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28 votes
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Fresh Album Fridays: Mitski, Nas, Explosions in the Sky and more
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest! Discussion...
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest!
Discussion Points
What are you looking forward to listen to?
Have you listened to any of these releases?
What are your thoughts?
What have you enjoyed from these artists in the past?Why Friday?
Most (but not all) new LPs release on a Friday, as labels want to give the release a full week of sales before entering the charts.
~~ Feedback on the format welcome!
15 votes -
Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like unity, elon musk and tortillas. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was curious....
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like unity, elon musk and tortillas. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was curious.
But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched
offbeatstories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!24 votes -
What do you think the NY Jets should do now?
I am super bummed about Aaron Rodgers' injury. I was rooting for him individually, but also it is sad for the Jets and the league as a whole. Do you have any suggestions for what the Jets should...
I am super bummed about Aaron Rodgers' injury. I was rooting for him individually, but also it is sad for the Jets and the league as a whole. Do you have any suggestions for what the Jets should do now? Just stay the course with Zach Wilson? Make a trade? Take someone off their couch?
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Fairphone Keep Club: Sustainable consumerism?
As you may well know, Fairphone is a company that originally arose from a kickstarter campaign and makes phones that are as easily repairable, as sustainable and as fairly sourced as possible....
As you may well know, Fairphone is a company that originally arose from a kickstarter campaign and makes phones that are as easily repairable, as sustainable and as fairly sourced as possible. They do have their issues, but compared to other big phone companies they've done a great job with this.
Now it appears that Fairphone is due to announce the so called 'Fairphone Keep Club' on the 14th of September - a bonus program as we all know it. You buy stuff, you get points for what you buy, and when you've got enough points you can redeem them to buy more stuff.
The keep club website claims that it's the only rewards program that gives back to those who keep their Fairphones as long as possible, but judging by the listed 'challenges' it appears that the most efficient way to gain points is to simply buy new stuff.
Personally I'm a bit torn on this, due to the idealistic viewpoints I tend to judge Fairphone under in accordance with their stated sustainability goals. I do realize that is a much higher standard than the big-players in the phone industry achieve. I also get that Fairphone wants to build its brand identity and create incentives to keep customers and sell their products. But at the same time I can't help but think that in the end that program is an incentive to be less sustainable, as it ultimately provides you with those fancy points as a psychological incentive to buy the newest and latest Fairphone product.
So I wanted to bring this topic into a wider community that may not currently be as deep in the Fairphone bubble: Do you think such bonus programs will rather help spread the idea of a more repairable, sustainable approach to phones, or will it rather serve as an incentive to artificially shorten a phone's lifecycle by prematurely buying a new one? And more generally speking: Do you think advertising strategies rooted in consumerism and classic capitalistic company goals are compatible with sustainable product lifecycles somehow, despite not exactly having aligned interests?
Note that I also posted this on Lemmy. I'm interested to see how those discussions will compare.
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Is understaffing a new norm?
I'm asking this as a genuine question, not as a hot take. Where I'm coming from: My husband and I went to dinner the other night -- apologies from the waitress on being shortstaffed. A sign on a...
I'm asking this as a genuine question, not as a hot take.
Where I'm coming from:
My husband and I went to dinner the other night -- apologies from the waitress on being shortstaffed. A sign on a local store asks for patience with the lack of staff. The people staffing order pickup at a nearby department store aren't enough to keep up with orders. At my most recent doctor's appointment I spent almost 45 minutes in the exam room waiting to be seen (for an appointment I had to make over a year ago). A few hours after the appointment I went to pick up a prescription, and it hadn't even begun to be processed yet. There was only one cashier working, and she was having to jump between the in-person line and the drive-thru lane. At my job we don't have enough substitute teachers, so we're dependent on regular teachers covering classes during their "prep" periods.
This is merely a recent snapshot from my own life that I'm using as a sort of representative sample, but it feels like something that's been building for a while -- like something that was going to be temporary due to COVID but has stuck around and is now just what we're supposed to get used to. I remember that I used to keep thinking that understaffing would eventually go away over time, but it seems like it's just standard practice now?
Is this something specific to my experiences or my local area (I'm in the US, for context)? Are other people seeing the same thing?
Assuming it isn't just me, is there anything out there besides anecdotes that addresses this phenomenon? I don't want to lean solely on gut reactions, but I also can't deny that nearly every business I go to seems visibly short-staffed all of the time.
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How would you rewrite the ending of a show that had an unsatisfying finale, or imagine an ending to a show that was canceled prematurely?
Recently I've been rewatching GIRLS for the umpteenth time. When the series finale originally aired, it was a mini “Game of Thrones finale” situation. Fans were largely disappointed by the final...
Recently I've been rewatching GIRLS for the umpteenth time. When the series finale originally aired, it was a mini “Game of Thrones finale” situation. Fans were largely disappointed by the final episode, many disliking season 6 in general. It's one of my favorite shows, but usually when I rewatch it I either skip the very last episode, or I skip the entire final season, instead pretending that the season 5 finale was the ending of the show.
The finale of GIRLS hit a lot of marks for controversial finales. A few beloved characters were largely missing from the final episode/season or didn't get closure that people expected. The ending for the main character seemed to come out of nowhere (magically landing a dream job after struggling with employment the whole show,) and her overall arch didn't seem to align with her personality or anything that had happened up to that point. No one really got a happy ending, and the overall message or theme of the show seemed unclear, since many of the characters experienced very little growth over the course of the show, or they did actually experience some growth that was ignored when their conclusions were written.
I thought it might be fun to see if any of you have similar thoughts about any TV shows that didn't end the way you expected, or what you imagine would happen in fantastic shows that never even got an ending due to being canceled early. A few examples that come to mind:
- The obvious - How would you salvage the disaster conclusion of GoT? (I've seen so many takes online that manage to make it more satisfying.)
- I haven't seen Dexter, but I've heard that the ending was unsatisfying and clashed with what people expected from the main character.
- How could HIMYM have ended if the whole show wasn't instantly tranformed into a bait and switch with the finale?
- What would've happened with the characters on Freaks and Geeks, had that amazing show been allowed to continue for another season or two?
I intended to write about how I would want my example show to have ended, but honestly I'm stumped. Writing is hard! Especially if you don't have the luxury of planning the ending ahead of time, which I imagine was the issue for the writers of many of the classic "controversial finales." I'll probably add a comment about it after I come up with something.
