier the show hinted at it being about multiple forms of love when Mari's brother complained about how he would never be able to find love, but his grandma reminded him that she loved him too (to which he said that's not the same). The show made it clear enough that her affection for Luca was genuine (she mentioned feeling a sense of warmth when being with him that she didn't feel with other people). It wasn't necessarily that she loved Mari more, her feeling for Mari was just different. It's most straightforward to see the ending as yuri but I see them behaving more like sisters with each other. Beside, Lara is a grown-ass adult no matter how you interpret her age while Mari is still a highschooler so making a couple would be really weird.

      Another reason why I think Mari was not "the one" of the story is the fact that we're introduced to her being curious about human artifacts first and foremost. If being forced to pick one thing, I'd say her love of human culture was the "truer" one and her infatuation with the prince (then Luca and Mari) are partly because they were a part of this culture she was enamored with. (This is how I felt about the original fairy tale as well. If the prince was meant to be her true love, it could have been more effective to introduce her starting out hating humanity, but this particular prince changed her and won her over.)

      And so this ambiguous ending worked for me. She was finally free to live true to herself and explore what she loved most which is human culture, not just being with any one particular human.

      Something I'm also curious about is the red/blue color scheme for the mermaids. There must be some significance to who was chosen as red or blue but I couldn't quite tease it out yet.

      Someone said Sayonara Lara sounds better than Goodbye Lara so that's what I go with for the title :)

      10 votes
    21. An insight into looksmaxxxing/blackpill "ideology"

      A few months ago someone posted an article on the male loneliness epidemic. I had shared my thoughts in the comments on that post. But I think that article and a lot of comments are under the...

      A few months ago someone posted an article on the male loneliness epidemic. I had shared my thoughts in the comments on that post. But I think that article and a lot of comments are under the impression that "redpill" content/ideology is still in vogue or relevant in today's world. It still has its followers and influencers for sure, but it's not at the forefront of cultural discussions anymore. To think otherwise is outdated, the redpill era died around 2022/2023 and was replaced by a more incel-derived "blackpill" era.

      Thanks to TikTok, what was once relegated to niche internet forums became mainstream. The biggest influencer from this internet phenomenon is Clavicular, who is currently getting articles written about him in press outlets such as The Hollywood Reporter and People.

      I am no stranger to talking about looks (side note: I would have taken more time to write that out and discuss broader topics, such as "types," if I had known it would have gotten as much attention as it did). And I have been around looksmaxxxing spaces on the internet since about 2022. I'll try to make this as brief and simple as I can.

      What is the blackpill?

      The blackpill is a deterministic outlook on life. It states that your genetics determines the quality of your life, and if you were not born with advantageous bone structure and height, then "it was over before it even started." You won't be successful in life, you won't find love, and you will end up a lonely, pathetic person wishing you'd been born looking better.

      How does this differ from the redpill?

      The redpill has some overlap with the blackpill. Both believe that men are the true victims of society. That feminism has been detrimental, this and that, and the other. The redpill, however, insinuates that you can self-improve. There's almost zero focus on improving looks, and it's almost entirely focused on making money and increasing your status.

      A core belief of the redpill is that all women are gold diggers, and in order to get laid, you need to make a ton of money. The blackpill does not entirely dispute this, but it does say that if a woman chooses you for money, she will never actually love you. And that you are paying a lot of money for affection and attention that an attractive man gets for free.

      I think that explanation in and of itself should show you the difference between the two.

      What's looksmaxxxing? Are looksmaxxxing and the blackpill interchangeable terms?

      They are not.

      Looksmaxxxing is what guys do to look better, to increase their rankings on the looks scale. So that they can start getting laid (primarily) or start to "mog" (i.e., outshine everyone in a room).

      In certain blackpill spaces looksmaxxxing is seen as cope, since, again, your life was determined by genetics and there's nothing you can do to fix this.