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Edgedancer - By Brandon Sanderson - Discussion
Edgedancer (a stormlight archives novella) came out a few years ago, but since there's little Cosmere discussion in Tildes and I just finished reading it a few days ago, I figured it would be...
Edgedancer (a stormlight archives novella) came out a few years ago, but since there's little Cosmere discussion in Tildes and I just finished reading it a few days ago, I figured it would be worth posting my thoughts on this. The only book of relevance to this which I haven't read is Dawnshard, so please mark any discussion about that with spoilers.
I've seen a lot of complaints about Lift on reddit, and I can see where people are coming from. But I always liked the way Lift think and is written. I feel like Lift's stories would make great bed time stories because of how sweetly they end. In the first interlude where Lift appears, the people of Azir are having trouble picking a "king" because they keep getting assassinated. Lift's involvement solves this problem that we're introduced to at the start of the story. And now in Edgedancer, Nalan is still hunting down budding Radiants because he doesn't believe that the Everstorm has really come back. But at the end of the story Lift swears the third ideal "I will listen to those who have been ignored" and shows Nalan the truth. Which feels like a very fairy tale ending, compared to them getting involved in some epic battle. I honestly expected Szeth to intervene and team up with Lift against Nalan.
The moment at the end where she hugs Nalan to comfort him as he's crying was touching. It got me crying! I didn't expect to feel any sympathy for Nalan, but at the end it feels like a fog is lifting off of him and he's been in a haze this whole time. Which I suppose is true of all the Heralds at this point.
I kept trying to guess who the Radiant in Yeddaw was. Of course it had to be a minor character that we've already seen. So I was thinking it would be that guard we met earlier, since they mentioned trading to get some spheres with stormlight so that she can read. I thought this was a lie, with the real reason being using the stormlight to practice some surgebinding. The other candidate was the old man, but that turned out to be a very interesting misdirect that I'm hoping to learn more about in Dawnshard. (The actual radiant was the woman at the orphanage)
The description of the city of Yeddaw was very interesting and new. I wish there was more art to go along with the descriptions, but I feel like I don't really understand the layout of the city. I feel like it would be dark all the time (except noon) if it was carved into the ground like I imagined. Also I wonder if there's more to the story than it just being created with loaned out shardblades. We know that the total number of shardblades in Roshar is very small. Even assuming something like 5 shardblades that were loaned out, how is it possible to create a whole city with that in a reasonable amount of time. Feels like it would take many decades.
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Fresh Album Fridays: Earl Sweatshirt, Zach Bryan, The Armed and more
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest! A little later...
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest!
A little later in the day this week - was waiting for Drake's scheduled album to drop, which it never did. Inb4!
Discussion Points
What are you looking forward to listen to?
Have you listened to any of these releases?
What are your thoughts?
What have you enjoyed from these artists in the past?Why Friday?
Most (but not all) new LPs release on a Friday, as labels want to give the release a full week of sales before entering the charts.
~~ Feedback on the format welcome!
16 votes -
IndyCar Grand Prix of Monterey (Laguna Seca) 2023 Season Finale - Results
Not sure how many people follow IndyCar, but figured I'd do the same as I've been doing for F1. Honestly, one of the worst races I've ever seen in any series. Which is too bad, because I love Indy...
Not sure how many people follow IndyCar, but figured I'd do the same as I've been doing for F1.
Honestly, one of the worst races I've ever seen in any series. Which is too bad, because I love Indy at Laguna Seca. But it was like watching Formula 2 or Formula 3. At Monza. Constant crashing and spins, especially on restarts. I don't know how many times the race got yellow flagged, especially after restarts.
We know from last week's race at Portland that Alex Palou of Chip Ganassi Racing wrapped up the Drivers Championship in his Honda. So I'll put the season results below.
Race Results - SPOILER
Rank Driver Car No. Starts Laps Total time Laps Led Status Points Avg.Speed Pit stop 1 Scott Dixon 9 11 95 02:17:41.6400 20 Running 51 92.645 4 2 Scott McLaughlin 3 2 95 02:17:48.9580 - Running 40 92.563 5 3 Alex Palou 10 5 95 02:17:52.2511 51 Running 38 92.526 2 4 Will Power 12 7 95 02:17:56.3069 - Running 32 92.480 5 5 Callum Ilott 77 20 95 02:18:02.7689 - Running 30 92.408 6 6 Christian Lundgaard 45 3 95 02:18:03.0150 - Running 28 92.405 6 7 Alexander Rossi 7 15 95 02:18:03.8553 - Running 26 92.396 4 8 Marcus Armstrong 11 14 95 02:18:08.7710 - Running 24 92.341 4 9 Pato O'Ward 5 9 95 02:18:10.0307 15 Running 23 92.327 3 10 Ryan Hunter-Reay 20 25 95 02:18:13.9807 - Running 20 92.283 3 11 Romain Grosjean 28 8 95 02:18:20.6607 2 Running 20 92.209 3 12 Sting Ray Robb 51 24 95 02:18:25.6275 - Running 18 92.154 3 13 Helio Castroneves 06 27 95 02:18:39.9575 - Running 17 91.995 5 14 Agustin Canapino 78 19 95 02:18:42.8243 - Running 16 91.963 2 15 Marcus Ericsson 8 18 94 02:18:03.9834 - Running 15 91.422 5 16 Benjamin Pedersen 55 23 94 02:18:20.0876 - Running 14 91.245 6 17 Santino Ferrucci 14 17 94 02:18:27.2548 - Running 13 91.166 6 18 Rinus VeeKay 21 6 93 02:18:17.4950 - Running 12 90.302 5 19 Felix Rosenqvist 6 1 93 02:18:21.3296 6 Running 13 90.261 5 20 David Malukas 18 22 93 02:18:28.7683 - Running 10 90.180 5 21 Josef Newgarden 2 4 91 02:18:28.2840 - Running 9 88.246 10 22 Devlin DeFrancesco 29 26 91 02:18:50.0001 - Running 8 88.015 6 23 Colton Herta 26 12 80 02:12:45.1323 1 Contact 8 80.921 6 24 Juri Vips 30 13 71 02:18:50.0000 - Running 6 68.671 3 25 Kyle Kirkwood 27 16 65 02:18:43.7580 - Running 5 62.915 3 26 Tom Blomqvist 60 21 61 01:28:09.5902 - Contact 5 92.912 2 27 Graham Rahal 15 10 0 00:00:00.6301 - Contact 5 0.000 0 Source: Indycar.com
2023 Season Results - SPOILER
Rank Driver STP TEX LB BAR GPI IND DET R-AM MOH TOR IOW IOW NASH GPI STL POR WRLS Total 1 Alex Palou 24 36 31 30 53 45 54 51 53 40 25 35 36 26 26 53 38 656 2 Scott Dixon 36 31 5 26 29 35 32 32 41 33 28 29 30 51 53 36 51 578 3 Scott McLaughlin 20 28 20 51 14 16 26 24 30 29 40 31 42 24 31 22 40 488 4 Pato O'Ward 41 41 13 32 41 17 6 35 24 24 35 20 24 35 41 32 23 484 5 Josef Newgarden 13 53 23 16 26 51 21 40 18 30 53 53 32 5 6 30 9 479 6 Marcus Ericsson 51 24 35 20 25 44 23 28 5 20 32 23 27 20 20 26 15 438 7 Will Power 26 14 28 36 18 9 41 18 36 16 32 42 21 28 23 5 32 425 8 Christian Lundgaard 22 11 16 28 34 11 14 26 32 54 10 17 22 33 13 19 28 390 9 Alexander Rossi 32 8 8 24 36 37 31 20 20 14 20 15 11 30 33 10 26 375 10 Colton Herta 10 27 32 16 22 23 19 34 21 35 11 26 9 17 29 17 8 356 11 Kyle Kirkwood 15 5 54 18 16 5 29 22 13 15 26 19 53 22 15 20 5 352 12 Felix Rosenqvist 11 7 26 22 31 16 35 10 5 20 17 33 8 5 24 41 13 324 13 Romain Grosjean 14 17 40 44 19 5 6 5 17 8 19 18 29 12 18 5 20 296 14 Rinus VeeKay 9 19 5 14 17 32 12 18 15 17 13 12 16 19 19 28 12 277 15 Graham Rahal 28 6 18 13 21 8 5 19 27 22 5 10 15 44 10 20 5 276 16 Callum Ilott 30 22 11 17 12 19 5 12 14 12 15 16 18 13 5 15 30 266 17 David Malukas 21 32 10 11 5 5 7 5 28 10 18 24 5 14 35 25 10 265 18 Helio Castroneves 7 20 9 9 8 16 11 15 9 9 16 14 19 15 7 16 17 217 19 Santino Ferrucci 6 9 19 10 7 45 9 14 6 13 5 8 12 7 17 14 13 214 20 Marcus Armstrong 19 0 24 19 15 0 24 7 22 26 0 0 17 6 0 11 24 214 21 Agustin Canapino 18 18 6 5 9 5 16 11 7 18 14 5 10 9 8 5 16 180 22 Devlin DeFrancesco 5 7 14 7 13 17 18 7 16 7 8 9 5 12 11 13 8 177 23 Sting Ray Robb 14 6 12 5 5 5 8 8 8 11 5 5 13 8 9 7 18 147 24 Jack Harvey 8 12 17 6 10 12 13 5 12 6 12 11 6 16 0 0 0 146 25 Conor Daly 16 10 7 5 11 24 15 0 10 0 9 13 0 0 14 0 0 134 26 Ryan Hunter-Reay 0 0 0 0 0 20 0 13 11 5 7 6 14 10 16 9 20 131 27 Benjamin Pedersen 5 15 6 8 6 11 10 9 5 5 5 5 7 5 5 8 14 129 28 Simon Pagenaud 5 13 15 12 5 5 17 16 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 88 29 Takuma Sato 0 5 0 0 0 32 0 0 0 0 23 5 0 0 5 0 0 70 30 Ed Carpenter 0 17 0 0 0 10 0 0 0 0 6 7 0 0 6 0 0 46 31 Linus Lundqvist 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 5 18 12 0 0 35 32 Tony Kanaan 0 0 0 0 0 18 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 18 33 Juri Vips 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 12 6 18 34 Tom Blomqvist 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 5 0 0 0 0 0 6 5 16 35 Marco Andretti 0 0 0 0 0 13 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 13 36 RC Enerson 0 0 0 0 0 5 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 5 37 Katherine Legge 0 0 0 0 0 5 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 5 Source: Indycar.com
The 2024 IndyCar schedule has yet to be released, but should be out by the end of the month.
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Could a language learning model talk to whales? Or a human who speaks a language besides English?
The New Yorker has a provocative article asking the question "Can We Talk To Whales?" It boils down to utilizing language learning models to process a dataset of sperm whale clicks, their codas,...
The New Yorker has a provocative article asking the question "Can We Talk To Whales?" It boils down to utilizing language learning models to process a dataset of sperm whale clicks, their codas, and crossing one's fingers to see if "ClickGPT" can produce actual sperm whale language.
Which makes me wonder if a language learning model been given a library of Chinese sounds and ideograms, without context, then communicated in workable Chinese?
Using a language learning model to learn to speak to whales is an interesting idea, but I'm thinking any LLM assigned the task will wind up chunking out a word salad or something akin to Prisencolinensinainciusol. I'd like to learn more.
24 votes -
Ahsoka - S01E04 Discussion
Spoilers for Ahsoka Season 1, Episodes 1-4; but also Star Wars Rebels & Clone Wars, or really any Star Wars (including Mando/Book of Boba) is fair game. I kept the title vague but I really want to...
Spoilers for Ahsoka Season 1, Episodes 1-4; but also Star Wars Rebels & Clone Wars, or really any Star Wars (including Mando/Book of Boba) is fair game.
I kept the title vague but I really want to discuss the World Between Worlds.
For those unfamiliar that is where Ahsoka found herself at the end of episode 4. For those familiar (again, Rebels spoilers) it is a special Force place that can view and, in at least one instance, interact with the past. By all accounts it also has some echos of the future.
It's not technically "time travel" but it will potentially be viewed as such and have a similarly long lasting affect on the Star Wars universe.
Do you think the World Between Worlds is a good idea? What story do you want to see told? What story do you think will be told?
13 votes -
Horror movies - let's talk creature features!
Good morning, afternoon, and evening everyone! I hope everyone's doing well, or at least hanging in there this weekend. Now let's talk about horror movies that feature monsters or animals killing...
Good morning, afternoon, and evening everyone! I hope everyone's doing well, or at least hanging in there this weekend. Now let's talk about horror movies that feature monsters or animals killing people in various fashions!
Are you a fan of monsters from outer space, or a more grounded flick about an alligator terrorizing the sewers of 1980s NYC? What about man-made horrors beyond our comprehension? A dog that was having a bad day after being bitten by a rabid bat? Let your voice be heard in the comments below!