      You might think looksmaxxxing consists of losing body fat, getting a skin care routine, dressing nicely, hygiene, and cologne. And that is part of it, all of that stuff is considered "softmaxxxing" but there's also "hardmaxxxing" as in surgeries and other more serious treatments such as steroids and peptides (which technically occupy a grey area between soft and hard maxxxing). An example of a popular surgery is double jaw surgery, here's the subreddit for it so you can see examples. If your jaw was not properly developed and you have a recessed chin (or a pushed-in chin), then a double jaw surgery is something you can do that would greatly increase your attractiveness. Although it does carry quite a bit of risk. There are other surgeries that people do on their eyes, their noses, ear pinning, there's a lot.

      It is essentially a belief that your best investment is going to be in how you look. It's a bit of a running joke that instead of going to college, you should invest in plastic surgery, and that will do more to make your life better than a degree.

      How do they view women? How do they view themselves?

      The belief is that women are hypergamous. That they will only want to date up, and it's significantly easier for women to date and get laid, even if they are below average looking. And that even an above average looking man will have trouble since they aren't the holy grail of attractiveness.

      Here's a brief explanation of their rating system.

      • Sub-5

      5 is considered average; sub-5 means below average. Not even that you don't get attention but that you get negative attention from the people around you.

      • Low-Tier Normie / Low-Tier Becky
      • Mid-Tier Normie / Mid-Tier Becky
      • High-Tier Normie / High-Tier Becky

      The "normie" categories are all average categories. Ranging from on the low side of average (LTN) to above average (HTN). The High Tier categories are where a lot of attractive actors sit, think romcom leads, the boy/girl next door types.

      • Chad/Stacy

      Essentially unobtainable beauty. Taylor Hill or Henry Cavill.

      Depending on who you're talking to, someone would say that "life starts at HTN" or that life doesn't exist unless you're "Chad." And that if you're anything below that, you might as well not even exist.

      How did it get popular?

      The first instance most people probably heard of it was likely in 2014 when Elliot Rodger committed a mass shooting at a University. He was a member of a looksmaxxxing forum (the original looksmaxxxing forum, I believe), which led to the site being shut down and thus delaying any chance of its popularity. If you go back and watch and read what Elliot Rodger believed, it makes more sense in today's context now that this thought process has been more normalized.

      In 2023, TikTok started promoting this content. Primarily from "edits" here's an example and coinciding with that were also the rise of a few influencers. All leading up to Clavicular, and how dominant he is on social media (thanks in part to funding from Peter Thiel). He was a kid posting on looksmaxxxing forums, was a micro celebrity in the niche, became a slightly bigger internet celebrity on TikTok before streamers started bringing him on leading to his insane fame.

      Conclusion

      Going back to the initial tildes post that I linked to. That whole thing was essentially saying, if you're just a good person, then someone will want to date you or fall in love with you or want to have sex with you or whatever. And I think part of the reason why looksmaxxxing stuff has taken off is that it feels more honest. It's not coddling you, and if you do improve your looks, you're going to see better results in dating than if you read feminist literature or something. So the takeaway ends up being that one of these places was telling me the truth.

      Like, on a broader scale, it's a response to the body positivity stuff from the 2010s. When everyone was being told that it's okay if you're obese, it's healthy, it's beautiful. And there was just kind of a sense of performance to all of it.
      The effort to change what people are attracted to, or to shame people for not being attracted to a certain thing. Has it gone too far? Probably, but I think that's why it took off initially and why it grew so quickly.

      I obviously have my own personal experience about this, and so I very obviously know that it's not just what's inside that counts. Normal everyday people will make assumptions about you based on the way that you look. And I don't think it's a morally wrong thing to acknowledge that it happens, nor do I think it's a morally righteous thing to pretend like it doesn't.

      45 votes
    22. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      8 votes
    23. 'Jaadugar: A Witch's Life in Mongolia' discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      What do you guys think about the anime?

      I thought it was excellent. The art is impeccable and the historical matters were handled with great care. Studio Saru is on fire lately.

      In particular, I was impressed with how the story approaches Sitara's desire for revenge,

      and how it relates to their suffering due to conquests by the Mongols.