I'll start with a movie the Sci-fi channel used to show every now and then (though it originally aired as a mini-series on ABC): The Beast, based off of Peter Benchley's novel of the same name. If the author sounds familiar, he wrote a book you may have heard of: Jaws.
Featuring a giant squid terrorizing yet another idyllic New England town, The Beast isn't a very good movie when you get down to it, but it's an enjoyable watch nonetheless. It's essentially a 90s remake of Jaws with a giant squid instead of a shark, but it has a certain coziness and warmth to it that I enjoy. It's not even close to my favorite creature feature, but it was on my mind so I figured I'd let someone else talk about how awesome Lake Placid is. And this movie has Gil Grissom from CSI going up against a giant squid, so that's pretty neat.
Anyway, it's the weekend, let's watch some horror movies!
25 votes -
Fresh Album Fridays: Olivia Rodrigo, James Blake, The Chemical Brothers and more
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest! Discussion...
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest!
Discussion Points
What are you looking forward to listen to?
Have you listened to any of these releases?
What are your thoughts?
What have you enjoyed from these artists in the past?Why Friday?
Most (but not all) new LPs release on a Friday, as labels want to give the release a full week of sales before entering the charts.
~~ Feedback on the format welcome!
14 votes -
Futurama Season 8 Episode 7 discussion
Episode title: Rage against the Vaccine
14 votes -
Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like misinformation, lightbulbs.led and pilots. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone...
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like misinformation, lightbulbs.led and pilots. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was interested.
But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched
offbeatstories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!6 votes -
How many songs does a band need to have that you like for you to say you really like them?
I've realized the amount of bands that I'd describe as "really liking them" despite only regularly listening to 3-6 of their songs is pretty high. While I have a fair number of bands that I like...
I've realized the amount of bands that I'd describe as "really liking them" despite only regularly listening to 3-6 of their songs is pretty high. While I have a fair number of bands that I like 10+ songs from, the vast majority of bands I'd recommend have a much smaller pool. I was just listening to LCD Soundsystem, a band I've loved for years, and I realized I only regularly listen to 4 of their songs (All My Friends, Daft Punk is Playing..., Dance Yrself Clean and New York I Love You...). TV on the Radio, another band I've really been trying to get people to listen to lately, I only like 6 of their songs. And with a lot of these bands it's not even that I just haven't listened to a lot of their music. TVotR I've listened to 3/5 albums all the way through, and while there were a lot of songs I maybe sorta enjoyed, only 6 of them were good enough that I actually saved them.
It gets harder for me because there are also a lot of bands out there that I like 3+ of their songs but wouldn't describe myself as a big fan. Eminem, for example, I have like 15 of his songs saved but I'd definitely say I like TV on the Radio more.
I feel like for me it's more about how much I like the songs rather than the quantity. Like on a scale of 1-10 where 1 is barely liking it and 10 is absolutely loving it (so entirely ignoring songs I don't like), Eminem has a lot of like 4-7s whereas all of the TVotR songs I like I'd rate as 9s or 10s.
26 votes -
Midweek Movie Free Talk
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here. Please just try to provide fair warning of...
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
15 votes -
Tildes Video Thread
Find yourself watching tons of great videos on [insert chosen video sharing platform], but also find yourself reluctant to flood the Tildes front page with them? Then this thread is for you. It...
Find yourself watching tons of great videos on [insert chosen video sharing platform], but also find yourself reluctant to flood the Tildes front page with them? Then this thread is for you.
It could be one quirky video that you feel deserves some eyeballs on it, or perhaps you've got a curated list of videos that you'd love to talk us through...
Share some of the best video content you've watched this past week/fortnight with us!
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Midweek Movie Free Talk
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here. Please just try to provide fair warning of...
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
4 votes -
The blight of bright white LEDs
I feel like I'm the only one noticing this and it's driving me crazy. With everyone transitioning away from incandescent, it seems like anywhere you go now there are these blindingly bright and...
I feel like I'm the only one noticing this and it's driving me crazy. With everyone transitioning away from incandescent, it seems like anywhere you go now there are these blindingly bright and high color temperature LED lights. Of course, if LEDs are better and more energy efficient we should use them. But whenever I've tried buying LED bulbs, they've been consistently brighter and higher color temperature than the stated lumens and Kelvin. And a lot of times, it's just extremely difficult to find LED bulbs for certain shapes at a reasonable luminosity. Like our house uses a lot of BR30 bulbs that are supposed to be around ~400 lumens, but the lowest you can possibly find is 650.
I'm genuinely concerned what effect this is going to have on our shared spaces and even potentially our psychology/circadian rhythm. There's an especially egregious example on an important cultural street in the city, where there's this truly blinding light in a parking lot about a third the way from the edge to the center of the district that makes the entire immediate area extremely unpleasant to be in. Someone tell me I'm not crazy.
63 votes -
What's your honest opinion about people who are not afraid of asking for what they want?
Apologies for the wordy title. Generally speaking, I do not hesitate to ask for things - needs, wants, help - especially in a professional context. I realize though that most people are not like...
Apologies for the wordy title. Generally speaking, I do not hesitate to ask for things - needs, wants, help - especially in a professional context.
I realize though that most people are not like me, and I think it would come across as a bit narcissistic if I started asking my acquaintances and friends about their perception of me. It's a bit of a self-serving question even here, but oh well.
In any case, I turn to you: what is your honest opinion about people that ask for what they want? Do you have a positive or negative perception of them? Or maybe you can share some interesting anecdotes.
27 votes -
Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like artificial intelligence, highways and school meals. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if...
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like artificial intelligence, highways and school meals. Tags culled from the highest voted topics from the last seven days, if anyone was wondering.
But one of my favourite tags happens to be offbeat! Taking its original inspiration from Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched
offbeatstories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!25 votes -
What will prevent this site from becoming Reddit 2.0?
And I don’t mean that in a good way. In just a few years, Reddit has devolved from a place to find relevant and quirky information, to basically a platform pushing outrage porn, political...
And I don’t mean that in a good way. In just a few years, Reddit has devolved from a place to find relevant and quirky information, to basically a platform pushing outrage porn, political divisiveness, and mindless memes, with occasional humor sprinkled in.
The outrage porn is the worst, just exhausting and tiresome. The voting mechanics are mostly to blame for this. Since outrage draws the most engagement, the more people who interact with the site, then the more this type of material will surface and thrive.
The political divisiveness germinates similarly, with the added impetus of state actors throwing fuel on the flames.
The memes are seemingly harmless, but are no substitutes for actual dialogue.
I would just like to see a platform that places a premium on meaningful social dialogue for the future betterment of all involved.
15 votes -
Formula 1 Grand Prix of Italy (Monza) 2023 - Results
That was a pretty good race. The Ferrari boys definitely entertained today! On to Singapore in two weeks! Results -- SPOILER POS NO DRIVER CAR LAPS TIME/RETIRED PTS 1 1 Max Verstappen RED BULL...
That was a pretty good race. The Ferrari boys definitely entertained today!
On to Singapore in two weeks!
Results -- SPOILER
POS NO DRIVER CAR LAPS TIME/RETIRED PTS 1 1 Max Verstappen RED BULL RACING HONDA RBPT 50 1:12:13.618 25 2 11 Sergio Perez RED BULL RACING HONDA RBPT 50 +7.686s 18 3 55 Carlos Sainz FERRARI 50 +11.674s 15 4 16 Charles Leclerc FERRARI 50 +12.119s 12 5 63 George Russell MERCEDES 50 +18.925s 10 6 44 Lewis Hamilton MERCEDES 50 +39.111s 8 7 23 Alexander Albon WILLIAMS MERCEDES 50 +45.198s 6 8 4 Lando Norris MCLAREN MERCEDES 50 +45.549s 4 9 14 Fernando Alonso ASTON MARTIN ARAMCO MERCEDES 50 +46.424s 2 10 77 Valtteri Bottas ALFA ROMEO FERRARI 49 +65.950s 1 11 2 Logan Sargeant WILLIAMS MERCEDES 49 +71.398s 0 12 81 Oscar Piastri MCLAREN MERCEDES 49 +72.240s 0 13 40 Liam Lawson ALPHATAURI HONDA RBPT 49 +73.268s 0 14 18 Lance Stroll ASTON MARTIN ARAMCO MERCEDES 49 +81.658s 0 15 24 Zhou Guanyu ALFA ROMEO FERRARI 49 +81.913s 0 16 10 Pierre Gasly ALPINE RENAULT 49 +82.236s 0 17 27 Nico Hulkenberg HAAS FERRARI 49 +1 lap 0 18 20 Kevin Magnussen HAAS FERRARI 49 +1 lap 0 NC 31 Esteban Ocon ALPINE RENAULT 39 DNF 0 NC 22 Yuki Tsunoda ALPHATAURI HONDA RBPT 0 DNF 0 Source: F1.com
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Fresh Album Fridays: Slowdive, Jeff Rosenstock, Royal Blood and more
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest! Discussion...
Good morning ~ This is a thread to discuss new album releases that have arrived on our doorstep this week. Feel free to share albums and EPs that have caught your eye and interest!
Discussion Points
What are you looking forward to listen to?
Have you listened to any of these releases?
What are your thoughts?
What have you enjoyed from these artists in the past?Why Friday?
Most (but not all) new LPs release on a Friday, as labels want to give the release a full week of sales before entering the charts.
~~ Feedback on the format welcome!
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Offbeat Fridays – The thread where offbeat headlines become front page news
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like indictments, ukraine and superconductors. All very worthy and well worth discussing, undoubtedly. But one of my favourite...
Tildes is a very serious site, where we discuss very serious matters like indictments, ukraine and superconductors. All very worthy and well worth discussing, undoubtedly.
But one of my favourite tags is offbeat, and a cursory glance sadly reveals that this tag has only been utilised five times in the month of August.
Inspired by my own recent post on Sir Nils Olav III, this thread is looking for any far-fetched
offbeatstories lurking in the newspapers. It may not deserve its own post, but it deserves a wider audience!40 votes -
Futurama Season 8 Episode 2 discussion
This thread may contain spoilers. I thought it was pretty good! Better than the last episode, we were pleasantly surprised here at house Godzilla. We actually watched the older episode where Kif...
This thread may contain spoilers.
I thought it was pretty good! Better than the last episode, we were pleasantly surprised here at house Godzilla. We actually watched the older episode where Kif gets pregnant the night before, so we were very curious to see how Amy would handle everything. Feels were had.
What were your thoughts? Let your voice be heard!
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NASCAR - Darlington Cook Out Southern 500
Darlington is the first race of the NASCAR playoffs. 367 laps Network NBC Didn't see a thread for discussion of the race so thought I would start one. Who is everyone pulling for? Ive been a...
Darlington is the first race of the NASCAR playoffs.
367 laps
Network NBCDidn't see a thread for discussion of the race so thought I would start one. Who is everyone pulling for? Ive been a Blaney fan for awhile, but I'm excited to see what RFK can do.
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How is moderation going lately?
I am a reddit refugee and I was drawn to this network by its mission, its decisive rebuff of chasing capital at all costs, and the overall vibe. I lurked for a while before I was invited to join,...
I am a reddit refugee and I was drawn to this network by its mission, its decisive rebuff of chasing capital at all costs, and the overall vibe.
I lurked for a while before I was invited to join, but shortly after joining I noticed something. While a good discussion from opposing viewpoints can help everyone broaden their horizons a bit, it felt like white supremacists were testing the waters. While I can't directly cite any threads, there were a couple instances where I felt one side was seeing just how close they could get without being obvious. But it felt like some of the subtler dog whistles were there.
It felt very similar to how QAnon got a lot of people with the disinformative statistic about child abductions. After all, who's going to be on the other side "child abductions are bad?"
After seeing a few threads and getting the same vibe, I stopped visiting the site for the last couple months. Life getting pretty busy also helped.
I haven't been back long enough to determine for myself whether I'm in a "Nazi bar" or not. I would be happy to admit that it was all in my head. But it is a major concern for any up-and-coming social network. And that's an opposing viewpoint no one needs to take seriously. Was it in my head? Was I reading too much into things? Did all the nazis just go to X? More generally, how has moderation been with the influx of new users? The same, but more? A couple extra reminders doing the trick? Uptick in bans? Is this information already somewhere and I'm a bad user for not having seen it?
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Formula 1 Grand Prix of Italy (Monza) 2023 - Qualifying Results
Not as crazy as F2 Qualifying, at least. That's certainly worth a watch. Looking forward to the race tomorrow. Will probably be the first race in awhile with no rain! Results -- SPOILER POS NO...
Not as crazy as F2 Qualifying, at least. That's certainly worth a watch.
Looking forward to the race tomorrow. Will probably be the first race in awhile with no rain!