      On the one hand, what they did to her family was a justifiable reason for hatred and for her wanting to never acknowledge their goodwill, which was built on the bloodshed of her own people to begin with.

      It's interesting how except for the first few episodes where the attrocity of the Mongol was shown explicitly, the latter episodes mostly portrayed the Mongol people in good light and any act of cruelty only implied (e.g. Ogedei was shown looking sorrowful during the subjugation of Merkit's uprising but not how he killed them, he was constantly forgiving of Toregene but the fact that they had a son despite her open contempt suggested it was likely forced). This puts us in their shoes regarding how tempting it is to forget about the horrible past and just move on.

      On the other hand, the story also shows how her quest for vengance might be misguided, fueled more by tribalism than justice. She ignored any kindness the people around showed her and considered all Mongolian as enemy. She thought of the suffering that the Jin people will suffer in Tului's conquest and was willing to ignore it because they're not on her side ("to them she's just another Mongol").

      She was self-assured that her version of knowledge is correct (the debate about the cause of star movement with Ogedei, an excellent scene) and thus maybe be oblivious to the fault of her own side. It was hinted that Zumurrud (another slave in the old Fatima's household) might have been forcefully taken from her previous home and had been suffering during her time there as well, but Sitara was likely too young to notice.

      So does the show wants to say revenge is bad and one should ignore wrongdoings in the past, or is it that revenge is fine even when not everyone affected is a bad person? My interpretation is that Sitara was tragic character born out of horrible circumstances.

      In the beginning the show made a point about how pursuing knowledge is a path toward figuring out the right thing, and how inspired she was by the idea. But during her time in Mongolia, we saw her constantly suppressing her desire to learn about the new culture in order to keep her hatred alive. This was a flaw in her character, but it was a flaw born out of the trauma caused by the Mongols when they violently subjugated her people.

      Sitara's sense of loyalty was also a bit warped as well, she saw her quest as doing right by her master Fatima as a slave, despite how in the final moment Fatima already acknowledged Sitara as her daughter.

      We see how lonely and miserable Sitara and Toregene were by insisting on holding onto their grudge, but Khulan who resigned to her new life was also not happy either, so maybe that was not something they could have chosen.

      Earlier during its run there were complaints that the show romanticized slavery but I don't think that's the case, the critiques was there just unstated.

      10 votes
    24. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like macklemore, steam frame and rockstar games. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like macklemore, steam frame and rockstar games. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was suspicious.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      10 votes
    25. The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny and Murder

      Let me know mods if I’m posting too much, if so I’m sorry! Damn good read, devoured it over the course of two days in Quebec City last week and I’m just digesting it now. Holy crow what a...

      Let me know mods if I’m posting too much, if so I’m sorry!

      Damn good read, devoured it over the course of two days in Quebec City last week and I’m just digesting it now.

      Holy crow what a disambiguation of the word “mutiny” (apologies if I wrote that wrong).

      I think David Grann manages to display the humanity in the central figures with clarity. Perhaps it’s due to some inference or poetic license in order to move the story along, but he make a good book and that cpt cheap was a dandy.

      10 votes
    26. Where do we go from here? (Regarding AI)

      TW: AI discussion. Recently, things have been getting rather crazy with AI to the point that I think many are being forced to reckon with its potential. It has been demonstrated that this...

      TW: AI discussion.

      Recently, things have been getting rather crazy with AI to the point that I think many are being forced to reckon with its potential. It has been demonstrated that this technology is capable of solving things like millennium math problems, which has drawn response from many fields medalists. There have been very public instances of big tech losing control of their experiments. Many top researchers are expressing discomfort. Now, of course you could dismiss this all as marketing but I personally think that would be a bit of wishful thinking.

      I would like to have an open discussion about the current moment in time. Therefore, I ask you, people of tildes, where do you think we are and where do we go from here? Please feel free to pull out your crystal ball and speculate wildly. Or, please feel free to call it all bunk. I just want to hear your opinion.