Results -- SPOILER
POS NO DRIVER CAR Q1 Q2 Q3 LAPS 1 55 Carlos Sainz FERRARI 1:21.965 1:20.991 1:20.294 20 2 1 Max Verstappen RED BULL RACING HONDA RBPT 1:21.573 1:20.937 1:20.307 21 3 16 Charles Leclerc FERRARI 1:21.788 1:20.977 1:20.361 21 4 63 George Russell MERCEDES 1:22.148 1:21.382 1:20.671 21 5 11 Sergio Perez RED BULL RACING HONDA RBPT 1:21.911 1:21.240 1:20.688 21 6 23 Alexander Albon WILLIAMS MERCEDES 1:21.661 1:21.272 1:20.760 21 7 81 Oscar Piastri MCLAREN MERCEDES 1:22.106 1:21.527 1:20.785 24 8 44 Lewis Hamilton MERCEDES 1:21.977 1:21.369 1:20.820 21 9 4 Lando Norris MCLAREN MERCEDES 1:21.995 1:21.581 1:20.979 23 10 14 Fernando Alonso ASTON MARTIN ARAMCO MERCEDES 1:22.043 1:21.543 1:21.417 19 11 22 Yuki Tsunoda ALPHATAURI HONDA RBPT 1:21.852 1:21.594 15 12 40 Liam Lawson ALPHATAURI HONDA RBPT 1:22.112 1:21.758 15 13 27 Nico Hulkenberg HAAS FERRARI 1:22.343 1:21.776 16 14 77 Valtteri Bottas ALFA ROMEO FERRARI 1:22.249 1:21.940 14 15 2 Logan Sargeant WILLIAMS MERCEDES 1:21.930 1:21.944 15 16 24 Zhou Guanyu ALFA ROMEO FERRARI 1:22.390 8 17 10 Pierre Gasly ALPINE RENAULT 1:22.545 7 18 31 Esteban Ocon ALPINE RENAULT 1:22.548 8 19 20 Kevin Magnussen HAAS FERRARI 1:22.592 8 20 18 Lance Stroll ASTON MARTIN ARAMCO MERCEDES 1:22.860 9 Source: F1.com
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What would you change about your past if you could?
If you had only ONE OPPORTUNITY to change ONE event in your past, what would you have changed? I would never have ended my relationship the way I did, with cheating.
46 votes -
A reading challenge!
Are you stuck in a reading rut? Can’t decide what to read next? Overwhelmed by choice? Join me in my reading challenge! The challenge is simple - read the alphabet. Start by choosing an author...
Are you stuck in a reading rut? Can’t decide what to read next? Overwhelmed by choice? Join me in my reading challenge!
The challenge is simple - read the alphabet. Start by choosing an author whose surname begins with A, next book the surname begins with B and so on through the whole alphabet.
I did this a few years ago after having a baby, and in my sleep-deprived haze couldn’t make decisions easily. The library was too overwhelming and I needed to narrow down my options somehow!
I have additional rules for myself, like I try to prioritise female and POC writers as I find myself tending to read a lot of white men, but it isn’t a hard and fast rule for me - first and foremost it has to be a book I’m keen to read.
I propose organising the comments like this: top line comments will be the letter, replies to that will be the book you chose, plus a short summary or review (even just a rating out of 5 will do) to help others find books they might like, and then people can discuss the individual books under those comments if they like. This keeps everything in one post for people not interested to ignore, and hopefully builds up a nice reference of all sorts of books in one place.
Happy reading!
Edit: I guess there’s a limit on quick comments to avoid spam so we’ve just got the first few letters for now. I’ll come back to complete the alphabet when I can :)
42 votes -
Formula 1 race weekend (Netherlands GP) thread
21 votes -
YouTube's privacy settings now block you from seeing suggested content
I've always been a bit of a privacy enthousiast. Have had everything blocked that Google and by extension YouTube wants to scrape off you. This means I've also blocked my view history. Recently...
I've always been a bit of a privacy enthousiast. Have had everything blocked that Google and by extension YouTube wants to scrape off you. This means I've also blocked my view history.
Recently YouTube started giving out a warning on the homepage that you have blocked your view history, that you can change it in your privacy settings and that it helps them serve you better content. What it also means is that your homepage is just one big popup to guilt trip you into sharing your data. The homepage won't show any suggested content anymore.
While it is in their interest to do so and since they are a company wanting to make money it is understandable. Nevertheless it seems harsh from going to see content that you might like to only seeing a big warning sign right now.
What are you experiences with this?
34 votes -
September Sumo Basho Discussion
With the next basho fast approaching I was curious about what everyone is looking forward to and excited about. I'm hoping for a full house of the senior sanyaku rikishi (maybe Terunofuji's knees...
With the next basho fast approaching I was curious about what everyone is looking forward to and excited about.
I'm hoping for a full house of the senior sanyaku rikishi (maybe Terunofuji's knees will be ready for action) and we can see some exciting matches between them. I'm also still trying to decide on new favorites after Ichinojo and Tochinoshin both retired.
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Bomb Rush Cyberfunk release topic
Developer: Team Reptile (Megabyte Punch, Lethal League, Lethal League Blaze) Platforms: Steam, GOG, Nintendo Switch (August 18) PlayStation 5, Xbox Series X, Xbox One (September 1) Trailers:...
Developer:
- Team Reptile (Megabyte Punch, Lethal League, Lethal League Blaze)
Platforms:
- Steam, GOG, Nintendo Switch (August 18)
- PlayStation 5, Xbox Series X, Xbox One (September 1)
Trailers:
Reviews:
Description:
Team Reptile brings you Bomb Rush Cyberfunk, a future world from the mind of Dion Koster where self-styled graffiti crews equipped with personal boostpacks are battling each other for control of the streets. Start your own cypher and dance, paint graffiti, collect beats, combo your tricks and face off with the cops to stake your claim to the sprawling metropolis of New Amsterdam.
(What the official description won’t say is that this game is an unofficial love letter to Jet Set Radio on the Dreamcast and Jet Set Radio Future on the Xbox. Hideki Naganuma even contributed new songs to the soundtrack.)
33 votes -
Tildes Video Thread
To avoid the homepage getting swamped with too many YouTube links, we're doing a recurring thread to gather them up. What are the best videos you have watched this past week/fortnight?
9 votes -
Defunct studios discussion - Who remembers Black & White?
I just finished playing through the Fata Deum demo and you can really feel the B&W roots, even if it's minus your pet. While there's lots to be excited about off the back of Fata Deum, it does...
I just finished playing through the Fata Deum demo and you can really feel the B&W roots, even if it's minus your pet.