      • Do you feel concerned about AI or are you still unconvinced?
      • Do you think AI will take your job? Why or why not?
      • Are you considering a career change or any other big life decisions because of the changing world?
      • How are you advising your children, regarding schooling and careers?
      • Do you have a subscription to an AI service? If you have one, how do you feel about it?
      • Do you think that this technology will be a net positive or a net negative?
      • How do you think the human race will change, if at all?
      • Do you think we will see a serious incident driven by AI in the near future?
      • Does it bother you that humans may not be the dominant intelligence at some point? Do you think this is even possible?
      • Does any of this affect your sense of identity or individuality? How do you feel about your skill set and hobbies?
      • What do you think it means to be human in a machine dominated world?
      • Overall, are you feeling optimistic or pessimistic?

      For me personally, I have shared my opinion many times before. It is a rather pessimistic one.

      I recognize that this is a heated topic, and I would like to request that even if you disagree with someone, that we treat each other with respect and kindness. Thanks.

      40 votes
    27. Formula 1 Spanish Grand Prix 2026 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Spanish Grand Prix
      Madring
      September 11-13, 2026


      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:33.469 1:32.873 1:31.824 19
      2 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:33.267 1:32.591 1:31.835 20
      3 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:33.381 1:32.431 1:31.964 18
      4 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:33.531 1:32.710 1:32.013 21
      5 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:33.532 1:32.755 1:32.019 21
      6 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:33.211 1:32.850 1:32.149 22
      7 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:33.829 1:33.204 1:32.294 22
      8 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 1:33.310 1:32.780 1:32.316 18
      9 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:33.963 1:33.038 1:32.903 17
      10 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:34.340 1:33.204 1:33.041 21
      11 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:34.417 1:33.223 13
      12 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:33.986 1:33.388 12
      13 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:34.667 1:33.667 11
      14 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:34.246 1:33.753 11
      15 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 1:34.311 1:34.084 15
      16 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:35.307 1:35.532 14
      17 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:35.312 9
      18 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:35.388 9
      19 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:35.913 9
      20 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:38.011 8

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 57 1:34:23.754 25
      2 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 57 +4.351s 18
      3 1 Lando Norris McLaren 57 +5.089s 15
      4 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 57 +29.116s 12
      5 63 George Russell Mercedes 57 +29.829s 10
      6 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 57 +86.746s 8
      7 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 57 +94.281s 6
      8 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 57 +95.839s 4
      9 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 56 +1 lap 2
      10 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 56 +1 lap 1
      11 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 56 +1 lap 0
      12 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 56 +1 lap 0
      13 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 56 +1 lap 0
      14 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 56 +1 lap 0
      15 23 Alexander Albon Williams 56 +1 lap 0
      16 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 56 +1 lap 0
      17 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 55 +2 laps 0
      18 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 54 +3 laps 0
      NC 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 43 DNF 0
      NC 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 31 DNF 0
      NC 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 12 DNF 0
      NC 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 6 DNF 0

      Fastest Lap: George Russell // 1:35.587 on lap 49
      DOTD: Max Verstappen

      Source: F1.com

      Next race:
      Azerbaijan Grand Prix
      Baku City Circuit
      September 24-26, 2026

      13 votes
    28. 'The Ghost in the Shell' just ended, what are your thoughts?

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      I've only watched the 1995 movie before, so it was a pleasant surprise this closer adaptation turned out to be straight crime drama with dense political intrigues and social commentary. The world feels more detailed and not just backdrop for philosophical musing, and so the questions being raised are more multi-faceted.

      A particular highlight for me is the child-trafficking /ghost dubbing subplot. Not only does it further blur the lines between artificial and organic intelligence, but does so in a way that put more emphasis on the ethical dimension and not leaving it abstract.

      Another example is her court statement questioning whether her shooting the kid or whoever brainwashed him in the first place should be more responsible for his death. The philosophical question is whether the death of a person should be marked when their mind or their body ceased to function, but the context of this being a defense for police unlawful killing gave me second thoughts.

      Major's more lively characterization here also makes for an interesting contrast especially regarding her final act. In the 1995 version, she was morose since the beginning and just generally passive overall, so I interpreted her merging with the Puppet Master as due to being coerced, or her not very attached to living to begin with and so this is akin to a suicide on her part.

      However, this version of Major is sexually active and enjoys indulging in life many pleasures. Crucially, merging (which was heavily implied to be analogous to digital procreation) was her choice, which makes that final decision more as embracing the call to adventure and choosing to enjoy new experiences, hence more life affirming.

      Most of the political conspiracies went over my head though so if anyone can help explaining that side of the plot to me that would be great.

      31 votes
    29. BlizzCon discussion thread

      The first day of BlizzCon is happening. A lot of trailers popping and news spreading. What are your thoughts? Ideas? Will you be playing their upcoming new titles? Starcraft (New Shooter coming...

      The first day of BlizzCon is happening. A lot of trailers popping and news spreading.

      What are your thoughts? Ideas? Will you be playing their upcoming new titles?

      • Starcraft (New Shooter coming 2030)
      • Diablo 4 Expansion + Diablo 5 Teaser (2029)
      • Overwatch new Hero
      • Heroes of the Storm new Hero
      • Hearthstone new Expansion pack (The Black Empire)
      • World of Warcraft Midnight Eclipse Update Patch
      • World of Warcraft Forever (Classic +)
      21 votes
    30. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      10 votes
    31. Did my first metric century (bike ride)!

      Just wanted to start another general cycling discussion thread, this time about longer rides. I did my first metric century (100km) ride last Saturday, as part of an organized event here in the...

      Just wanted to start another general cycling discussion thread, this time about longer rides.

      I did my first metric century (100km) ride last Saturday, as part of an organized event here in the Bay Area. The ride took us through Marin county, which is the region just north of the Golden Gate bridge for those unfamiliar, and it was absolutely beautiful the whole way. The ride itself was wonderfully organized and supported: there were rest stops / feed stations every 20 miles or so, stocked with really great food, water, and sport drink mixes. There were also medics riding the course and support vehicles to help with mechanical issues, or to give you a lift back to the start if you had to tap out.

      It was my first time doing a longer ride like this. I only signed up for it about 6 weeks ago and I am so glad that I did. Training for this really forced me to learn about cycling longer distances, from planning routes, to essential items to bring with, to proper nutrition, and beyond. I went from doing 10-20 mile rides a couple of times a week to doing this 62ish mile ride (with 4000ft of elevation) in 6 weeks, which I am super happy about!

      Now that I can ride these distances, it's totally changed the options that feel open to me and I've been having a blast exploring my area. I'm no longer intimidated by routes with decent climbs or long distances, which has really opened up a lot.

      Anyway, I absolutely loved it, and if anyone has been thinking about doing something similar take this as your sign to 100% do it!

      20 votes
    32. What's your line?

      When do you decide you can no longer ethically work somewhere? What would be your line? Would your ability to do harm reduction or meaningfully change the situation make a difference in your...

      When do you decide you can no longer ethically work somewhere?
      What would be your line?
      Would your ability to do harm reduction or meaningfully change the situation make a difference in your decision?

      Have you acted on these stances before?

      45 votes
    33. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like lg, milestones.developmental and golf. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like lg, milestones.developmental and golf. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was taking note.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      7 votes
    34. Adulting -- what advice or encouragement did you receive / wish you had received when you were just starting out moving out?

      (inspired by a deleted post. I'll respect the user and just make this a generic topic.) What was the hardest part about growing up into an independent adult for you? Was there some advice or...

      (inspired by a deleted post. I'll respect the user and just make this a generic topic.)

      What was the hardest part about growing up into an independent adult for you? Was there some advice or mental Eureka! moment that gave you a big boost?

      Affordability and employment are at a crisis level for our youth these days. Want to share some hardships you experienced, or big hurdle you had to navigate out of, as a way to encourage others that things will get better?

      54 votes
    35. How do you find new anime to watch?

      Not necessarily new, could be old but you simply haven't watched before. Simply curious about everyone's habits. Like for me, I know about the dedicated databases but in practice, I just stumble...