While there's lots to be excited about off the back of Fata Deum, it does kill me that this IP was left for dead considering how innovative the gameplay was at the time and how much potential it had.
Does anyone have fond memories of other hits from now defunct studios?
31 votes -
What are your thoughts on DREDGE?
18 votes -
A creative journey in creating a board game
My buddy and I grew up in the 80's and 90's together in a mostly analog world, so we spent a bunch of time outside on bikes and getting dirty. We played board games a lot with each other and our...
My buddy and I grew up in the 80's and 90's together in a mostly analog world, so we spent a bunch of time outside on bikes and getting dirty. We played board games a lot with each other and our family, but as the turn of the century hit we were more engrossed in technology.
We both ended up in careers around creative design and technology, but still have that nostalgia from our past. We have been hanging out this past year and started streaming on Twitch so we can put our skills to use in a fun hobby.
Since January we had the idea to see how far we could push AI to help us create a board game! It's been a fun time starting from nothing and producing something. While the AI craze and controversy are out there. We realized that going all AI to make a fun game wasn't going to work. We've been using it as a tool but adding a lot of ourselves to it.
We hope to give a free downloadable and 3d printable version out. We are excited to get where we are and have an actual fun game. We figured we'd share our progress of the game. Frostbite: The Curse of Doctor Frost
Does anybody know of communities that would be into downloading, printing, and playing board games?
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Have you watched the The Bear? If so, what did you think?
Premise - TL;DW - A young chef from the fine dining world comes home to Chicago to run his family sandwich shop after a heartbreaking death in his family. A world away from what he's used to,...
Premise - TL;DW -
A young chef from the fine dining world comes home to Chicago to run his family sandwich shop after a heartbreaking death in his family. A world away from what he's used to, Carmy must balance the soul-crushing realities of small business ownership, his strong-willed and recalcitrant kitchen staff and his strained familial relationships.
With season 2 being released this past weekend I wanted to see if anyone on Tildes was watching it. Right now, I think it might be my favorite show. There is no hamfisted comedy. The dialog seems shockingly/surprisingly human. It has stakes, but its not overwhelming or action-packed cheese.
The whole context of the show is surprisingly fresh, a lot of the characters have flaws but good even realistic redemption or growth. I think one of the most surprising things (for me at-least) is the lack of a love interest, I can't recall the last time a show didn't have one. I could go on and gush about this show some more, but I wanted to see if anyone here watched it.
If not, give it a chance. I think you might like it.
44 votes -
Midweek Movie Free Talk
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here. Please just try to provide fair warning of...
Have you watched any movies recently you want to discuss? Any films you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
9 votes -
Meat eaters of Tildes - what have you tried to make use more ethical?
I'm going to start with three questions but feel free to propose your own: What if anything have you tried around finding and using more ethical sources of meat? What cooking methods and recipes...
I'm going to start with three questions but feel free to propose your own:
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What if anything have you tried around finding and using more ethical sources of meat?
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What cooking methods and recipes do you use that reduce the amount of meat you eat in a meal?
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What vegetarian protein sources do you find palatable and tasty?
45 votes -
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Fellow writers: How the heck do you choose titles?
This is quite possibly one of the greatest struggles to writers: choosing a title. You'd think that writing a chapter or story would be the hard part, and to an extent it is, but somehow I almost...
This is quite possibly one of the greatest struggles to writers: choosing a title. You'd think that writing a chapter or story would be the hard part, and to an extent it is, but somehow I almost always draw a blank at the title. Sometimes, I get lucky and a title just comes to me instantly. Usually though, I'm left staring at the top of the page after finishing trying to figure out what to call it. This doesn't just include the overall story, but even the title of individual chapters. Last year when submitting a short story for a contest, I had no clue what the heck to title it and ended up going with something like "Hawksbills and Ospreys" because the deadline was right there.
I know this is a common problem for writers. As someone who's active in the fan fiction sphere, the most common trick I see (and that I've used myself) is to pull a title from song lyrics or poems.
What about you? What are your tricks for trying to get inspiration for titles, and what sorts of "guidelines" do you follow to try to make them stand out?
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Meta-discussion about the "Regional news thread" and possible future attempts
About this one: https://tildes.net/~news/19bm/regional_news_thread First of all I want to thank everyone who participated and gave it a shot despite the weird setup, and apologize for ghosting the...
About this one: https://tildes.net/~news/19bm/regional_news_thread
First of all I want to thank everyone who participated and gave it a shot despite the weird setup, and apologize for ghosting the meta-discussion about it. Y'all have many suggestions which convinced me that my original idea was flawed.
For one, I agree with Algernon_Asimov that splitting into a separate 'US-local news' and 'non-US global news' would have made more sense. If there's a next round, I think I'd focus on US states first, then non-US countries in another thread. But before that I want to get some feedback to make sure.
Do you think general news threads like that are necessary?
Algernon_Asimov said that news should just be posted directly to the frontpage to be more visible.
spit-evil-olive-tips made a point about the distinction between local news of general interests vs. local news of local interests, and the latter could benefit from having dedicated threads.
For me, I believe megathreads are fine as long as they're optional. In my experience, people do sometimes prefer to post in comments instead of as full topics. As long as people are free to choose either way (which is different than on Reddit where if there's a megathread then posts outside it got removed), overall we should end up with more activity not less.
Does the comment-to-comment format make sense?
In my head I imagine that to be a natural way to generate location-based grouping, but I could see the convoluted setup might be confusing and unenforceable. One the one hand, if each location only has 1 post then the extra step is unnecessary. On the other hand, if there are multiple locations, each with multiple posts then trying to find your regions of interest would be a pain.
Is the scope of the thread too broad?
This was a point made by skybrian here, which was in the context of the original thread being both US and non-US. But even if we divided them into separate US and non-US, are they still too broad?
Having one thread for each location is probably the most natural way, I fear that currently that would ended up being too niche. This was touched on by merry-cherry here as well. I could imagine that would work for a US state (which ever has the most people here) but since no one tried it yet, it's hard to know which states are most likely to succeed. And we probably shouldn't just make one each for all them (which would fill the entire frontpage with nothing but state names).
Should these threads be news-focused?
While that was my original goal, maybe megathreads could be more useful if they fills the needs of the people posting in it rather than just the one starting it. Usually that requires guesswork by the poster but since I'm already asking, might as well.
For the US-local thread, if the goal is to serve as testing grounds to see whether there's enough activity to make the case for local groups, maybe news is not necessarily the most popular when it comes to local content? If anyone support this direction, please share some examples of what types of content you'd like the most when visiting local groups. If you do, please also rank them in order of importance. That way the scope of the thread could be made to focus on the most needed activity as starter.