      Not necessarily new, could be old but you simply haven't watched before.

      Simply curious about everyone's habits. Like for me, I know about the dedicated databases but in practice, I just stumble upon whatever the algorithm decides to show and if the art looks eye-catching I'll give it a shot.

      18 votes
    36. Formula 1 Italian Grand Prix 2026 - Race Weekend Discussion

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Italian Grand Prix
      Autodromo Nazionale Monza
      September 4-6, 2026


      Qualifying Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Q1 Q2 Q3 Laps
      1 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 1:22.612 1:22.077 1:21.786 18
      2 63 George Russell Mercedes 1:22.779 1:22.161 1:21.846 17
      3 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 1:22.924 1:22.017 1:21.966 18
      4 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1:22.902 1:22.509 1:22.004 18
      5 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 1:22.847 1:22.516 1:22.011 15
      6 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 1:22.631 1:22.188 1:22.070 17
      7 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 1:22.758 1:21.882 1:22.093 18
      8 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 1:22.662 1:22.400 1:22.220 18
      9 1 Lando Norris McLaren 1:22.659 1:22.067 1:22.256 19
      10 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 1:22.727 1:22.345 1:22.286 18
      11 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 1:22.946 1:22.517 12
      12 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 1:22.906 1:22.756 15
      13 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 1:23.440 1:22.779 12
      14 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 1:22.989 1:22.821 17
      15 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 1:23.616 1:23.453 15
      16 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 1:23.466 1:23.454 15
      17 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 1:23.755 6
      18 23 Alexander Albon Williams 1:24.356 6
      19 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 1:24.364 9
      20 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 1:24.595 9
      21 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 1:25.150 6
      22 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 1:25.222 9

      Source: F1.com

      Grand Prix Results -- SPOILER
      Pos. No. Driver Team Laps Time / Retired Pts.
      1 12 Kimi Antonelli Mercedes 53 1:51:15.281 25
      2 63 George Russell Mercedes 53 +3.857s 18
      3 3 Max Verstappen Red Bull Racing 53 +14.718s 15
      4 1 Lando Norris McLaren 53 +19.056s 12
      5 81 Oscar Piastri McLaren 53 +19.253s 10
      6 44 Lewis Hamilton Ferrari 53 +24.655s 8
      7 10 Pierre Gasly Alpine 53 +27.351s 6
      8 41 Arvid Lindblad Racing Bulls 53 +45.136s 4
      9 43 Franco Colapinto Alpine 53 +47.353s 2
      10 22 Yuki Tsunoda Racing Bulls 53 +58.187s 1
      11 5 Gabriel Bortoleto Audi 53 +65.187s 0
      12 27 Nico Hulkenberg Audi 53 +66.187s 0
      13 55 Carlos Sainz Williams 53 +74.117s 0
      14 30 Liam Lawson Red Bull Racing 53 +75.609s 0
      15 87 Oliver Bearman Haas F1 Team 53 +78.958s 0
      16 31 Esteban Ocon Haas F1 Team 52 +1 lap 0
      17 23 Alexander Albon Williams 52 +1 lap 0
      18 11 Sergio Perez Cadillac 52 +1 lap 0
      19 77 Valtteri Bottas Cadillac 51 +2 laps 0
      NC 18 Lance Stroll Aston Martin 26 DNF 0
      NC 14 Fernando Alonso Aston Martin 23 DNF 0
      NC 16 Charles Leclerc Ferrari 1 DNF 0

      Fastest Lap: Kimi Antonelli // 1:23.504 on lap 53
      DOTD: Kimi Antonelli

      Source: F1.com

      Next race:
      Spanish Grand Prix
      Madring
      September 11-13, 2026

      10 votes
    37. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      11 votes
    38. Tildes Book Club discussion - August 2026 - Light from Uncommon Stars by Ryka Aoki

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      This is the eighth Tildes Book Club Discussion for 2026 and the twenty-eighth overall. We are discussing Light from Uncommon Stars by Ryka Aoki. At the end of September we will discuss Dr. No by Ian Fleming.

      I don't have a particular format in mind for this discussion, but I will post some prompts and questions as comments to get things started. You're not obligated to respond to them or vote on them though. So feel free to make your own top-level comment for whatever you wish to discuss, questions you have of others, or even just to post a review of the book you have written yourself.

      For latecomers, don't worry if you didn't read the book in time for this Discussion topic. You can always join in once you finish it. Tildes Activity sort, and "Collapse old comments" feature should keep the topic going for as long as people are still replying.

      And for anyone uninterested in this topic please use the Ignore Topic feature on this so it doesn't keep popping up in your Activity sort, since it's likely to keep doing that while I set this discussion up, and once people start joining in.

      12 votes
    39. What are your "how on earth did I not learn this sooner" tech moments?

      I'm thinking of this in a "pitfalls of being self-taught" context, but I'm sure there's plenty of other places these moments happen. Feel free to also interpret the title as "How did I not know...

      I'm thinking of this in a "pitfalls of being self-taught" context, but I'm sure there's plenty of other places these moments happen. Feel free to also interpret the title as "How did I not know that?", "How did I miss that?", "Why did no one tell me that?" and the like!

      The inspiration for this post is that I am over a year and a half into my Linux journey, which has involved a solid amount of tinkering and eagerly getting familiar with the command line, and I just now realized that you can do man <literally any command> to quickly get to the manual for it. And also that whatis exists. For the last 18+ months, I've been just doing <command> --help or <command> <subcommand> --help and searching the internet to supplement that. I knew that man pages exist, but I guess for some reason it didn't occur to me that there would be a way to access them that easily.

      I love learning things on my own and building understanding by doing, just picking a direction and running with it, but... man. I often wonder how many little things that "everyone knows" I've missed through sheer random chance. And then there's things like my man pages revelation that I can't believe I didn't piece together on my own, considering all the other crazy stuff I've figured out. Oh well lol. I suppose it's good when the humbling reminders of my own capacity for ignorance arrive via something low-stakes like this than via something that could wreck my system!

      Anyone else have similar stories to share?

      64 votes
    40. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like gpl, linux and 1password. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was observing...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like gpl, linux and 1password. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was observing closely.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      10 votes
    41. Anyone sold their 40k armies? How'd you feel about it?

      I have two 40k Armies, Orks and Necrons. I don't know current point values, but if I were to venture a guess, it's probably somewhere on the order of 6000-7000 points worth of stuff. I have...

      I have two 40k Armies, Orks and Necrons. I don't know current point values, but if I were to venture a guess, it's probably somewhere on the order of 6000-7000 points worth of stuff. I have something like 200 Ork Boys, 40-50 Nobz, Trukks, 15+ Deffkoptas and all kinds of stuff. Necrons are significantly smaller, but probably something like 3000-3500 points.

      But I hate 40k. I don't like the Lore, I don't like the game and I don't really enjoy painting the models. The last time I played was 7th Edition about 8 months or so ago and I didn't have any fun with it and prior to that, I played a handful of games of 10th, both full scale and campaign and really didn't enjoy myself all that much then. So it's only been about a week since I came to the conclusion that I should finally sell my armies.

      I've been thinking about selling my Orks for quite some time, but only recently came to the conclusion that I should dump the Necrons as well, because I just have no interest in playing the game or even painting the models. But I'm struggling with the decision. 40k is what introduced me to Wargames and I thought it was pretty neat at the time, but not too long after that, I discovered historical Wargames (Bolt Action, in particlar) and those are very much my jam.

      I still have a bunch of Age of Sigmar, as I prefer it to 40k, though it's still far from a favorite of mine (Something like 3500 points of Gloomspite Gitz and 3500ish of Nighthaunt), so I still have access to Warhammer if friends want to play, but...yeah.

      I'm not exactly certain why I'm making this post. I went and bought boxes today for when I'm ready to start the process of taking pictures and selling stuff on eBay, but I just feel weirdly attached to some of these models, even if I have absolutely zero interest in them anymore. I do think I'm going to keep one kitbashed Ork Battlewagon I made, but beyond that I'm ready to just let go all of this stuff.