For the non-US global thread, do you still want dedicated global news? If so how should we set it apart from just regular posting? boxer_dogs_dance mentioned r/anime_titties being quite high quality for global news, any lessons we can adopt from them?
Digging around and I found this post asking about how to do cultural exchange on Tildes, maybe shifting the focus from global news to this might be more fruitful? (people are probably more willing to share nice things about their country than drama). Each subthread can be something like this Turkey Information Thread, or something else maybe.
Should they be recurring?
News probably make sense as recurring, others depend. Since this is still in trial whatever arrangement we agree on, I'll probably just make one and see from there.
Anything else you want to let me know (like maybe don't do this anymore haha), shoot away. Also it's not like I'm an official thread maker or anything, if any of y'all have your own take, go for it! The more people trying out stuff the better.
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What are your thoughts on social nudity?
Got your attention yet? I'm a mod of the nudism sub on that other site, and I've set up camp on KBin and Lemmy in case our users want to revolt, but personally have been enjoying Tildes quite a...
Got your attention yet?
I'm a mod of the nudism sub on that other site, and I've set up camp on KBin and Lemmy in case our users want to revolt, but personally have been enjoying Tildes quite a bit more, despite not having a specific place to host our community (but that isn't what Tildes is for....)
My wife and I have visited many nudist or clothing optional resorts, campgrounds, and beaches in the US and overseas. These are non-sexualized family friendly places, just like any other resort, summer camp, or beach you've been to, except that the vast majority of people aren't wearing clothes. There are multiple worldwide organizations that represent nudists, provide accreditation to resorts and clubs, making sure everyone is "playing by the rules" and maintaining a level of decorum.
Next month we're headed back to a clothing optional music festival that we thoroughly enjoyed last year.
There is something completely freeing about being outside in the sun/breeze/ocean/lake/whatever with no clothing, no connection to your daily life. We both have stressful jobs that require us to be "on-grid" almost all the time, and being able to make these escapes are a way to completely disconnect from the stresses of daily life. And of course, swimming in clothing, and then having to sit around in those wet clothes for the next hour is just a ridiculous idea.
So what say you Tildes (Tilders? Tildesers? Tildees?)? Have you ever skinny dipped or visited a nude beach? Got any questions about the logistics of it?
74 votes -
The impact of an accent on charisma/persuasion
Five years ago, I moved from the southeast US to the northwest. I took my southern accent with me, and, as far as I know, it's been fine. I've been able to get work, make friends, and mostly...
Five years ago, I moved from the southeast US to the northwest. I took my southern accent with me, and, as far as I know, it's been fine. I've been able to get work, make friends, and mostly function as normal.
My accent is light. It doesn't sound southern to other southerners, but it does sound southern anywhere else in the US. People who have commented on it say they like it (but what else would you say, I guess 😅).
But I'm about to take on something that will require me to be persuasive. I'm wondering what Tildes thinks: will my accent diminish my ability to be persuasive? Should I try to train my accent out and develop a more neutral accent?
I find myself torn. On the one hand, a southern accent could immediately call to mind the stereotypes of the south: stubborn people without much education. Maybe it makes sense to let that go and start on a more level playing field. On the other hand, my time growing up in the south is part of my history. It makes me unique and maybe the upset expectations (if someone hears me and expects me to embody those stereotypes I mentioned before) could make me more memorable.
I generally don't like the idea of filing the rough edges off things, especially when those things are people, but at the same time, I have goals I want to achieve and I'm willing to do what it takes to reach them. So, what do you think?
Edit: I appreciate all the comments so far! For a little additional context, I want to be active in local politics. Not trying to run for office or anything. Not sure exactly where I'll be taking that on yet, but it won't be in the south.
41 votes -
Tildes Video Thread
To avoid the homepage getting swamped with too many YouTube links, we're doing a recurring thread to gather them up. What are the best videos you have watched this past week/fortnight?
34 votes -
Horimiya: The Missing Pieces | Discussion thread - all episodes
Alternative title(s) Horimiya: Piece Genres Romance No. Episodes 13 Information MyAnimeList AniList AniDB Synopsis It followed the relationship between Hori and Miyamura, two high school kids...
Alternative title(s) Horimiya: Piece
Genres Romance
No. Episodes 13
Information MyAnimeList AniList AniDBSynopsis
It followed the relationship between Hori and Miyamura, two high school kids slowly forming a bond and falling in love - but only so much manga can be adapted and put into a thirteen-episode series. "Horimiya: The Missing Pieces" is here to fix that: It goes back to the beginning of the original series and fills in the pieces of the original manga that were left out in the first adaptation. From silly moments to quiet ones, this is a chance to reconnect with your favorite characters and see what happened between the scenes of the original.
(from IMDb)
Discussion rules
BEWARE OF SPOILERS. Since all episode discussions are within a single thread, here are some rules to ensure revisits are safe from spoilers.
1. How this thread is organized
- Each top-level comment is a mini-thread for each episode discussion. A new top-level comment will be added whenever another episode is released.
- All discussions must be posted as replies within the appropriate mini-threads only. No discussions should be posted as top-level comments.
- Anything without dedicated mini-threads can be posted under "General chat".
2. How to navigate and avoid spoilers
- Use the "Collapse replies" button to find the appropriate episode discussions more easily, and make potential spoilers less visible.
- You can also use the links at the bottom to jump directly to each episode discussion.
3. When and how to hide spoilers
- Within each mini-thread, discussions about the current and previous episodes are freely allowed.
- But, details about subsequent episodes and source materials are spoilers and must be hidden.
- To hide spoilers, you can follow the "Expandable sections" part of the formatting guide.
Tips on using "Expandable" format for spoilers
Currently there's a flaw where if the comment is collapsed (by using "Collapse replies" or other ways), the hidden parts can still be seen in the small blurbs.
The workaround is to further enclose the spoilers in quote block. See here for an example comment.
Special note:
Since this is a bonus series for the original run of Horimiya, assume there'd be a lot of spoiler for the original show (i.e. details about the original show won't be/ don't have to be hidden). Please watch the original first for the best experience.Direct links to each mini-thread
Episode discussion (main)
| Ep1 | Ep2 | Ep3 | Ep4 | Ep5 | Ep6 | Ep7 | Ep8
General discussion (extra)
| General chat || Main series, Source material,
P/S: See here for more ongoing show discussion threads this season.
10 votes