      24 votes
    42. Midweek Movie Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      8 votes
    43. Why do I see every service nowadays use a squiggly line for their loading/progress bars?

      Whether it's a loading bar on the google play store, the metronome on a guitar tuner or the progress bar of an offline audio player downloaded from F-Droid... everyone seems to have adopted the...

      Whether it's a loading bar on the google play store, the metronome on a guitar tuner or the progress bar of an offline audio player downloaded from F-Droid... everyone seems to have adopted the squiggly line loading bar seemingly overnight, and I can't fathom why, as it can be really distracting at times to have multiple moving things on screen.

      I can understand wanting to renew the look of an otherwise boring loading bar on the app store, but does a music player really need to have a progress bar with a wave animation? Is this a new trend or design choice in the tech world? It's driving me insane...

      24 votes
    44. Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like dolly parton, tim curry and algorithms. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was...

      Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like dolly parton, tim curry and algorithms. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was topical.

      But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched offbeat stories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!

      11 votes
    45. GOG added OpenMW and Tamriel Rebuilt into their store for free as mods for TES3 Morrowind

      For all the Morrowind enthusiast here - GOG.com has added OpenMW and Tamriel Rebuilt as curated mods for Morrowind. They say on the website: "GOG’s curated selection of the best Mods, directly...

      For all the Morrowind enthusiast here - GOG.com has added OpenMW and Tamriel Rebuilt as curated mods for Morrowind. They say on the website: "GOG’s curated selection of the best Mods, directly packed with the game for the smoothest installation ever. Install and play right away."

      I haven't tried it yet, but I guess it means GOG Galaxy (that I don't use) will automatically install OpenMW and enable Tamriel Rebuilt as a mod in it and launch OpenMW instead of old Morrowind executable. Maybe someone will know if it works this way.

      I just wanted other people to know, as Morrowind is my beloved game and I see it as a nice addition to have mods on the GOG as well as the game, even more so if it can be installed alongside the game hassle-free.

      For people who doesn't know:

      • OpenMW is open source multiplatform engine for playing Morrowind. You give it original game data files and it runs on modern hardware in modern resolutions. While it isn't v1.0 yet, it is perfectly playable. It let's you run Morrowind on various things like Raspberry Pi or ARM laptops, at one time even Android port existed (OpenMicroWave?)
      • Tamriel Rebuilt is a community mod that adds big-ass landmass with new cities, new places, new characters, new quests... Morrowind takes place on isle of Vvardenfell, but the game bears the name of the whole province of (game world of) Tamriel. This mod adds the rest of the province, basically.

      The thing is - Is it good that GOG adds such mods and integrates them with the game (somehow)? Will the mods be kept up-to-date when I install them with the game?

      32 votes
    46. Software engineers / programmers: how’s it going?

      All of my SWE friends and coworkers agree this is a deeply weird time to be in the industry. LLM coding has dominated many (but not all) tech companies. Some of it is cool and exciting, but a lot...

      All of my SWE friends and coworkers agree this is a deeply weird time to be in the industry. LLM coding has dominated many (but not all) tech companies. Some of it is cool and exciting, but a lot of it is terrible and horrifying. I thought it could be a good time to do a vibe check.

      Some possible questions to answer if you’d like:

      • How has your work changed in the past year? How much of your daily work now involves LLM tools?
      • Are you enjoying your work more, less, or the same? Has your relationship with work changed in general?
      • Do you feel like you’re working more or less now? The same?
      • Are you hopeful or fearful of the future (let’s say next 5 years) of SWE? Mixed?
      • Have you found any useful tips or advice for thriving in the current landscape?
      • Has your career trajectory changed? Do you plan on seeking out different types of roles?

      Also it would be useful to give whatever background info you’re comfortable sharing to help ground things like: size of company, years of experience, type of role, location, etc.

      Any and all discussion around the industry is welcome!

      42 votes